I'm making several assumptions about you, the reader, while authoring this guide. I'm assuming you're a lot like me. You're an older, happily married man who has been curious about sucking cock for a while. You want to meet another man to fulfill this growing need and desire, but you're unsure about how to arrange it, where to meet, and how to prepare. I've spend
years
dreaming and fantasizing about sucking cock for the very first time, and I've come up with the steps that I would perform prior to tasting another man's cum. I hope you find this guide helpful in achieving this objective, too.
The Candidate.
I'm sure you're eager to suck cock, and may be willing to suck just any cock or the first one that comes along.
Don't!
What I would recommend is that you find another married man, who is in the same situation - happily married, interested in sucking cock or having his cock sucked, and ready to follow through on doing it. A married man has just as much to lose as you do. You're less likely to be blackmailed or assaulted (usually) and the risk of disease is much lower especially if he hasn't done this before and has been faithful to his wife. I'm not trying to advocate discriminating against other men, but as far as your safety and security, another married man is a much more appealing candidate. Finding him, however, is the hardest part and beyond the scope of this article.
Meet First.
There are many reasons to meet your "partner" ahead of time. He may be weird. He may not have good hygiene, have an unappealing body type, or may have misrepresented himself online. The ideal scenario is to meet in a public location, have lunch together, and discuss topics like two ordinary men would. Discovering that you have similar interests and could potentially be friends is like hitting the jackpot. It provides the perfect cover going forward if you decide to repeat your activities in the future. If you're friends, your wife is less likely to suspect that you're sucking his cock when you're together. It's also worth emphasizing that you can rule him out when you meet him. You may not "click" together, or you may just get a bad vibe off of him. Ensure that he agrees to this beforehand, that either one of you can walk away for any reason, or even
no