How to Seduce a Dominant Man

How To Seduce A Dominant Man And Keep Him

Wondering what a dominant man's deep desires are? How to seduce him effectively and keep him forever?

In this article we will see:

What is a dominant man and how to spot him

What to do and what not to do to please and seduce him

How to make him want to commit to a long relationship

You will uncover the secret of male psychology, the primary and instinctive needs of men will no longer hold any secrets for you.

Let's find out all about it now!

HOW TO SPOT AN ALPHA MALE?

Alpha males are dominant, masculine, virile, high-value, high-powered males. They are usually the most sought-after men in the professional field; We often think of Mr. Big in Sex and the City and Christian Gray in Fifty Shades of Grey.

They are charismatic, successful, hardworking, extremely confident and natural leaders. They are the type of men that women are most attracted to at least in their sexual domination/submission fantasies and that they would like to have as a faithful partner.

DISTINGUISHING THE GOOD FROM THE BAD ALPHA MALE

There is some confusion between good alpha males (those who are thoroughly successful, self-confident and treat women with respect) and bad alpha males (authoritative and aggressive tyrants who want to dominate and control everyone ).

Unfortunately, many young women fall victim to BAD Dominant Males because they are often very sweet and charming while hiding their more controlling/possessive side at the start of the relationship.

The downside of alpha males is often their bossy and controlling personality. This can turn into abuse very quickly, and women often come out of these relationships with emotional turmoil.

Be warned if you are attracted to this type of man. Make sure you are extremely confident and sure of yourself before dating a dominant man, or you will easily get lost and fall for him.

A true alpha will look for confident and self-confident women. This means you need to be able to handle "criticism" or "controlling" behaviors without taking it too personally. If you can't do that, I would think twice about dating an alpha male.

THE PERSONALITY TRAITS OF A MANLY MAN.

These are probably the traits that you love and turn you on the most in a man.

THE DOMINANT MAN IS A BORN LEADER

A true alpha male doesn't "try" to lead, he just does it naturally. Often, other people will look to him to lead because of his confidence, relaxed nature, and ability to make people work together.

He doesn't have to be the loudest person in the world or the richest/successful, although CEOs tend to be alpha males because they have a natural tendency to move forward very quickly in their career.

HE KNOWS WHO HE IS AND HAS CONFIDENCE IN HIM

Alpha males know who they are and won't be afraid to voice their opinions. They are quick to defend themselves and their beliefs. They are much less likely to care about what other people think and are not swayed by peer pressure. They are self-confident and will not back down from a challenge.

THE MANLY MAN PROTECTS HIS LOVED ONES

They are extremely protective of the people they care about. They would rather take the risk of hurting themselves than let their loved ones get hurt. They will be quick to defend anyone they feel they need to defend.

THE DOMINANT MALE IS AN EXCELLENT PROVIDER

Since dominant men are charismatic, hardworking, and natural leaders, they tend to progress quickly in their careers. This means that they are often excellent providers for the family. They also have a natural desire to provide for the woman they love, so expect to be showered with gifts and gifts as proof of an alpha male's love for you.

HE IS CHARISMATIC

Alpha males are "people people" and know how to control a group while making everyone feel included and special. People tend to want to please the alpha male. They are also very friendly and can get along with anyone. That being said, alphas are not scapegoats at all and will be quick to put people down if they try to exert their power over them.

Spotting a dominant man is not that difficult. Look for a man who is confident, sure of himself, a leader at heart. Dominant men often have piercing eye contact, and will never be afraid to hold anyone's gaze. They will take initiatives, and be enterprising.

Now that you know how to identify one, let's get down to business.

HOW TO SEDUCE AND KEEP A DOMINANT MAN?

ALPHA MALES ARE ATTRACTED TO THEIR OPPOSITE: A FEMININE WOMAN

When it comes to seduction, dominant or alpha men are naturally drawn to their opposite, a woman who likes to wear dresses, skirts, high heels, sexy lingerie, and who is often found smiling and cheerful.

That doesn't mean you have to be a hot model. Being sexy is not the same as being "feminine".

Femininity isn't just about makeup and pumps, it's also about attitude. Many girls in the average beauty canon (of normal appearance) can be very feminine because of the way they walk, dress, and talk. They would therefore have no trouble attracting an alpha male.

