"What is empathy?" I asked. We were in my living room, myself seated on a couch, Onoskelis seated comfortably on a cushion before me. Yesterday, I had given her free access to my library, and by the time that supper was served, she had replaced her feet with hooves and covered her calves and forearms with soft lavender fur. This morning, she had decided that hooves were too inconvenient, but now almost her entire lower half sported carpet-like fur. By evening, I expected, all the fur would be gone to be replaced by some new fancy crafted by her mercurial humor.
She knew to take the question seriously, and answered "An understanding of anothers' mind and heart complete enough to feel an echo of their presumed feelings. The term often implies that this knowledge stems from compassion, but compassion is not the necessary outcome of such understanding." I smiled at her. "A cogent answer, and a workable definition. You're already much of the way there. The only thing truly standing between you and empathy is your instinct to manipulate. But to cure you of that, we need an at least equally strong drive to counter it."
She had gone from merely dutifully attentive to truly interested, tail twisting and curling as she stared unblinkingly at me. "I am going to teach you conscience, and instill principles in you. In the beginning, your principles and morals will be rules--established by me under threat of punishment. The first principle I am imposing on you is the open and mutually beneficial trade."
She leaned a little forward, coyly covering herself with wings that had not been there a second ago. "Not 'even trades', Master?" her tone was speculative, eyes calculating angles.
My response surprised her. "How can any trade ever be even? For a trade to take place in absence of trickery or coercion, each party must gain more than they give up, or no trade would have any reason to occur."
I let her stew on that one for a long moment. "Master... that is very different from my experiences up until now. Trades use force, the threat of force, or trickery to take while giving as little in return as possible. I keep wondering where the trap is in giving me permission to read anything in your library. You are not weak enough nor foolish enough to put yourself at the losing end of the bargain. This concept would make sense of your actions, but it's very new; very hard to grasp."