I'm making several assumptions about you, the reader, while authoring this guide. I'm assuming you're a lot like me. You're an older, happily married man who has been curious about sucking cock for a while. You want to meet another man to fulfill this growing need and desire, but you're unsure about how to arrange it, where to meet, and how to prepare. I've spend
years
dreaming and fantasizing about sucking cock for the very first time, and I've come up with the steps that I would perform prior to tasting another man's cum. I hope you find this guide helpful in achieving this objective, too.
The Candidate.
I'm sure you're eager to suck cock, and may be willing to suck just any cock or the first one that comes along.
Don't!
What I would recommend is that you find another married man, who is in the same situation - happily married, interested in sucking cock or having his cock sucked, and ready to follow through on doing it. A married man has just as much to lose as you do. You're less likely to be blackmailed or assaulted (usually) and the risk of disease is much lower especially if he hasn't done this before and has been faithful to his wife. I'm not trying to advocate discriminating against other men, but as far as your safety and security, another married man is a much more appealing candidate. Finding him, however, is the hardest part and beyond the scope of this article.
Meet First.
There are many reasons to meet your "partner" ahead of time. He may be weird. He may not have good hygiene, have an unappealing body type, or may have misrepresented himself online. The ideal scenario is to meet in a public location, have lunch together, and discuss topics like two ordinary men would. Discovering that you have similar interests and could potentially be friends is like hitting the jackpot. It provides the perfect cover going forward if you decide to repeat your activities in the future. If you're friends, your wife is less likely to suspect that you're sucking his cock when you're together. It's also worth emphasizing that you can rule him out when you meet him. You may not "click" together, or you may just get a bad vibe off of him. Ensure that he agrees to this beforehand, that either one of you can walk away for any reason, or even
no
reason after meeting in person.
Discuss Expectations.
You've fantasized about this forever, so make sure you're both on the same page. You might want him to aggressively fuck your mouth, call you a dirty cocksucker, or have other details in your head. Personally, I want the man to just stand or sit back while I'm on my knees pleasuring him, with his moans and sighs only audible, perhaps his hand on the back of my neck holding me in place. Make sure he knows what you want, but find out what he wants as well. Given this example, a man who wants to fuck my mouth, degrade me, and choke me with his long cock would be eliminated as a potential object of my oral pleasure.
Most men have the post-orgasm aversion to cum. Make sure that if you expect to have your cock sucked afterward, that he will not become apprehensive and get the urge to flee the scene. Aversion is real, but can be overcome by commitment and the erotic nature of the situation.
Discuss grooming habits, such as if you prefer him to be as hairless down there as possible - assuming this won't arouse suspicion in his wife. Consider abstaining from sex and/or ejaculation for several days prior to the event to maximize the amount of semen ejaculated. Also consider asking him to drink pineapple juice a few hours before the event!
The Venue.