Sometimes there are events in life that are short-lived but remain an important and wonderful memory. This is one of those memories.
I have always loved the mountains. Not the barren western high country but the dense, tree-covered, misty slopes of the Great Smoky Mountains. There was and still is no better place to find solitude. The nature of my work allowed me a four-day weekend every six weeks. Many times each year I would load the car with camping gear and start the six hour trip to eastern Tennessee. I tended to go at times when the other vacationers would be at a minimum, to enhance the peace and quiet. It was a late spring weekend and the weather forecast was favorable; so off I went for a short getaway.
There are numerous campgrounds in the National Park but one particular place was always my favorite. It was not one of the more heavily used areas and always had few people at this time of year. I arrived early afternoon, picked out the campsite, set up the small tent, and unpacked all of my gear. I like to take photos late in the afternoon so a short nap was needed to regenerate after the long drive. Sleep came easily with the gentle breeze carrying the scent of pine and cedar.
Unfortunately, I awakened to the noise of someone backing a car into the camping space next to mine. I was rather annoyed since there were many empty spaces and did not want to interact with anyone. But, since it was time to grab my camera and head to the inner reaches of the park, I put on my boots and headed out of the tent. My frustration at having a neighbor dissolved when I looked at the new camper. She was unpacking a VW Beetle and seemed to have all of the necessities for a great camp. She was also one of the most gorgeous women that I had ever seen. Anyone who loves camping knows that the clothing is not the most attractive for a woman to wear. But this creature could have been wearing a burlap sack and I would not have noticed. She was of average height, about five feet, six inches. Her hair was long, dark blond, and pulled back into a ponytail.
She was very tanned, very slender, and moved with comfortable grace while assembling her tent. She saw me as I walked to my car, smiled broadly, and said hello. Her smile was enough to stop the average mans heart, mine included. Honestly, it would have been very easy to stay and talk but my shyness led me to the car and off I went. The afternoon lighting is spectacular. The colors are so vibrant and expressive. Without seeing the park in person it is impossible to comprehend how many shades of green can exist. How exciting to kneel and shoot frame after frame of white-tailed deer feeding almost within arms length. After shooting several roles of film the suns shadows were lengthening and it was time to return to camp and fix dinner. I was secretly hoping that she would be there when I returned. The fantasies had been running through my mind since I left the parking place.
There was relief when I saw her car still parked at the site. As I started to set up my stove, she did the same. There were no words spoken, but I took every chance to look her way. She started to her car and spent several minutes rummaging through the backseat and trunk. She had a noticeable look of frustration when she returned to the campsite. I was trying not to be obvious so hearing her voice startled me. When I looked she was walking toward me.
She had forgotten the fuel for her stove and wondered if I had some to spare. Unfortunately, our stoves were of different design and the fuels were not the same. She introduced herself as Melinda from Nashville and asked if she could use my stove to heat water for her meal. I would have started a fire from green wood if it meant spending time with her. She got her food and came to my camp. She told me that camping was also her way to relax and get away from the rigors of everyday life and work. I could not believe the way her green eyes sparkled when she talked. She obviously knew no strangers. It was difficult getting in a word, but listening to her was so different than other women I had known. I found myself immersed in her presence as she talked with common sense and intelligence, on many varied topics. Her questions, when there was time for me to respond, were insightful and intuitive. We hardly realized that while cooking and eating our meal the afternoon had turned into dusk.