It took a few moments for me to process the words I had just heard. Daughter? If I was honest with myself it had been months since I'd even thought about the baby girl that Amber had given birth to 18 years ago. After having her taken by the state and placed with an adoptive family Amber had been emotionally devastated in a way that neither of us could have anticipated. The abruptness with which it had happened certainly hadn't helped things.
For years after that day the baby we lost was a daily or weekly topic of discussion or at the very least something we thought about regularly. It was made worse when Amber had found out she had ovulation dysfunction likely as a result from her drug use, which meant she could no longer have a child. Eventually though, we rested easy with the idea that the baby had found its way into a loving family who would provide her with the healthy upbringing that we could not have given her at that time. We also settled into our own lives, our bond becoming even stronger as a result.
When we finally tied the knot in marriage almost a decade ago the idea that we would not have children became the life we expected, and it was something we had now become at peace with. We didn't feel like we were missing anything and instead doubled our efforts to improve our lives together and our relationship, an effort that had made the last ten years of marriage incredible. The idea that we would ever have to confront our past or contemplate an alternative future was never on our minds. And yet, here she was—a young girl claiming to be our daughter.
My stunned silence and shocked expression must have tipped Sienna off to the fact that I was not quite anticipating such an event, which spurred her to follow up her bombshell revelation with a little bit of explanation.
"Yeah, I'm sorry for just like, showing up on your doorstep. This is probably super weird, I get it..."
Sienna's eyes fell to the white trainers she was wearing and I sensed that she also hadn't quite thought this interaction through. I also detected a hint of embarrassment from her and possibly shame, likely believing she was unwanted and had made a mistake in ever coming here. The idea that she probably felt like complete shit as a result of my failure to adequately compose myself made me feel equally like shit and I knew I had to try to stop this train from traveling any further off the rails.
"No, I should be the one apologizing. I'm not good with surprises," I smiled kindly and hoped my self-deprecating reply would help to put her at ease.
She met my smile with one of her own and seemed to regain a bit of the confidence it must have taken to knock on my door in the first place.
"Yeah... there really isn't a non-surprising way of breaking this kind of news, unfortunately," she joked.
"No, I guess there isn't," I remarked, wondering what Amber was going to think of this particular surprise.
"So... can I come in or?" Sienna finally asked, breaking several seconds of awkwardness as both of us struggled to think of something to say.
"Yeah, of course. I should have invited you in. Apparently I'm a bit slow today," I added, trying to excuse my social ineptitude with humor.
"It's cool, this is probably the last thing you expected. I really don't blame you for not being like, super smooth," She commented perceptively.
"Have a seat for a minute, I'll be right back," I said, motioning to the dining room table.
Sienna did as I requested and sat at the dining room table while I headed down the hall toward the bedroom, wondering how this news was going to be received by Amber.
I opened the door and stepped in, shutting it behind me.
"Who was it? I heard you talking to someone," Amber asked still laying in bed, smoking and checking her phone.
"We have company," I answered curtly.
Amber looked up from her phone and it seemed my demeanor gave me away immediately.
"What's wrong? Who's here?" she asked.
I searched my vocabulary for the least shocking words to use and came up completely blank.
"Babe? Are you ok?" Amber prodded, now removing the covers and sitting up.
"It's our baby," I replied finally, choosing the word 'baby' as a last minute replacement for daughter in an attempt to make it somehow more easy to digest.
Amber's eyes suddenly took on a look of alertness and her mouth opened as if she was going to say something but resigned herself to thought, clearly suffering the same bout of shock that I had experienced only minutes before.
"Our daughter, she's sitting in our dining room right now. Her name is Sienna," I explained, hoping a more grounded description of the current circumstance would shake Amber out of her speechlessness.
Amber's features slowly relaxed into a look of contemplation, she punctuated that look with a hard drag on her cigarette, clearly needing the calming properties of the nicotine now more than ever. She stubbed out her spent butt and swung her feet out of the bed and onto the floor, heading right for the closet.
I continued watching as Amber grabbed her white shorts and a pale yellow tank top, putting them on as quickly as I'd ever seen.
"Are you ok?" I asked, a bit unnerved by her lack of an audible response.
After having put her clothes on and slipping on a pair of sandals she finally looked at me and smiled.
"I'm very ok," she beamed, giving me a soft kiss before heading out the door.
I followed her out, hoping Amber would take the lead as she certainly seemed to be handling it better than I was.
As we entered the dining room Sienna looked over to see Amber and I could see an instant connection form between them. Sienna's smile was big and bright and featured none of the awkwardness that it had when she had met me. I silently cursed myself for making such a poor first impression.
"My baby.." Amber said, walking directly to the table and holding out her arms to invite a hug she had probably been dreaming about since that day in the delivery room.
Sienna stood up from her chair instinctively, meeting Amber's open arms with an equally genuine display of affection.
I watched from a few feet away as Amber and Sienna embraced for the first time, something that had been callously denied to Amber 18 years ago. Both of them were brought to tears, holding onto to one another and sobbing softly, clearly overcome with a type of emotion that can only be understood by a mother and daughter.
After nearly a minute they broke apart and stepped away from each other, looking into each other's eyes and smiling. Amber placed her hands on Sienna's shoulders while Sienna began wiping her eyes.
"Damnit, I did my make-up for this and everything," Sienna joked, referencing the streaks of eyeshadow and eyeliner that were now smudged and streaking.
Amber laughed in response, but kept her arms on Sienna's shoulders, as though fearing if she didn't keep a hold of her she would be taken away again.
"You're beautiful," Amber remarked.
Sienna smiled wide again, looking away in a moment of mother-daughter embarrassment.
Finally, Amber let her grip on Sienna's shoulders release and they sat down in unison. I finished my way to the table myself and joined them, sitting across from Amber which put Sienna in the middle of both of us on the far side.
"So, we obviously want to know everything about you but do you want to ask us anything first?" Amber asked, taking the lead like I figured she might and felt she deserved.
Sienna fidgeted a moment, looking down at the table at her clasped hands.
