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Facesitting For Beginners

Facesitting For Beginners

by will527
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I was inspired to write this after I read a piece on this site by an incredibly talented woman who described how to give a man oral sex. I could never organize my thoughts and express them as cleverly as she did, but I felt compelled to try.

This is meant to serve as suggestions for any man who is interested in face sitting, i.e., having your female partner sit on your face, obviously for the purpose of pleasuring her. Having taken hints myself from two lesbian friends, I hope I convey the points that are most effective.

To sit or not to sit?

If you ask her to sit on your face, or if you ask her if she would like to sit on your face, and she agrees, remember that, even if you want it for your own pleasure, HER pleasure is your goal. While you might intend to lick her just to get her wet enough, or aroused enough to engage in intercourse, you should be aware of how far she wants you to take her, arousal, or orgasm? Be prepared for either and be patient and attentive.

Position: this way or that way?

Most of the time, you and she will prefer her to sit "cowgirl", so she can look down at your face. Eye contact is sometimes arousing for her and watching her face as you perform might tell you if you're doing things to her satisfaction. She might also enjoy watching your tongue in action.

This position also allows her the freedom to control your performance and the intensity of your licking. She can easily rise up to tease you, (the floating butterfly), or to control the pressure of your tongue if she so chooses. Most often she will kneel, straddling your chest or neck and then simply slide her vagina up onto your face until she is comfortable. She can change the angle of her legs to put more weight and pressure on your face or tongue.

She might wish to lay her legs out straight as she sits; a position that puts much more weight on your face. This position also allows her to close her legs, perhaps to tease you by smothering you with her flesh. She might choose to squat over your face rather than actually sit on it. This puts more physical strain on her legs, but it allows her the same options in giving you access to her vagina.

Another option she has is to sit "reverse cowgirl", facing your feet (and your penis). This position allows her basically the same freedom of movement and control as "cowgirl", but it also allows her to change the angle at which she places her vagina on your face. She can easily use more weight on your face or tongue if she wishes to do so. She can rock back and forth on your mouth in either position but in "reverse cowgirl" she can see if your licking her affects your penis. She might consider it a compliment if licking her gives you an erection.

In a rare occasion, she might choose to sit with her legs straight over your torso, which, during "reverse cowgirl" will put the majority of her body weight directly on your face. She might choose to do this if she wants to smother you, or, in some cases, to force your face into her anus. If she chooses to squat over your face in "reverse cowgirl", your primary access will most likely be to her anus.

Can I Touch it?

One thing to keep in mind when she sits "reverse cowgirl" is that she has the option, but not the obligation, to touch your penis. She might want to stroke your erection while you perform, or she might want to tell you to do it. It might arouse her to watch you masturbate, and she might even want you to ejaculate when, but not before, she has her orgasm. She might even choose to tease or suck your erection but not to completion.

If for some reason she chooses to advance to a sixty-nine, remember to focus on giving her at least one orgasm before you allow your own release. (If you have communicated earlier and agreed that you will conclude with a sixty-nine from the "reverse cowgirl" position, your usual agreement on orgasms would prevail.)

Where are her Tits?

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Unless she wants you to leave your hands idle* by your sides, use your hands to play with her breasts and nipples. If she doesn't like or want it, she will probably brush your hands away. If your hands are busy with her breasts, remember to stay focused on your primary goal.

(*Some women enjoy face sitting as a form of control over the man. Your partner might want to restrain you or otherwise require you to lie still so she can use your face, mouth, and tongue as she wishes to satisfy herself.)

Technique

You will develop your own technique in satisfying a woman while she sits on your face, but here are some suggestions:

a. Begin with kissing or licking the insides of her thighs and work your way to the junction where her thigh meets her groin.

b. Lick her labia, slowly. Let her anticipate.

c. Slowly insert your tongue inside her; depth at this point is immaterial; she will let you know as you continue how often and how far to probe.

d. "Lap" at her slit, dipping your tongue inside her.

e. If she is not aroused enough for her clitoris to be exposed, use your fingers to open her to expose her clitoral hood. Use your tongue, licking lightly until her clitoris is exposed. (She might enjoy it if you intermittently probe her with your tongue when you lick her clitoris.)

f. If you don't pay attention to or lick her clitoris as quickly as she wants, she might open herself to expose her clitoris. Take this as your cue to pay more attention to it.

g. Pace is important; don't rush it, let her enjoy the sensations you provide with your tongue.

h. Continue to alternate between probing her with your tongue and licking her clitoris.

i. When there is an indication that her pleasure is increasing, perhaps evidenced by her moaning, or putting pressure on your face, you might consider softly humming on her clitoris. Some women find this exhilarating if it is done at the height of her pleasure. Doing so might or might not induce her orgasm; follow your instincts based on her reaction and body movements.

j. She might tell you verbally sometime during the process if she wants you to change what you are doing. Obey her instructions and take mental note of what she liked for future reference.

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k. She might ask or tell you to use one finger or more to probe her vagina while you lick her. This may be awkward to perform, depending on the position, but do what you can to comply.

l. She might tell or ask you to use one finger or more to probe her anus, which, in either position, is more accessible.

m. If she doesn't tell you verbally, her breathing and body movements should indicate when she is reaching her peak.

n. When you are certain that she is having an orgasm, continue what you are doing until she either tells you to stop, or until she removes her vagina from your mouth.

Afterglow

After her orgasm, she might remain seated on your face until she is ready to proceed. She might even consider having you resume for an additional orgasm or more. This would be an indication that you've done well, so comply and enjoy!

Allow her time to relax and enjoy the pleasure of her orgasm(s). (Personally, as she recovers, I like to gently reinsert my tongue into her vagina; there's nothing as exciting, at least to me, as tasting an aroused woman's vagina.) If you elect to try the latter and she objects, she will quickly indicate it.

At some point, you might want to kiss your partner after she gets off your face. If she likes to taste herself on your lips it might arouse her even more. If she doesn't, a quick visit to the bathroom to wash your face and rinse your mouth would be in order.

Respect and gratitude

Since you asked her to sit on your face, (for whatever reason), it would be prudent to ask if your performance was satisfactory.

Thank her sincerely for doing it for you and tell her how much you enjoyed it. If you did an exceptional job, she might surprise you by doing it unexpectedly in the future.

Recap

I sincerely hope that my suggestions and observations, based on previous experience and advice, will be helpful to you and your female partner.

Ladies, even (and especially) lesbians, I would welcome your comments, favorable or not to help me in my own endeavor to provide my female partners a satisfying face sitting experience.

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