You can be broke and divorced, or rich with a happy marriage.
What is the price tag to accept infidelity? Ask John.
John and Tina had been married for twenty-two years. They met in college and had an instant attraction. Like all marriages, it had its ups and downs. The last year had been difficult. John realized their problems started when Tina was promoted to the CEO's secretarial post. She had become distant. Their sex life which Tom considered above average dropped from a few times a week to Saturdays. Without the normal enthusiasm, Tina usually shared. He planned on working hard to restore it to what it had been.
They had enough money. John planned on asking her to quit her current job and work in an area she was truly interested in. She was an excellent writer. Maybe she could write some short stories.
John was looking forward to Friday's date night. He planned on discussing with his wife his ideas for improving their marriage. He was hoping tonight would go a little way to repair some of the recent damage.
Tina was at home. She had her plans. She was going to Los Vegas for a week with her boss. Mike was the owner of the company both she and her husband worked for. Her husband was the second-in-command engineer. Tina was the owner's secretary. She called her landline with her cell phone. She left a message.
"John, there will be some changes around here. First I am going away for a week with Tom. When I return I will be spending every Tuesday and Wednesday with Tom. We will occasionally go away for a week. Not often because his wife will get suspicious. Except for what I mentioned our marriage will remain unaffected, the same everything. I still want you but I also want what Tom can give both you and me.
I will be promoted with a huge bump in salary to Tom's assistant. You will be promoted to chief engineer with a raise. The current one has retired. In five years Tom is going to retire. He will offer you the CEO Job and a partnership.
I know you might not want these changes. You can divorce me. Tom will fire you and give you terrible references. I will take as much as I can get for you. I had the house before we married so it will remain mine. I do not want a divorce. I love you. Of course, if you insist I will get the best lawyer and fight it. I will drain as much money from you that I can.
I think that if I sit with you and have a civil conversation that you see we can have a happy life under the new conditions.
You can be broke, or rich with a happy marriage.
Monday if you do not show up at work I will assume you have taken the divorce route. Otherwise, you can go to your new office with your new responsibilities."
After listening to the call, John called a friend of his. Paul was a PI. John paid him to go to Los Vegas and get pictures of Tom and his wife. He told Paul he did not want them for court so he did not care what Paul did to get them.
Saturday night Tina called. John did not answer. She left a message, "Have you made a decision?" He did not respond.
Monday he went to work. His workers welcomed him to his new job. He attacked it vigorously. Tom called him to congratulate him. He did not answer the call. Tom called John's secretary and told her to, "Tell John to return his call." John did not do it.
John continued working until Wednesday. John had removed every paper he had written and erased every file he had created. He did not return any calls. Wednesday afternoon he went to the HR office. He turned in his resignation and did the paperwork to cash in his 401k.