A patient I'll call Jim had come in with a situation regarding his sex life with a woman he had been dating for the past six months. I'll refer to her as Jane and you can note by the end that he isn't actually asking for anything medically. He clearly was just venting to a professional and sometimes listening is all I can do.
Here is Jim speaking...
[Jane] and I had been dating for several months and I had started mentioning that I might like to take our relationship to the next level i.e. sex. Jane was very reluctant and implied that her hesitance might be for religious reasons but never actually came out and said it. In fact, she was willing to do almost anything besides intercourse. I finally convinced her to give it a try but she seemed very apprehensive which I found weird because she had been in a 3 year relationship with another man and they were sexually active. I had to wonder if she might have had a bad experience and I hoped that a GOOD sexual encounter would restore her desire.
Long story short, Jane and I were in bed having agreed to sex. I wanted to do my best to be a good lover and focus on her needs but she seemed completely uninterested in foreplay. I tried to stimulate her clitorus but she immediately pushed my hand away leading me to consider the strong possibility that she was simply fridged. Since Jane wasn't interested in foreplay I decided to go right in. I spread her legs apart and brought my hips in but couldn't feel myself penetrating. I could feel the wetness of her vagina but there wasn't the pressure that one feels upon penetration. It felt like I was maybe missing the vagina so I looked down and there were our hips pressed together and my penis was definitely inside her body.
Jane is young, thin and in good shape. She's probably about average to below average in height so one might expect her to have a tight pussy yet here we are in the midst of intercourse and neither of us are feeling it. My penis is normal sized and I've never had a complaint before but I can't feel anything. Jane asks me the question no man wants to hear, "are you in yet?" I go through the motions of sex but I'm not feeling anything and although Jane is making slight but obvious attempts to fake it, it's clear that her meager little moans are unrelated to anything I'm doing. I don't even come close to cumming but I go through the act just to get it over with and then roll off.
I was flummoxed over what to do. It wasn't like next time was going to be any different. It wasn't like her vagina was going to magically tighten up. It was clear that Jane knew the situation which was the reason she was reluctant to have sex and I had to wonder if this wasn't why she and her previous boyfriend broke up. On another occasion, I was stimulating her clitorous with my finger to the point where she got quite wet. I inserted a finger with no negative response from Jane so I went with two then three and four. I had four fingers easily going in and out of her dripping wet vagina and for the first time seemed to be getting an authentic response. There still seemed to be room so I ended up inserting my entire hand and Jane's head rocked back and her eyes closed in a look of actual ecstasy. Was this what it took? An entire hand and I was pushing in all the way to my wrist.
One day, I was having a conversation with Jane about something that happened at the gym involving a fellow with a fairly unique name (I'll call him Justin). Jane suddenly became interested and asked me to describe the guy and after doing so she told me that he was her ex boyfriend. According to Jane the breakup was entirely amicable with no hard feelings. She didn't give any indication as to why they broke up but assured me I should hold no negativity towards Justin
The next time I was at the gym, I mentioned to Justin that we had a mutual acquaintance and he seemed totally cool about it and asked how Jane was doing. We ended up having a really nice conversation but I was trying to somehow find out why they broke up since I was trying to salvage my own relationship which was facing a serious roadblock. I always work out past the time that Justin leaves but we kept talking right back into the locker room and continued while Justin prepared to shower. We were talking about Jane and some of her idiosyncrasies and although some of the stories Justin told were at Jane's expense I didn't sense any ill will and he told some self deprecating stories about himself.
I was undressed to shower when Justin removed his underwear and out dropped a log. A goddamn log. His fucking dick looked like something you might see on a very large pack animal. It was clearly above average in length but it was the girth that was off the charts. His soft dick looked to be thicker than a beer can and I shuddered to think of the girth if he had an erection. All of a sudden everything fell into place. That was the dick that ruined my sex life. Justin had absolutely destroyed Jane's vagina for an average sized man like myself. I was staring right at Justin's dick even as thoughts swam around in my mind and I was doing a terrible job of not being obvious.
Justin gave a bit of an awkward chuckle, patted me on the shoulder and said, "no worries, man.:
What else could he say? Sorry my dick stretched your girlfriend's vagina to the point where it's useless to you. Justin was a really cool guy but damn, if he didn't do some major damage. I wanted to say something fast to break the tension of me staring at his dick and ended up saying something monumentally stupid.
"Makes me wonder now why Jane broke up with you."
Noooooooo. I just said that Justin was a better lover. God damn it.
Justin replied, "As long as things are awesome with you and Jane, it's all good."
Except thing's WEREN'T awesome. You demolished her vagina. You took her cunt and resized it to fit your own forearm thick cock. You made her pussy your own, forever.
Later that evening, I mentioned to Jane that I saw Justin at the gym and we had chatted in the locker room.
"Cool", replied Jane and she started to continue and then stopped abruptly. "Ohhhhhh", said Jane and gave a bit of a grimace.
"So how come you two broke up?" I asked. "Was it the sex?"
Jane immediately gave an emphatic "No" before realizing she answered way too fast and way too enthusiastically. "We just discovered we had different goals in life and were better off as friends."