People talk about the seven year itch but I never felt the urge to be with anyone other than my wife, Jenny. That doesn't change the fact that, after seven years, our sex life had gotten a little stale. So, I determined to find a way to spice it up. Since I love my wife I also wanted to make sure it was something that would make her happy too.
I started by setting a romantic mood. I bought a few unscented pillar candles and set them up around the room. We did that for a few months and she liked them very much, but I can't say it added a ton of excitement.
Next, I tried buying her some nice lingerie. I gifted her sexy stockings, lacy teddies, and crotchless panties. I think they helped her to feel prettier, and it sure turned me on, but somehow that didn't translate into a lasting thrill.
In another attempt to add spice to our sex-life we had sex in every room of the house and she was a great sport, even participating, if somewhat reluctantly, when we did it in the garage or the backyard.
Nevertheless, lying on top of her in the same position as always continued to be old.
One night in bed, before sex, I asked her what she would like. I hoped merely for her to say Doggy Style, or Woman on Top. Instead, she said she would like me to kiss her all over. I was confused because I already did that. After some back and forth I was able to drag out of her that she, "maybe," "sorta," would like it if I stroked and kissed her armpits too. I guess I never thought to do that nor considered that she would like it.
That evening during foreplay I kissed her body all over. I began at her neck, following a trail down and back up again. I really enjoyed kissing her underboob, well, because boobs turn me on. As I neared her bush I inhaled deeply but stopped at the edge to tease her. I learned a long time ago that she only rarely liked cunnilingus, and then only for brief amounts of time, and only if she were really heated up.
I traveled as far as the top of her foot then reversed direction, I delved into her tender inner thigh, across her sexy, soft belly, then up to her full breasts again. I spent lots of time on her cleavage, which I do because it's a zone for her. I desperately wanted to suckle her nipples but she generally finds that to be too ticklish. Lastly, I included her pits. It wasn't so bad - really. There was the slightest hint of odor. It didn't remind me of the scent of her pussy, it was different, but the fact that it had a scent at all gave me similar feelings. As my lips were in there I felt a slight fuzziness but zero stubble, which also wasn't bad. I was very pleased to see that her level of passion was noticeably higher than normal. It definitely paid off to give her what she wanted.
Kissing and even licking her pits became a thing that we did. She accommodated me by not wearing deodorant on days we were going to have sex because I didn't want to ingest the chemicals. I didn't mind the natural pit smell, even when it was more pungent. It made me feel emotionally connected to inhale her womanly perfume and make it part of me. I don't know why, but I suspect she also got off on me smelling her odor, especially when it was stronger. She decided to let her pit hair grow making them even more like pussy.
One day as we lounged by the pool the subject of body odor came up. I learned that she hated the smell of penises so from that day on I worked diligently to keep super clean down there. I shaved too which seemed slightly emasculating as it made my dick look boyish, but it was easier to keep clean for her. I also learned that she worried about her pussy smell. She thought it was disgusting. She couldn't imagine that I truly liked the look and feel and odor. She questioned whether or not I was repulsed by her armpit smell too. I did my best to convey that I liked the scents that come from women. She didn't say anything, but from that day on I noticed that her hygiene was not as fastidious as before, making me wonder if on some level she wanted me to experience her malodorous fragrances. At the same time she demanded complete odorlessness from me. At first I took it as an affront but upon reflection figured she was probably conflicted but also conceding that we were starting from different places.
As she became less anxious about her smells she relaxed and started to enjoy me exploring more intimate areas of her body. I couldn't put my finger on it but it wasn't just that she was less anxious. She possessed some ill-defined ambivalence toward the indelicate emanations of the human body wanting me to immerse myself in them while also wanting me to reject them. It took about a year but in time she eventually liked to have her pussy kissed and licked - even on its funky days. Her evolving perception of bestial odors freed her almost completely.
I always liked the primordial act of licking a woman's slit so this was all a good turn of events for me. My joyously servicing her pie became, not only more frequent, but a regular part of our lovemaking.
Typically, she would lay on her back and after touching her lovingly, I would next kiss her all over and spend some time lavishing attention on her pits, then wander down to her bush, then labia, then the inner folds, then lastly, her clit. In time, she let loose and started rotating her hips to get the right spot under my tongue. This developed into humping my face, and a few glorious times she put her hands on the back of my head while pressing her cunt up to my lips.
As I said, it stopped being so pristine down there, which was an improvement eighty percent of the time. The rest of the time, well, I love her deeply.
One lone time she spoke while her thighs squeezed either side of my head. I'm not sure, but I think I heard her mumble something about "smelly...place". The memory of what I thought I heard stuck with me and fed my lust with the hope that my shy wife might someday talk dirty.
As years went by, licking her cunt and sucking on her clit were an everytime routine. If having orgasms were a skill then she had learned enough to get a degree. She creamed my face each time I orally gratified her and as time went by moved on to edging herself using my tongue like a sex toy.