I am a walking clichΓ© - a bi-married man in a sexless marriage. Unlike many married bi men, I am not in the closet. While the topic rarely comes up in my everyday life nowadays, I was upfront with my wife about being bi-curious before we married. Her acceptance and support were part of what attracted me to her in those early days.
My first time pleasuring another man's cock came in the early years of our marriage with my wife by my side enjoying it with me. We had a very enjoyable bi threesome with a friend that lasted for about a month before it crashed and burned. It was the only time we played with others.
Fast forward 40 years. My wife is no longer interested in intimacy. In my early life, this would have been the end of our marriage. But I love my wife very much and I have too much invested to throw it all away for a chance at physical intimacy. I'm not built to cheat and loath the thought of lying and sneaking around, so my sex life, such as it is, is limited to those few times when there is near-zero chance of it coming back to bite me.
All that brings me to Vegas. It was a few years before COVID, and my company had a booth at a retail expo. It was my first time there and my first time being away from home without my wife and family in many years.
A few months before I was scheduled to go, I started exploring the possibility of hooking up with someone. I searched online and reached out to a guy who was going to be in Vegas at the same time I was. He was a professor at a College up North. We talked and got to know each other a bit before the trip. He was intelligent, articulate, gay, and a decade or so younger than I am.
I wanted it to be more than a blow-and-go encounter. I won't go so far as to say I wanted a date, but what I wanted was more than just a hook-up. I wanted to get naked and spend some time together.
We met in the casino lobby. He was better looking than I was expecting. He was tall with a thin, muscular frame. I suggested getting a drink, but he was more interested in going straight to the room.