The Not so Long Road Ahead
I want to give you all a brief outline to explain where we were. If you have read my previous stories than your already up to speed. In the previous chapters, I described our journey and what has brought us both to this point. Here is a quick breakdown of those chapters.
Let me give you a little background information on us before I get into telling you the events that unfolded.
My wife and I are a happily married couple that has been married a little over 10 years. Basically what let us to where we are at is a little game between lovers. Something that started as a fun and harmless act has taken a huge turn into some hidden desires. We have an amazing marriage and spend a ton of time having fun and living life to its fullest.
We started with a friendly game of me sitting back and watching my wife flirt with another man in a local bar. What started as a innocent little game took a bit of a turn when the man who approached, had a secret.
He revealed that secret after a very erotic and exciting chat session, he is a sex therapist in a sense. This was after he gave her the famous crimson note, during their last face to face encounter. I still am trying to figure out exactly what made my shy and conservative wife shimmy out of her lacy panties and leave them for her new friend.
The bar flirt thing was just meant to be something exciting and a way to spice up our love life. Turns out my wife and John hit things off and created a meaningful connection. There is still a lot of questions on exactly where he fits into everything at this point. However, you will get a chance to jump on board with us while we all figure things out together.
They have not seen each other in a while, but he has pushed us both to down an uncharted path. What better way to start things out then to re-share the email that took things to a whole new level.
To: NaughtyHotWife@xhoo.com
From: JohnXXX@xhoo.com
Hey Good Looking
Have you ever heard the term of Hotwife or know what that means? It's evident to me your screen name is just a reference to the fact your Hot and a Wife. But there is also another meaning to that name. A "Hotwife" is a term that can apply to any woman whose husband feels she is beautiful and attracts the attention of other men, but more specifically, it is meant to imply that the husband desires some level of interaction between his wife and another man. Research has shown that many men fantasize about watching their woman engaged in some degree of activity with another man.
I agree that may sound like a weird concept for you, but it is an extremely popular hidden fantasy of many married men. There is no reason at this time to tell you all the details about it just yet, but I will leave you with a couple of positive things to help put your mind at ease.
It increases intimacy within the marriage believe it or not. It can give both the man and woman in a couple the perfect chance to gain important knowledge about themselves and each other that can help increase the intimacy of their connection. The new adventures and the wide variety of options dramatically deepen a couple's bond. As well as it increases trust and communication between the couple and brings them closer together.
It's important to tell you this is not anything like the swinging lifestyle you probably have heard of. The husband remains faithful to his wife in the lifestyle I mentioned above. Even though he is very much a part of the process these husbands have no desire to be with other women.
I will tell you I only mentioned the hotwife thing to you for one very important reason. It is no secret that your husband and yourself have a strong and amazing marriage. I can tell how much you are deeply in love with each other. You and he did play that little game in the bar with me so I can assume that part of this idea turns you both on.
The above-mentioned description is not for the faint-hearted or a couple on the rocks. So my disclaimer for you would read as follows. Excitement Ahead...Only Strong and Solid Couples Apply.
I realize this is a lot to take in and a lot to get across in one email.I'd like to keep the conversation going. Are you open to that? I'd like to leave you with a question for your husband. When and if you're interested in finding out more.
"John's suggested we try hotwifing. He 's offered to be our mentor. I don't know what this means yet, but the feeling between my legs says I'd like to put my faith in him, only if you and I go into it united as a couple. How do you feel about that?"
XXX
After I heard the words leave her lips I was shocked. More like I was freaking out on the inside while trying to stay calm on the outside. My brain was in complete overload at that moment. I was asking myself things like What the hell is going on? and What did my conservative wife just suggested? I asked her to give me just a minute before I came back with her answer. I made my way out on the patio to get gather my bearings to get my mind right. My immediate reaction probably would have been a good old fashioned "Hell No". But I didn't want to act on impulse at that moment. After all, I did tell her that we were always in this together and felt she deserved an answer from the heart.
There is no point in lying to you and not admit I haven't found all of the John talk a bit exciting. Heck, the flirting between them has lead to some steamy hot sex. I also am man enough to acknowledge that I was nervous as hell about all of it too. We have always been an adventurous couple in the way we live life. This, however, was going to test us in more ways than one. The worst part of standing out on the patio that day was seeing my wife's reflection in the glass door. I will never forget that look on her face as she waited for my reply. If you are wondering how long it took for me to walk back in the door that day don't worry. What seemed like an eternity in my head was only a few short minutes.
She welcomed me as I made my way back in. I asked her to walk to the bedroom and I would tell her exactly what my decision was. After we both got comfortable and laid back on the bed here is my reply back to her.
"I am sorry if you were worried when I walked outside. It wasn't you, I just needed time to think about that bombshell you just dropped on me. After I had a chance to think about it here is what I have come up with. First of all, I didn't know what this hotwife thing is about or what exactly it entails. You know I love you more than anything in this world. So if this is something you want to explore, then we are in this together. I know its hard for us to discuss our sexual desires and fantasies sometimes. It's strange how we can discuss everything else but sex subjects seem to be our Achilles heel. Babe, we have an amazing marriage and love each other to the moon and back. I think John seems like a good guy and I am fine with this if you are. So the only question I have for you is, does this idea turn you on baby?"
It's not fair at this point to not express with you what she said, so here it goes. She said "Its something I hadn't ever given much thought about before now. But, yes I get turned on by it more than I had ever wanted to admit. I know this is way outside of our comfort zone but I am very curious. This has to be our decision together so that is why I asked you. Of course, I love you and that will never change. So if you are giving me a yes then I will send him an email back tonight to find out more. I love you so much".
We sealed our decision the best way a loving couple could, with a passionate kiss. Let me just tell you the rest of that day was amazing. We acted like a young couple just meeting for the first time. I couldn't get enough of her smile, her touch, and her sexy little butt. What was simply an afternoon of shopping and sightseeing turned into a romantic adventure between a couple deeply in love.
She didn't waste a minute in sending John a replay back. Here is what she wrote.
From: NaughtyHotWife@xhoo.com
To:JohnXXX@xhoo.com
Hello John,
I am sorry it took so long to send you a message back. I thought about using Kik but decided this might be a better forum for this. First things first, WTF was up with that last email. Way to give my ass a heart attack LOL. So I am sure you want my answer but its not a simple YES OR NO sorry.
Yes, I did ask your question to my husband, but it comes with stipulations. Even though he agreed (after stressing me out thinking about it) I do want to make a few things clear. I am intrigued and would love to hear more about the subject. You must never forget that I am not alone on this side of the table. I have ZERO intentions of doing anything that could jeopardize my marriage or family. I love my husband and he will always be my number one. If after you tell me more and its something I don't like, you have to understand either of us can put the brakes on this at any time.
If you are fine with our demands then let me know.
NHW
To: NaughtyHotWife@xhoo.com
From: JohnXXX@xhoo.com
Hi Good Looking,
I am a confident man normally but waiting for your reply did have me stressing out a bit if I am being honest with you.
I have read your list of demands and totally agree with them all. I also want to reiterate that I have NO intention of stealing you away or doing a single thing to hurt your family or the relationship you have with your husband.
I only brought this idea up to you because it was very evident that the times we have talked or flirted you got pretty worked up. I have no doubt your husband has reaped the benefits of that as well.
I think the best option is to start slow and test the waters. The pyramids weren't built in a day and neither is a hotwife. Well, it could be, but that is not the right way to do this so here is what I am proposing.