It's a Wonderful Bonobo-Style Life

Xmas is over... X... and I now have seen "A Wonderful Life" more than 40 times. I do like the movie, and the ghost is way less scary than Dicken's ghosts.

My husband was begging me for "more sex" late on Xmas day (we already had wake-up sex, which he enjoyed- but left me mildly stimulated and sort of edgy the rest of the day- so I do plan on getting to do "job ONE" for me before any more fucking takes place. In fact, every time I rebuff his advances, my pants get wetter as I think about having my finish with him kissing, hugging, licking and fingering me- before he gets what he wants. I will make him change positions several times, and insist on a LOT of hugging and kissing- because he often goes soft during that and I enjoy watching him get hard again when he thinks his best friend is about to get some REAL action.

But that is peripheral to my story. I must have fallen asleep in the afternoon, tired from all the fixing meals and baking WITHOUT any help from my husband or my kids. (To be fair, they probably would help if I could figure out what they could do without total supervision).

And I had the most amazing dream that after grabbing at me and explaining that it would not take him very long (that is not a good sales pitch!)... he "WISHED" that we could be more like Bonobos. Those are the subdivision of chimpanzees that are smaller and use sexual stimulation for EVERYTHING! Greetings, friendship, and of course procreation-- but these chimps get involved early and often, with any other chimp regardless of sex or age or maybe even close relationship. I don't know, but in my dream- EVERYONE was a possible for sexual interaction. Maybe this was because I got mostly excited and never finished, so my entire day was spent sort of "wanting it" but not wanting to do it myself, and never enough time to get Tony to do it (right) for me. And when I say "wanting it", I do not mean "cock". I could live without any of that- what I want is that feeling of being adored and having my body worshipped and "serviced"- the kind of touches I enjoy, not having him slam his stiff dick in me as fast as he can and finish before I really can get in a position where he is making it feel good for me.

Anyway, my dream starts right here at home, with my husband's family coming for dinner along with his brothers and their wives and one couple has children. We had dinner with MY family yesterday evening- and that was so much work it explains why I am asleep- except I don't know that. Instead I have just heard my husband's WISH, and went to look up Bonobos on the internet- and had to laugh because I don't think he really knows what they do. He seems to think that the MALES get to fuck everyone, whenever they want. Which I guess is true, but the males... can only fuck so much. I realized that the female Bonobos can spend all day being excited and getting off- with all the males? sure. but also with all the females and any chimps of legal age that are interested in getting together. Just then, in my dream, the doorbell rings and Tony's family starts arriving. Before I open the door, I strip off all my clothing, and when I open the door- Tony's older brother Tommy and his wife are there... all as naked as I am. They all start hugging and rubbing me and soon Tommy has an erection bigger than Tony's.

So I suck on that and slide my hand down to Darla's pussy, which she totally shaves and must have shaved today because it is SO smooth. I put one leg up on the planter so Tommy can enter me from behind, while Darla is tongue kissing me and pushing against my fingers- I don't enter her, I know what she likes and it is all rubbing and teasing, not poking. And we are both teasing each others nipples. Everyplace on my body is alive and feeling good. I notice my husband watching, and realize he is naked also- and he moves to enter Tommy's wife with his erection- I continue doing what I know she really wants but Darla seems to get even more excited by the smaller cock in her- maybe Tommy's cock is too big for her? it almost is too big for me. Almost..

All of the adults take time to intermittently pay attention to everyone- there is no "main act". We are all busy touching others and being touched. Both guys like to gently slap each others scrotum, or slide their fingers around the cock when it is out of the cunt- so it can't get right back in. All a joke and everyone is laughing and getting excited at the same time.

NOBODY is self-conscious, only finding new places to touch, and hoping that others will keep touching... and we are Bonobo-humans, so of course everyone will persist until we ALL are finished, even if the slowest ends up with all the attention of the three others! Which is what happens to Darla.

In my dream I have an amazing long orgasm and wake up from my dream just as we all turn our attention to Darla and I am about to lick her pussy while Tony is still fucking her. I find my panties totally drenched. I had a pillow between my legs and it is wet right through the pillowcase. I get up and change the pillowcase (and smell the pillow- it does have a lot of my smell on it, but I decide to leave that on Tony's side of the bed- he will like that I think. I change my clothes and toss the panties in the laundry, where I suspect one of his pervert brothers will find them and keep them (he has done that before during holiday meals- I think it is a sign of affection, but don't tell Tony- it may just be LUST?).

I hear the doorbell ring, and find myself laughing out loud as I think about my dream- and review everything in the dream so I can write it down. Dreams seem to just "disappear" if you don't write them down. I wonder why? Sometimes, like this one, they are PURE pleasure even though they are totally "fantastic" in the sense that they could never occur. Except everything in my dream COULD occur- but I don't take off my clothing before I answer the door... so NOT THIS YEAR.

What would life be like if we were more like Bonobos? For one thing, NO WAR. Every guy would be too busy fucking- instead of designing ways to kill others and take their women (to fuck). And women would get the greatest beneficiary, no longer limited to the kind of sex that males want. Of course I have already found ways to not be totally limited- my plan may take all day but I do have a plan, and I am pretty sure it will work (because it has worked before).

If it does not work, there is an old retired guy who lives at the end of the block and will come help me fix something that I need a "handyman" to fix. I'm not sure what it is yet, but I know he will come when I call him because he knows what else I want him to "fix", and he will take as much time as needed to fix everything. I found him from a strange craigslist ad, but craigslist doesn't allow that kind of ad any more- I don't know how I would find an old slow non-demanding "handyman" now. I like the term handyman because he mostly does wonders with his hands- although once I told him it was OK, he loves to taste me and kiss me everyplace.

Maybe if you just tried a lot of "handyman" ads you could find someone who knows what you really want and need? Bonobo-style life for humans may be "fantasy", but there are ways to get what you NEED- maybe not instantly, but eventually and sooner if you keep experimenting with what is NOT fantastic.