I can blame myself. I let her have a dildo. Furthermore, I knew she used it when I wasn't around because the box she kept it in wouldn't be in the same place. The box moved to different shelves in her bathroom, so I knew when she played with her toy. She fantasized about porno stars bangin her and when she used her toy it became apparent to me that she was thinking about other men.
She liked to punish me and make me sit in a chair, later it became my cuck chair, and watch her fuck her dildo. I couldn't compete with something that big. The dildo was named after a friend from the past, Chris. Deb would talk to me when she played with "Chris." She was usually teasing and telling me how much she loved big dicks. Cumming while she has a big dildo shoved in her pussy, and telling me how much she wants strange dick was beating me down.
I needed to get ahead of this train wreck and see what I could do to slow it down. Research is what I needed to do and Gaagle was going to help. Typing stuff like "Sex drive after 40, Wife's libido after 40," in the search bar yielded some insightful information that I didn't know about women. Being in a healthy sexual relationship keeps the libido going. I've never deprived Deb of anything. We still have sex a couple of times a week and I give her 110%. When my dick gets sore I gotta stop and that's when her friends come to the party.
Hormone levels change and that may trigger an increase in libido. Stress levels affect libido. Becoming more comfortable with her appearance and accepting herself as she is. No kids! Deb couldn't have children so she never worried about having kids before "it's too late." I think all of the above and the interest of a new friend, his name is Conner, has her libido in high gear.
I can deal with her sex drive as long as she doesn't resort to cheating. Over the years Deb has had several lovers......more than 2 dozen from what I remember. So far I've had control by arranging and keeping her "Affairs" under a close eye. Deb started out asking for a playmate maybe three or four months apart. I helped vet her potential boyfriends and I handled all the arrangements. Now she's asking every four to five weeks. It's getting out of hand and I don't know what to do about it. Married couples have issues. Our issue is different from most couples. In moderation, I enjoy having her "friends" over because I have fun to. Sitting in my "Cuck" chair, either in the living room or in our bedroom is my part of the fun and Deb wants me to watch. Watching my wife have sex with other men is addicting.
