Our adventures in love continue - My super macho hombre lover discovers life again with his No 2 Best Lover
All characters are well over 18 years old and include 'Rocket Man' and 'Sparkling Red' who first met online a few years ago as their alter egos 'Jardine Man' and 'Mimbabe'.
In sharing past love details, the biggest change in my life was the Ex telling me she had an affair in Jan 1987 - just four years after we'd been married and exactly 7 years after we'd first met. She declared that she would never tell me who it was or any details. She keeps her word only revealing his name in 2018 after the counseller for my affair said she was not being serious!
I believe quite bizarrely that we'd only commented on her affair maybe half a dozen times in just on 30 years since it occurred and we certainly didn't do any counselling as we couldn't afford it. I struggled on in silence.
The most strange event was her asking me to come with her in early 1991 to get a blood test which turned out to be really a AIDS/HIV test as he had tested positive! Even that didn't result in any soul searching by her or discussions!
In any case rightly or wrongly, , I forgave her at the time and we had sex (more correctly revenge sex perhaps - but whose!) a week later and my son was born in mid October. Later she repeatedly highlighted that my son was three weeks early maybe in some attempt to hide the fact that the affair had occurred just prior to that Christmas 1986 and was certainly after the man involved, a fellow work 'mate' and two years ahead of me at Uni, had written in Dec 86 in our Visitors Book after a BBQ that he 'Couldn't be more of a tart.' Certainly my investigation had him as the prime perpetrator in my Ex's betrayal as explored in Vol. 1 Pt. 13. That said I wasn't sure - so I basically ostracised all top 10 suspects! He had probably already f¥€ked her by then maybe! Thankfully my son was a blonde headed surfer dude too, just like me!
Revenge can be served best cold as when I was told his name my comment was that "Yes he was the prime suspect and how could she stoop so low and let him f¥€k her even when sober he was a sleaze at Uni and been a Dick ever since with other of the married wives! Surely one of the other wives had said something!"
Fast-forward to 2016 and it is coming up to 30 years and my love life is a disaster as it's non-existent. I join the Military Brotherhood Riders Club for a Harley ride to Tarago and I get asked if I can take one of the other guys girlfriends friend who wants to see if she likes riding with the Club. She is 5 foot nothing and probably only 45kg, clad in the right leathers and I say I have no problem at all and so I get introduced to 'Mia'.