Being a feminine woman means you bring out your softer, more motherly side. This means that you are also more submissive or passive.

A dominant man will want to open doors, pull chairs and pay for the restaurant, you have to be happy that he does these things for you, it's just about chivalry and not toxic masculinity (contrary to what some feminists might think extremists). It's not sexism, it's the closest thing to biological reality, if you want to attract an alpha male, know that he will want a woman who is happy to be guided and at least lead the half the time.

HE LEADS SO YOU MUST RECEIVE

This is often a trap with some women. Because he will want to lead, you must be ready and willing to RECEIVE. This means that instead of calling him and asking him out, you have to "wait" for him to call you and ask you out.

Showing positive signals to a dominant man is a great way to boost his ego and capture his attention, but once you have it, you have to let him chase you! It also means that when he suggests you "try this, go there, or do that," he will expect you to listen and follow him. If you argue or disagree, it will discourage him.

Dominant men expect you to follow them even if they don't know what they're doing. This can cause you problems, especially if you also have a strong personality. But remember that this is only one consequence of dating an alpha male. The more aware you are of their nature, the better you can adapt to them.

BE A GOOD CONFIDENT AND SUPPORTER

Alpha males prefer a woman who listens and supports them. You need to pay attention to an alpha male for signs of his likes, dislikes, dreams, beliefs, or any other ideas he wants to share with you. He expects you to actively listen to him and support him on these points. If you show genuine interest in a dominant man, he will fall in love more quickly.

For a dominant man, feeling that he has your support is one of the most important things he will look for. Because of his lofty goals, crazy ideas, or outsized ego, he expects his wife to be his number one cheerleader in life. That means supporting him, even if you think he's wrong.

An alpha male will also listen and pay attention. He will want you to have a life of your own, your own passions and your own opinions. This is because alpha males tend to get bored quickly. You need to be convincing enough to keep her interested in the long term.

BE POSITIVE TO KEEP A DOMINANT MAN

Alpha males have very stressful professions with great responsibilities. The last thing they want or need is a woman who is negative and always on their backs about something.

They are less tolerant of needy, clingy or negative women. Remember, when they're with you, they expect their time to be relaxing, stress-free, and fun. They don't want their relationship to be as stressful as their work environment.

ADAPT BUT STAY YOURSELF

Just as you must be positive, you must also be adaptable. Due to a dominant male's financial and career goals, you may be expected to move house, change careers, or sacrifice your own short-term plans to accommodate him.

Advice: I'm adamantly opposed to you giving up on your own dreams for a man, so if you want to date an alpha male, you need to learn to adapt AND pursue your personal goals.

This may involve making temporary outages or other sacrifices to achieve this. It is extremely important that you communicate this to your man. A man who loves you will also support you in achieving YOUR dreams and goals.

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AVOID AN ALPHA MALE IF HE:

Disrespecting you or disrespecting women in general

Shows overly bossy tendencies (disapproves of you seeing friends, talking to family, wearing certain clothes, etc.)

Overly jealous/possessive tendencies

Is violent towards you physically or verbally

I was a little hesitant to write this article because as attractive as alpha males are, they often come with other issues for a woman.

The irony of alpha males is that in order to ATTRACT an alpha male, a woman will often have to appear soft and submissive.

But when you're too submissive in a relationship, it fosters an unhealthy dynamic where the man has control and power.

In my opinion, a healthy relationship always requires an EQUAL balance of power. For this reason, the best compromise for an alpha male is a female who can be gentle and strong at the same time.

AIM TO BE:

Soft and submissive when you need to be, feminine and attractive all the time. But also strong, have confidence, have charisma and be a full "leader" when you need it. Most alpha males (whether they admit it or not) actually need this type of woman.

They don't want a completely passive woman who will do whatever they want. They need to keep some challenge in their romantic relationship.

They need a woman who responds to them and has her own personality, but also a woman who supports them. Respect his virility, his dominant side and do not try to belittle him to assert yourself, that would be counterproductive.

As with most things in life, it's never all black or all white, the "formula" for success lies in the gray area. It is not a question of having one quality rather than another, but of having BOTH of these qualities.