Too Many Friends

Too Many Friends

My wife is driving me crazy. I'm pulling my hair out trying to cope with her. Deb has never been like this. Not even close in our 14 years together.

But now she's driving me over a cliff, and I'm trying to figure out how to derail the crash that I see coming. The slow, but steady change in Deb is almost impossible for me to stop. She's the most single-minded woman that I know. Her only defense is "I can't stop thinking about it!"

I don't believe just because she turned 40 that an inner switch flipped. Online research is all that I can do for now, but I may have stumbled across some real life facts that may help explain my wife's irrational behavior.

When I was 30 I could party all night, but now I'm 42 I need to get some sleep. Deb's insatiable sex drive is wearing me out. For many years, and still to this day, I let my wife have "friends". Boy's that would step in occasionally and fulfill her extraordinary needs. It didn't start out like this. At first, she was satisfied with a rubber dildo of a porn star. But she eventually became board with a dildo... she required the real thing. Real flesh and blood!

I can blame myself. I let her have a dildo. Furthermore, I knew she used it when I wasn't around because the box she kept it in wouldn't be in the same place. The box moved to different shelves in her bathroom, so I knew when she played with her toy. She fantasized about porno stars bangin her and when she used her toy it became apparent to me that she was thinking about other men.

She liked to punish me and make me sit in a chair, later it became my cuck chair, and watch her fuck her dildo. I couldn't compete with something that big. The dildo was named after a friend from the past, Chris. Deb would talk to me when she played with "Chris." She was usually teasing and telling me how much she loved big dicks. Cumming while she has a big dildo shoved in her pussy, and telling me how much she wants strange dick was beating me down.

I needed to get ahead of this train wreck and see what I could do to slow it down. Research is what I needed to do and Gaagle was going to help. Typing stuff like "Sex drive after 40, Wife's libido after 40," in the search bar yielded some insightful information that I didn't know about women. Being in a healthy sexual relationship keeps the libido going. I've never deprived Deb of anything. We still have sex a couple of times a week and I give her 110%. When my dick gets sore I gotta stop and that's when her friends come to the party.

Hormone levels change and that may trigger an increase in libido. Stress levels affect libido. Becoming more comfortable with her appearance and accepting herself as she is. No kids! Deb couldn't have children so she never worried about having kids before "it's too late." I think all of the above and the interest of a new friend, his name is Conner, has her libido in high gear.

I can deal with her sex drive as long as she doesn't resort to cheating. Over the years Deb has had several lovers......more than 2 dozen from what I remember. So far I've had control by arranging and keeping her "Affairs" under a close eye. Deb started out asking for a playmate maybe three or four months apart. I helped vet her potential boyfriends and I handled all the arrangements. Now she's asking every four to five weeks. It's getting out of hand and I don't know what to do about it. Married couples have issues. Our issue is different from most couples. In moderation, I enjoy having her "friends" over because I have fun to. Sitting in my "Cuck" chair, either in the living room or in our bedroom is my part of the fun and Deb wants me to watch. Watching my wife have sex with other men is addicting.

It's been 3 weeks since we met Conner and Deb is already talking about him coming over again. I started to ask about Gavin. Conner is Gavin's friend, and it was Gavin's idea for them to meet. Deb got the wrong idea from me. She thought I was hinting for her to have Conner and Gavin for a play date at the same time. I should never of mentioned Gavin. Why didn't I keep my mouth shut! I tried to tell her I wasn't saying Gavin should come over to. That's how she understood it and that's what she wants. My loving wife wants her two best friends, Gavin and Conner, to come over.

So the conversation started. I pushed back but it only motivated her more. Night after night when I came home from work we would have the same conversation. When can I arrange a play date for her and her friends? It wasn't that I didn't want to. I did, I really did! But too much of a good thing can be bad for her. I have to prepare myself for the possibility that she will like it a lot and want to see them more often.

I caved. I gave in to her relentless begging for the two boys. My defenses collapsed, and I told Deb that I would call the boys and arrange a date. She always gets her way and I wanted to see it happen deep down inside my heart.

A couple of days later after many phone calls and emails I arranged a play date between Conner, Gavin, and my wife. Gavin told me a month ago he thought Deb would go for a double team and he was right. I kept the arrangements secret for a few days, so I could interject a small amount of punishment on Deb and make her wait. Wednesday evening after dinner I told my wife about the arrangements I had made for her and her two "friends." Saturday, 3 pm at our house. All I want to do is sit in either "cuck" chair and watch her boyfriends punish her with their big penis!

Either my experiment will make her libido worse or she will get her fill of sex and slow down some. What do you think will happen?

The End... For Now