Nipplemania: - An Advanced Guide for Pain-sluts and Their Partners
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After spanking, nipple torment is probably the most widely practiced S &M activity. It runs the gamut from licking and sucking to biting, pinching, clamps, needles, and fire play. People into BDSM are aware of the commonly available implements for nipple work, even if they haven't personally used all of them. This is not about the generic 'put clamps on, do it, take clamps off.' Rather, here are some idea generators for the advanced practitioner.
These ideas are applicable to the male as well as the female sub. Female nipples are generally more tender than male, but with consistent work can be toughened up considerably. Proceed slowly and increase the intensity over time.
Simple clamping and the use of candle wax are omitted due to their basic nature, and readily available information of their use.
Rather than just putting clamps on, combine several of these disciplines if you desire a grateful, attentive sub.
Probably most people's first exposure to the joys and tears of nipple torment began with simple pinching with the fingertips. Beyond simply pinching and twisting, there are a number of variations for advanced play. Instead of the 'standard' top-and-bottom fingertip pinch, try pinching on the sides of the nipple.
Then there are the fingernails: pinching and twisting/tweaking with the fingernails. Having a sub do this to themselves can yield delightfully sore nipples after a couple of days. Have them do a series of 10 -25 pinches/tweaks at specific intervals throughout the day, perhaps before getting out of bed in the morning, before getting dressed, at mealtimes, bedtime, before a sex session, whenever they use the bathroom, when opening an Email letter from an on-line Master/Mistress, when sending an Email reply, etc.
These can be done on bare skin, or through clothing. Clothing becomes abrasive when the buds are worked in this way.
A couple of days of this training, and even clothing rubbing across those nipples will remind your sub of the discipline.
After the base/body of the nipple is properly sore, fingernail pinches to the very tips will put your sub up on their tiptoes, and extract a satisfying moan.
The feeling and angle can be enhanced by ordering the sub to cross their arms to inflict them, left hand to right nipple, right hand to left.
Other fingernail possibilities include: pinching and pulling straight out, or up, down, to the inside, or outside, or fingernails to the very tips and dragging the nails off the flesh.
Clamps come in two basic varieties, those that crush and those that bite. Most of the commercial ones have adjustment screws so they can be tightened for greater effect. Alligator clamps without the rubber tips represent the 'biters', while most everything else at the 'toy store' are crushers.
Some novel approaches for using these milder clamps include placing them sideways on the nipple, or yanking them off [6-10 repetitions of this, for instance, with clover clamps, will leave them sore and attentive. The human body likes its pain to be balanced, so trick it by putting a clamp from different pairs on each side, or only installing one clamp. Another effective technique is to put a large ring to slide freely on the connector chain. Tie a snap hook to one end of a piece of rope. Shorten the rope so that with a very small loop tied in the other end to slip over a toe or spike heel, it prevents the sub's legs from being straightened without considerable tension to the nipples. This is very useful for keeping a sub's legs apart for penetration. The rope can be shortened enough so that the legs cannot be straightened without actually pulling the clamps off. A whip or cane across the thighs can encourage the sub to complete the discipline.