"I want you to brainwash me," she said. "Do that mind control thing you told me about and make me like the taste of sperm."
I sighed. "I told you not to call it brainwashing or mind control. It's just applied Pavlovian classic conditioning. Teaching the brain that after this thing follows something nice. Pavlov had these dogs and every time he fed them he would first sound a bell. Soon they knew that after they heard the bell, they'd get food, so they'd start salivating in anticipation."
"Are you calling me a dog?" she asked, eyes narrowing in mock threat.
"No," I replied. "Don't be silly, you know what I mean. The same applies to humans. First time you tasted beer or wine, I'm sure you thought it was awful. But after you'd experienced the buzz of alcohol a few times, you learned to put up with the taste, and eventually grew to like it. It's about finding a positive reinforcement and associating the initial unpleasantness with the following pleasure. It takes the edge off the nasty bit and eventually it becomes part of the experience and even part of the pleasure."
"Of course," I continued after taking a short breath, "sex and the orgasm is one of the strongest positive reinforcements we have, so it's also one of the most powerful ways to condition the mind. That's why I said many of the BDSM and mind control stories on Lit are stupid. Orgasm denial means the so-called Dom is refusing to utilize the strongest way to affect the mind of the sub - orgasms. Now, if these fantasies had said 'orgasm control' I would happily have agreed with them. The most effective way to condition someone is probably to keep them on the verge of orgasm, 'edging' them, until they're so desperate for it that they'll do practically anything to be allowed the release. That's when you can stretch their limits and introduce new ingredients which will, if done correctly, become part of the sub's pleasure."
"So, let me see if I get this right," she said. "You're saying that by edging me until I'm desperate to come and then doing something nasty to me before letting me climax, you can make me like that nasty thing? Make it so that I get horny by it?"
"In general principle, yes," I confirmed. "But it has to be within reasonable limits. If whatever it is that I'm trying to condition you for, is so gross or painful that it completely puts you off, then it will not work. It might even work the opposite way, make you associate it with the frustration of not getting an orgasm so you'll like it even less. I think it's important that the subs are informed about what is going on and understand that the unpleasantness that's about to happen will lead to the orgasm they so desperately want. But this also means that it's much harder to work this on unwilling subjects. If the very thought of someone manipulating your mind is abhorrent to you, then the knowledge that this is what's happening will make your resistance much stronger."
"But since mind-control fantasies turn me on," she concluded, "I'd be a willing subject so it would work better on me. Great! How do we start?"
"Whoah there!" I cautioned. "Not so fast. You need to think this through. First of all, there are implications that you clearly haven't considered. Like, if it was about something you already liked and was comfortable with, none of this would be necessary. Right? So by definition, at the very least it has to be a bit outside your comfort zone."
She nodded reluctantly. "I guess so."
"So it can be something physical," I continued, "like getting spanked, or swallowing sperm, or anal sex." She shuddered but I pushed on. "Or mental, like appearing in public in revealing clothing, having sex in places where you might get caught, or going to nude beaches." She looked at me thoughtfully. "And some things are really a combination of physical and mental. Like, say, nipple piercing. That obviously hurts while it's done and it's uncomfortable in the beginning of the healing process. But it also has a mental aspect, in that it's an outwards sign that's obvious to anyone who sees it. You know, women with pierced nipples are automatically assumed to be sluts. So that would have to be reinforced with orgasms both immediately after the piercing, as well as for encouragement during the healing period, and after she has shown off her nipples at some beach or party."
"So you're saying," she mused, "that if I got my nipples pierced you'd be eating and fingering me to orgasms all the time during the healing and if anybody spotted them? Sounds like a win-win to me!"
I nodded in agreement but refrained from pointing out that if the conditioning worked like I was hoping, the positive reinforcements would cause her to become sexually aroused by any of the things I was "rewarding". Win-win, indeed!
"But I think we should start with what you proposed yourself," I continued before we could descend too deeply down the topic of piercings; time enough for that later. "Let's give you the slow and careful but steady sperm-loving conditioning."
So that's why we were later in bed together, naked of course, and I was slowly and methodically licking her clit while I had two fingers in her pussy, working her G-spot. She was squirming and alternated between cursing me and begging for the orgasm I'd teased her with for the past 20 minutes. From the tone of her voice, I suspected that she was getting close to the point of no return where the risk of turning a further delayed orgasm into a ruined one was increasing.
So I rolled over onto my back and pulled her with me so that we ended up in a 69 position with her on top. We'd planned it well so she knew what to do. Working the underside of my cock with her tongue while methodically milking it with her hand, she was getting a good taste of my pre-come but would be mostly safely out of the way when I started shooting. Which was going to be pretty soon since she had given me a fair bit of attention as well during the edging.
"Soon" quickly became "now!" as she continued milking my shaft and licking my most sensitive spots. I couldn't see what was happening but I felt her still licking as I shot my load onto my stomach and it would have been very hard for her to keep that up without getting at least a taste of my sperm. Which was, of course, the purpose of the entire operation. When she'd sucked my cock to orgasm in the past, she'd always run off at the first spurt, to spit and rinse, actually leaving me to ruined orgasms a few times before I realized that I'd have to finish the job myself, as it were. But this time there was no running off and it was one of the best orgasms I'd had with her. So it was only fair that I return the favour, right?
I twisted my arm so I could again push two fingers inside her and "stiffened my thumb and applied rotation on her sugar plum" as the great poet said. She started moaning and groaning almost immediately and I felt her pussy squeezing my fingers as hard as if it had been a hand. I continued fingerfucking her and thumbing her clit until she pulled away and swatted my hand aside with her own.
"Stop it!" she said. "It hurts when you do it that close after I've come."
Then she looked down at the puddle on my stomach and giggled. "You were right, it didn't taste nearly as bad this time."
I must have almost beamed with pride. Success! But then she did something that took me completely by surprise. She leaned in and dipped her tongue in my sperm! "It really does taste less foul even now." She curled up the tip of her tongue and gathered up a drop of my jizz, tasted it and made a small grimace. "Still pretty far from nice, though. I guess that will take a few more tries."
It did take more than a few. In fact, I would say several. Many. Not that I minded. Not the least. I was getting more and better blowjobs than ever before and, of course, I was eating and licking (and fucking!) her as well, so just this game of "programming" her became a huge boost to our sex life. And when she complained about my pubic hairs getting stuck between her teeth, I immediately offered to shave them off, or let her shave me if she wanted to. Which she did and I then "returned the favour" by shaving her as well. Followed by more mutual edging and the first occasion where she actually took all of my sperm in her mouth and held it there while I licked and fingered her to orgasm. She still spat it all out afterwards, but that was in fact one of the very last times she did this. And the "coincidence" that she came to associate being shaven with the orgasms as well, was never any part of my planning, was it? "I refuse to answer that question on the grounds that I might incriminate myself!" Suffice it to say that she has kept her pussy meticulously free from hair ever since then and whenever she thinks my pubic hair is too long or itchy, she shaves me. Great foreplay, try it if you don't believe me!
