For women, this position has its benefits as well. First of all, as I said, they too love the semi-nasty "fuck my brains out" connotation of this position. There's something very primal about it. But there's a lot more to it. A man can easily go balls-deep in this position, shoving his entire five inches (making myself feel like a porn-star here) into her. Since the much talked about but hard to find G-spot is right behind the front wall of the vagina, fucking her in the doggie-style position has the right angle to seek and destroy, meaning another one of those shattering orgasms. Not bad, huh?
Keep this in mind, too. You can stay relatively straight and hold her hips, or lean forward and hold her shoulders, which I personally like because you can really go deep this way. Or, use your hands to caress her breasts, rub her clit, or any other of a variety of other ways to make it even hotter. You haven't lived until she's so hot that she takes your fingers in your mouth and sucks on them while you...well, you get the picture.
Lastly, doggie-style is a natural for anal sex, for those of you who like that sort of thing, God bless you. A little lube, the right music, a glass of wine...don't get me started. Just do it.
By the way, nothing says that doggie style is reserved for the bed, floor or couch. Standing doggie is great, too. Bend her over the sink while she's putting on her makeup and you may just make her day – and yours as well. Over the back of a couch is good, too, because she can sort of sink in a bit – comfortably – while you deliver the mail (you think it's easy to come up with new ways to say it?)
I'm sure you've heard the expression, "There's a fine line between pleasure and pain." I'm not getting into a whole discussion of S&M or the final points of anal sex here. What I'm saying is that often, that extra little bit of stimulation, such as squeezing her nipple or her ass at just the right moment, can have explosive consequences. In doggie style, you can gather her hair in your hand and hold it like a rein, if she likes it, then pull (not too hard!) when she's getting close to the big "O" and she may experience that pain/pleasure connection. Understand; I'm not talking about pulling her hair like a 5-year old does. I'm talking about gathering all of the lovely hair you can fit in your hand and pulling – firmly, but not so hard that you're pulling her head and hurting her neck. My motto, as you may have guessed, is that if you don't try it, you'll never know!
Cowgirl: The ride of your life
Image yourself sitting on a couch, your legs naturally hanging off. A buxom female climbs on top of you, inserting your cock deep (and there's no other choice) inside of her. Now you're holding her hips while your cock does a dance inside her hot, wet pussy which is sliding all over your...am I dreaming? Maybe. But this is known as the cowgirl position, except that instead of riding a horse, she's riding your pole. If she were to turn around, giving you an exquisite view of her back, and allowing your hands to squeeze her nipples, cup her breasts, rub her clit –whatever those playful hands want to do – this is called reverse cowgirl.
Either way, the position is wonderful. First of all, you're so deep inside that you may be bumping up against her cervix and sending shivers throughout her. Second, when she's facing you, you can watch her face while she goes through the various stages of ecstasy leading to inevitable orgasm, and how hot is that? Ever see a girl throw her head back, her mouth wide open, while she's hit with a tidal wave of pleasure? Let me tell you... it doesn't suck. Makes you want to cum like a fire hydrant.
Her too, because in this position, your cock is sliding up and down her clit with each thrust. And what does she see? She can look into your eyes, hold your strong (well, they should be) chest and shoulders and watch as you, too, go through the phases of passion that lead to your climax. As the expression goes, it's a win/win scenario.
Her legs can be on the ground or on your legs. In reverse cowgirl, you can both watch a porn while you're making love! Is that fun?...God, yes. There's also reverse anal cowgirl of course, which is only as much fun as having your first drink after a week in the desert.
Spooning: Your favorite Dessert
At last, a position named after a utensil. What'll they think of next...forking? Get it? Sorry.
Spooning gets its name for the way two spoons fit together when you stack them. In fact, three spoons fit together just as well, so brings some friends and...
Picture this. It's morning and you're both just barely awake and, of course, horny. There are few things and nice as using that morning hard-on. Puts a smile on your face until lunch, when it's time to go again. You're on your sides and cuddling, your cock gently nudging her ass. You kiss her neck...she stirs. You reach around her back and gently take her tits in your hands, lightly rubbing circles around her nipples. She moans, and her hips begin to buck slightly, grinding her ass into your willing cock. You move your hand to the inside of her warm thighs and tickle her clit with your index finger. Now she's beginning to really press into you, and her moans are unmistakable. She takes your cock in her hand and places it at the entrance to her now moist pussy and with one quick thrust, you're in heaven. Now you move with each other, your cock in her pussy, rubbing her clit as she wakes up to her first orgasm of the day...
Now doesn't that sound like a great way to wake up? It doesn't have to be in the morning only, of course. Spooning is very nice, very intimate, with lots of body contact and your choice of holes, if you like. You can, naturally, make it an aerobics class by holding her hips and slamming into her like a professional wrestler, but I find doggie style more suitable for heavy pounding.
Lastly, spooning is not simply your chest to her back. You can be behind her on your knees, while her legs are together, and penetrate nicely. She can spoon you, by lying down on top of you, her back to your face and her legs up, as you guide your cock in and out of her. One of my personal favorites is when she's on top and I'm entering from behind, and she turns her upper body to face me as we fuck deeply. A combination of doggie and spooning is when she's lying on her back, legs together; you're on top of her, your legs on the outside of hers. Since her legs are together, her pussy so tight, it feels like...well, it feels good.
Side-by-Side: The angle of the dangle
Side-by-side encompasses a variety of positions including facing each other, perpendicular to each other, scissors, etc., so let me explain them each. In its most basic form, you're facing each other, and she places her top leg over yours, giving you access to her pussy. Again, this is intimate, slow moving, eye contact love making. Very good for those in the first six months of a relationship. (Do I sound jaded? No...)
Next, she's lying on her side, you're on your knees again. I swear, you've been on your knees so much, you might as well learn to lay carpet, not just your lover. Anyway, you're holding her leg in the air and straddling her other leg. This can be during the next six months, because you can do some serious fucking in this position. If she's flexible enough – love that yoga – you can bend her leg over to your face and kiss her shapely calves while you're plunging in and out of her...I think I need some water...Or rest her leg on your shoulder.
Here's a winner. She's lying on her back, and you're lying on your side, perpendicular to and facing her. It looks like an "X." Now, your legs are straddling her left leg, and her right leg is either resting on top of you or you can be holding it up by her thigh. You'll have a lot of fun in this position. You can look at each other, laugh, talk, curse, yell – whatever. It's also a great position if she wants to use a vibrator on her clit while you're sliding in and out. This is usually called the scissors position.
Stand and Deliver
Standing and fucking is just plain cool. Whether you're in an elevator, against the wall, next to a couch, the bed, in a dressing room – anywhere. Standing intercourse says, "I can't wait, fuck me here and now." One of the best standing fucks you'll ever see is between Tony Tedeschi and Melissa Hill in the adult film "Bad Wives." She's leaning against the wall, her back arched and her gorgeous – and I do mean world-class - ass sticking high in the air as he just fills her full of cock and pounds away. An excellent example of just how hot a standing fuck can be.
If you're a leg man, like me, you can look down and see her calves and feet. If she likes, she can lean against the bed or couch for stability. How great does it feel to be standing in back of your lover, hands on her hips or wrapped around her back to caress her breasts while you take her breath away with steady thrusts? Too good to be true, that's how.
