How L Got My Wife to Swing

First l would like to say if you knew our story you would appreciate what a monumental task it was. So as they say "If he can then anyone can"

Next I'm aware it was not just one thing but more so the thing l feel that got us over the edge. It has been a good while but l am sure l can convey the basics to you correctly.

It came about more out of frustration than anything else as we seemed to make progress then loose it. l never lost track that my wife was far more important to me then Swinging. To me if you are not in a similar mind l would actually hope what I'm about to suggest doesn't work for you. Sex should always be without pressure and the best sex is found when you are more interested in give your parter a good time then having one yourself. With that in mind know we already had a pretty diverse sex life with very little we didn't like or wouldn't do.

The Cup Game

It's pretty simple actually. There was a set of cups five or seven and written on then was a range from No Way! to What Took You So Long. The meaning being forget it to sure, let's go! Then on tiny pieces of paper l wrote down everything l could think of as to sex and more. From a simple Kiss to Full On Bisexual Sex With Another Couple. The more the better with variations of the same act. For example I'm out of the room, I'm in the room, I'm in the room and only allowed to touch.

The Game was not played until the time was right, so when we were already in bed and ready to enjoy sex ourselves. l asked my wife to read each piece of paper and place it into the Cup that fit best for her. l was not surprised when only two cups had anything in them. The cup that was things we could do just her and l in one and the No Way cup contained all those things that would require others to join us. So don't be surprised if you get the same or close but also don't loose heart, again l got there so you can too.

The game is actually that simple but allow me to speak on our progression. We played the game a few times and in time there was movement. At that time l altered the game a bit and now my wife played while l was eating her pussy. She always took the stand that doing so was cheating, but l don't recall her ever asking me to stop.

The first slip of paper that made it to the (Willing To Try) cup was for her to have sex with another man, with me in the room. l must stress again, there was everything under the sun written down. I should also mention we were on a Adult Meet Site at the time, getting her to allow that was a challenge in itself and maybe a story on it too might follow.

Let me tell you there is no shortage of guys that want to have sex with your wife. But whatever first step you take is more important than anything else. l knew if it went badly we would never revisit the subject again. So we took our time and being the proactive guy l am while looking for Mr. Right we started looking at other couples also, just having fun with it. l made a game of that also, we picked our top ten couples we had interest in. Funny enough we both had the same couple as our top pick, or maybe it was faith? Now if my wife would of picked being with another girl while l watched l would of been more than happy to build from that but the pieces fall where they do so we go from there.

What ended up happening after some back and forth with a few guys neither of was feeling great about it. We were actually making more progress at a possible couple. We contacted them and we were honest from the start explaining our process and what we were after. The first tell if you have never been on a site such as that is their interest level. l don't mean if he, she or they have interest in going to bed with my wife in this case. But in you as a person or couple, good sex is more then body parts. If you are just after another cock or even a pussy period there is far easier ways of going about it. Guys are everywhere and you can rent a pussy if nothing else.

It was after a good amount of back and forth which they were still replying back and reaching out to us on their own, that was when it really felt right. It was actually the wife of that couple we had interest in that said she would be willing to loan out her husband, that is when we pulled the trigger.

My wife had her night which l enjoyed too and it was her that later asked if we could reach back out to them, to invite them both this time. That relationship lasted a very long time and l would say we all grew as a group until sadly they had to move away. My wife and l tried a few others but we never found that magic ever again. Being spoiled we eventually lost interest in Swinging but reminiscing back always brought with it great sex between us. Although my sweetest memories are those with just my wife and l. Best of luck to all of you.