Are you thinking about visiting a "swingers' club"? Perhaps you have always wanted to do so, but didn't know how to broach the subject with your spouse or significant other? Maybe you're just curious about what goes on in "one of those places". Perhaps this (true) story will help to lift the curtain and let you glance into the erotic world of an "adult couples' club" and see if it might be for you and the one you love.
A few months ago, "Patty" (name changed) and I would never have even thought about going to a swingers' club. After all, we don't think of ourselves as swingers. We don't swap partners and have no intention of ever doing so. However, we DO enjoy all things erotic and recently discovered how immensely stimulating it is to make love in the same room as another couple watching them as they watch us.
After reading a story posted at literotica.com by bearlee titled "Swinging: Online and Off" (which we highly recommend) we posted a Profile at a swingers' web site and met up with a couple who, like us, are into what's called "soft swing". That phrase is open to various definitions, but essentially means you do NOT swap partners for sexual intercourse. They suggested we join a club in our city that they very much enjoyed and thought that we would, too. What follows is something of an observational report of our second visit to the club. If you (or your spouse) are hesitant to visit a similar establishment, perhaps you will find this helpful. At the end, we include some comments that you could find helpful.
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On Saturday, we made our second visit to a place described as "a very private club" to meet a couple who'd introduced us to the place for our first visit a few weeks back. Like us, they're not true swingers, but enjoy adult fun in an erotic, stimulating environment. This club certainly provides that! No liquor is available (due to a local ordinance), but members are welcome to bring coolers. Set-ups, ice buckets, etc are provided free of charge by the club. The place resembles a large, sophisticated big-city night club... only with erotic extras. As on our first visit, we were impressed by the easy-going, non-threatening atmosphere...
We found our friends at a small table near the pulsing lights and throbbing beat of the dance floor. We settled back to take in all the eye-candy. There are certainly a lot of "beautiful people" in this place. However, it is encouraging to find so many "less-than-gorgeous" couples who, nonetheless, are there to experience some erotic fun. In fact, it was apparent that most of the couples would be considered "ordinary folks" and there was absolutely no feeling that this place was solely for Ken and Barbie...
It was crowded already by 8:00 p.m. and we looked around at the throng. One woman, perhaps in her early 30's was dressed only in a black micro miniskirt and heels (she'd had a tie-front white blouse on for about 15 minutes when she first arrived but shed that once she got on to the dance floor) and we surmised that she had recently had a boob job as she was intent on showing off her new breasts to everyone. In fairness they *were* spectacular; high and round with astonishingly long, tapered nipples. I'd first caught sight of her by following the gaze of the two couples at the next table. I actually said to them, "Should I move back to avoid obstructing your view?!" No need; she wafted slowly by our table to give us an "up close and personal" display...
Two women came in holding hands. One was tall and quite manly wearing a black shirt and slacks; the girlfriend was slim and petite, wearing a frilly white blouse and 'schoolgirl' plaid mini. They stood for a while, looking around, then disappeared into the crowd...
The dance floor was lively. We recognized one stocky woman from our previous visit. As before, she was dancing alone at the edge of the floor in front of (presumably) her husband. She was naked from the waist up, dancing for his pleasure. She continued for most of the night. We noticed he never danced with her; just watched her and watched the others who were watching her, too...
Two women got into the gogo dancer's cage and slowly caressed and stripped each other, swaying to the music and passing each garment out through the bars to their watching male partners...
We went for a walk around the club, skirting the dance floor (where a redhead in a spangled thong was pole dancing beside the DJ booth) and entered a side lounge. There is a small darkened area beyond that where "singles" are allowed to go in and play (the main play rooms are solely for couples who are identified by a stamped hand and singles accompanied by couples who have invited them to join them). We glanced through the net curtain into the "singles" area as we waited for our friends to catch up with us. A woman was seated on a padded bench between two men each of whom was sucking one of her breasts. When we looked in again a few minutes later, she was leaning over to suck one of the men while manually stimulating the other...