Ooh, the blowjob, about the most vindictive instrument of torture at your disposal. Pleasure-torture, of course, but torturous none the less. Have your hands intertwined around his balls and the base of his cock, and point the thing at your lips. Tell him it's just inches away. He can feel your hands, your breath and your tits on his stomach, but is looking at your butt. Told you a blindfold wasn't necessary. That said, presentation isn't as important now either.
Press his cock against his stomach and give his balls a lick. In fact, give his balls the whole hog all over again. Lap away like a dog on peanut butter. Tongue, tongue, tongue. Not the best from this angle though, so back to the shaft. Do a sloppy harmonica kiss up its length and back down the other side. Do it again... then let the tip of your tongue wander along the base of the head, all around... you'll probably have been introduced to precum by now. Precum is the bomb. In fact, precum is a reward, and you want more of it. And god knows his dick wants more of your saliva. Yes, saliva, the wonderful renewable fluid of many useful and interesting applications. Put it on his dick. Lots of it. Big, long, flat licks are good for applying the stuff. So is outright drooling. It's also recyclable... anyway, coat it.
Purse your lips in the Marilyn Monroe "prune" shape and plant them on the head. Lower your own head, slowly, keeping them pressed, sliding your lips over the head so he breaks through your kiss. I like to call this move "crowing" the dick. Mmm, cocksucking. In this context of extremely erotic tease and denial, this is where the head of his cock gets a good workout. Get both hands around the shaft and your mouth on the head for the full engulfing effect, or take him to your tonsils while he's gasping. He should be gasping. He's definitely feeling the restraints, for he really wants his hands on your ass. Or your head, or something, anything. Helpless as a little duckling. So employ to whatever effect you choose your lips, tongue, teeth, the cavity at the back of your mouth...the roof of your mouth, cheeks, did I say lips? Teeth are special. The mouth's real power, there to tease and delight, nibble and horrify, perhaps making a gentle introduction as his cock glides past your cool, wet lips for the umpteenth time. His cock, still, sealed inside the tight, wet and very hot prison of your mouth, with your tongue the interrogator and no escape in sight. I'm sure it's ecstasy, and ecstasy should last. For a real treat, squirt some (edible) lube in your mouth, let it sit for a moment, and suck him in. Loudly. Unseal your lips to allow some of the goo to dribble out. They call cumswapping snowballing because of the accumulation... keep slurping. No need for lip gloss with this kind of action.
Instead of popping him out of your mouth when he's about to cum again, if you think he can handle it just keep him there, suspended in your mouth (oxygen free). In the 69 position your mouth and throat are positioned excellently for sucking cock. Deepthroat him if you can. You want him to really feel and experience the depth and unrelenting cocksucking power of your body. Give him a real tour of the orgasm factory, so to speak. With the cock ring, one merely needs a hand and the lightest touch at the base of his cock in order to point it about. You are his queen tonight, so continue to make the most of it. Give him the most lascivious tongue lashing of his life. Snake it up, down and around the shaft, his belly buton, his thighs (no substitute for tits though), and all over the head. Pointed tongue, flat tongue, slurpy dripping loving tongue... he can feel your every tastebud. Stop intermittently of course. One thing you'll have to get used to is the sound of breathless disappointment.
I've described so far you being flat on his stomach, like a half of 69. If you are, after a good bit of luxury cocksucking, flip around, get your ass in the air, and...continue it. If you thought there was some spit content before, well. Give him a real working over all over again. Noticed you haven't used any artificial lubricant in a while? Yeah. Look into his eyes, stick your tongue out all the way, and give him a big snail trail from under his balls to the tip of his cock. You probably know how to swish your tongue around with your mouth closed to stimulate more production. Have him watch you do this. Then, leave his cock flat on his stomach, lean over and, slowly, let a big fat string drip down past your lips and all over his cock and balls. Drool it. You'll probably have to break it off at your chin, afterwards. Rub it in (to his dick, I mean), run your tongue up to the head again, hold it vertical, and do your best to make him squeal. What, you don't want your dick sucked?
You should be at least an hour in. That cock's been wet for a while. It's had quite a bit of tongue. If you're good at blowjobs, he'll have done some work. And having been licked all over, he ain't nothing but cock now. Reapply some oil and remind him. He's probably moaning, panting, and unsure. Give his balls a scratch. The gag in his mouth will have been suppressing his complaints nicely, to say nothing of the feeling of helplessness it contributes. If this is his first time he'll have never wanted to cum so badly in his life. Slow, drawn out, deliberate and agonizing tease and denial is a kind of extreme erotic frustration that in the process of inducing is, well, quite delicious. You can give your mouth a break now. Sit back at his knees, facing him, and produce your feather and/or strip of silk. If you manage both, all the better! Wiggle the point of the feather under and around his balls, maliciously target the head, and run it up to his neck. Aw, it's just a little feather. Drape your piece of fabric on his dick and trace it over and around, or hold it at length and have it dance around his balls.
Set them aside. Did you bring some condoms? I hope so. Oil him up again and slip one on. Dribble a little oil on top, and put another one on! And one or two more, depending on their thickness (you probably don't need to lube up the last one). Hoo boy. You're going to fuck him like this. He'll feel the heat but not your pussy. So with a glint in your eye, climb on. Take him right to the hilt...I don't want to know the noises he's making. Grind away, but keep the strokes to a minimum. Is it unbearable? Of course not. So let's turn the torture up to 11. After you've had enough of this, take the condoms off, all at once, release his cock, and have your pussy sit at the base of his shaft. Tell him this is gonna suck. Put your hands down on the bed beside him, and sliiiiide your pussy up the length of the shaft, till your clit is just past the head. Slide back down. Groaning, muffled moaning and heavy breathing are all to be expected.
Be agonizing. Wet pussy sliding on a cock in this state is a deadly, twisted move. You can be a little bit sadistic. Make his cock shine. I needn't point out it's the more sensitive underside of his cock you're working with. So go extra slowly and ignore the whimpering. After a few minutes of this, get off, stand his cock up and plunge the whole thing deep into your pussy. Not too fast though. If you think he can keep still and you aren't reverse cowgirl, lean forward and kiss his neck. Lick some of the sweat off your victim's face. Then lean back, keeping his dick confined the whole time. Then crawl up and bury his face in your ass, and purr while he struggles, his cock twitching, getting nothing but air.
What now? You want some cum soon? That can be obliged, if he isn't ready for another slow, grueling handjob or getting sucked again. But he probably is... and how he gets off is, of course, up to you. Should he orgasm deep in your pussy? I say no. Having him cum all over somewhere visible is more rewarding. You could take the gag off now too, but he might bite you. Get your tongue at the ready, and prepare for an XL spoonful of hot, sticky cum.
You know how to get him there... when he's finally ready. I recommend the sloppy cum in mouth finish. Work him. This should be at least the 15th time he approaches a volcanic cum pop. So either get a hand on there and tongue him to the first squirt, or jerk him with Oily Hand. A hand around his balls either way. Right when he starts ejaculating, pop that bulging cock head in your mouth and get on the receiving end. Smile while it oozes past your lips and down to his balls, like so much spit before it. Cum play is where it's at. I'd say make sure to get all the cum out, for a giggle during cleanup.