I am working on the 2025 Survivor Challenge and so I am trying to write in every category. The only thing I could think of that might fit the How To category is incredibly basic swing dance. I've taken lots of beginning swing dance lessons over the years, it is a great way to meet new people if you can find lessons wherever you live. It turns out to be challenging to write descriptions of, though. If you do try to follow my instructions can you let me know how it works out? Thanks.
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Leaders are generally men, and followers are generally women, but either role is fine for any gender. If swing dance is new to you I do suggest that you stick to whichever side you start with for a while. Once you get more experienced you can start going both ways.
Leaders are going to start with their weight on the right foot, and the left foot free. Followers are the opposite, they all start with their weight on their left foot, and their right foot free.
The first part of the swing basic step is when the dancers move to the leaders left, and since the followers are facing them they move to their right. Leaders will step left, right, left. And at the same time the followers will move right, left, right. This doesn't have to move very far, just a step as wide as your shoulder width is fine.
The second part of the basic step is to go back where the dancers came from, leaders right, left, right, and followers left, right, left.
The third part of the basic step is the rock step. Leaders left foot goes back, and followers right foot goes back. Then you return your weight to leaders right and followers left foot. You need to be careful as you do this not to take a big rock step. Really you only need to put your weight back onto the toe of whichever foot is moving, and just barely behind the foot that stays in place.
You don't want to take a big rock step for several reasons. First, it takes time and energy to move your body through so much space. On a fast song you will get tired. Second, if you are rocking back at the same time your partner is rocking back you will run out of arm length and both stop suddenly. You never want to be the jerk on the other end of your partners arms.
As you dance the basic step you want to bounce down into the ground. Whatever your normal height is, you should bend your knees slightly and that will be your new dancing height. Then in time with the music you should pulse up and down a little as you take each step. Leaders will dance Left, right, left. Right, left, right while the followers dance right, left, right. Left, right, left.
As you practice it is a good idea to keep repeating the basic rhythm: Tri-ple step, tri-ple step, rock, step. Tri-ple step, tri-ple step, rock, step.
The very most basic dance hold is two- hand hold, so called because you are holding both of your partners hands at the same time. Leaders should curve your fingers like you are holding a cup. Follower's, curve your fingers into a c shape and hook them over the tops of those imaginary cups. As much as possible you will want a fairly straight line from your elbow to your partners elbow through your joined hands.