In any case rightly or wrongly, , I forgave her at the time and we had sex (more correctly revenge sex perhaps - but whose!) a week later and my son was born in mid October. Later she repeatedly highlighted that my son was three weeks early maybe in some attempt to hide the fact that the affair had occurred just prior to that Christmas 1986 and was certainly after the man involved, a fellow work 'mate' and two years ahead of me at Uni, had written in Dec 86 in our Visitors Book after a BBQ that he 'Couldn't be more of a tart.' Certainly my investigation had him as the prime perpetrator in my Ex's betrayal as explored in Vol. 1 Pt. 13. That said I wasn't sure - so I basically ostracised all top 10 suspects! He had probably already fΒ₯β¬ked her by then maybe! Thankfully my son was a blonde headed surfer dude too, just like me!
Revenge can be served best cold as when I was told his name my comment was that "Yes he was the prime suspect and how could she stoop so low and let him fΒ₯β¬k her even when sober he was a sleaze at Uni and been a Dick ever since with other of the married wives! Surely one of the other wives had said something!"
Fast-forward to 2016 and it is coming up to 30 years and my love life is a disaster as it's non-existent. I join the Military Brotherhood Riders Club for a Harley ride to Tarago and I get asked if I can take one of the other guys girlfriends friend who wants to see if she likes riding with the Club. She is 5 foot nothing and probably only 45kg, clad in the right leathers and I say I have no problem at all and so I get introduced to 'Mia'.
Turns out later she thinks I may have ticked her online but we didn't realise that at the time. She rode well and was very shy around the bikers so she clung to me during the lunch at Tarago. I ask her whether she'd be interested in catching up again and she says yes. We setup a coffee meet at Max Brenners and I messed up timings and have to go in my work 'smurf' outfit rather than going via Jardine St! In any case we hit it off after I gave her some bright yellow lillies which she loved. We head off to have Thai at Chong and Co and she is great company. We setup another date for the following Friday night near my place and she successfully navigates from nearby. We go straight to the restaurant from her car and we again have a great time. Returning to her car I invite her up as I say that while I don't have any etchings I do have an impressive view and whether she'd like to see it. I'm very impressed as she is a beautiful Venezuelan lady, blonde, trim, very energetic and loves being in Australia. I do the 'show the view' with the 'blind-fold trick' and she is in awe. Her comment was that it was a "panty dropping view". I reply that I'd not know whether that was true as yet. Well it is she comments and it was.
She showed me that you can easily have sex three times a night, three times a week every time you meet rather than sex once a year on your birthday, if you're lucky!