Old folks fuck their brains out, too
I'm 72 years old and having the best sex of my life, Perhaps that's a sad commentary on how poor my earlier sex life was but it's true. My partner is 69 years old and it's almost a standing joke that we better live up to her age as we clamber into position for mutual oral sex. So, if you sometimes see a couple of gray-haired old folks in a mall, smiling, realize that they may have been fucking their brains out a couple hours before.
The sex isn't the same as it was forty years ago. Not as frequent. Not as urgent. Better technique now, highly cooperative -- after all, each time might be the last time in each of our lives. That sort of helps concentrate your feelings. Very warm, very emotional. While the bodies may be a little more wrinkled and sagging, all the necessary parts are still there and her cunt is just as juicy as a twenty-year old and her butt still feels smooth and firm and sexy.
I was married for over 40 years and my wife died. I know now what a humdrum sex life we had. I mean we had sex regularly and we raised three children successfully. But it never had the passion we're now having. Probably a lot of marriages are like that. And I can't just blame my wife, it had to be because of me, too. It takes two to tango, as they say. Neither of us knew any better, I guess.
A little over six months after my wife died, some old friends invited me over for dinner. I knew these people from way back before I ever met my wife. Back then the wife of this couple, even before they were a couple and were just dating, fixed me up with a blind date with a girl friend she thought was perfect for me. Fran was cute. Dark hair, small, a little busty. In my mind I compared her favorably with an actress/singer back then named Kathryn Grayson. We got along fine and dated a half dozen times. We 'necked' as it was then called, holding and kissing each other and feeling around just a little but it never went far. Then we quit dating. I'm not sure why -- I changed jobs, moved, probably never called her back again.
Anyway, something like 45 years later, at dinner there were my friends, two other couples, me and Fran. The wife part of my friends just never gives up, I guess. Fran was probably as surprised as I was. But at our ages, you go with the flow. So Fran and I talked and caught up on things, grandchildren, etc. She's still as cute as ever. Still small, nice figure, although her hair is now white. She's been single for quite awhile, me fairly recently. So I asked her out and a week later we went to a movie and dinner. I took her to the door and she looked up and I could tell it was o.k. and I kissed her. She kissed back and we held each other close and kissed again, then I asked if she wanted to go out a week later and she agreed and we said good night.
The next date, she asked me in when we got back to her place. We were on a couch and after several kisses, she asks,
"Can you still have sex?"
I was dumbfounded.
"What?" is all I managed to croak out.
"Not every man can still get an erection when they get older. So, I'm asking if you are capable of getting an erection and having sexual intercourse," she rolled out, amost like a teacher giving a lesson. Since she did teach for years, it was probably her normal way of talking.
"Uh, well," I stammered, "yeah, I can. I needed Viagra the last couple years but I guess the answer is yes."
"Good," she said, smiling now, "bring some Viagra on our next date then."
"You know, Fran, you don't have to do this. Way back, some girls thought they had to put out as sort of a repayment for the guy buying dinner but that isn't what I had in mind."
"No, I know that. It's what I had in mind," she answered. "Look, 40 years ago when I was a young, naive virgin but thought a lot about becoming a non-virgin, I finally met the guy that I decided I would go to bed with. I waited for him to make his move and the next thing I know, he's gone. If I waited for you now, the same thing would happen again. I don't know how you ever managed to get married and have children."
"It was more than forty," I said, "And there's no way we can capture things the way they were back then. We both know better now. And while you 're just as sexy now as you were then, I'm over-age and over-weight and need Viagra to perform. I've never been the world's greatest lover and I never was one of those huge stallions, just average maybe, and I think I've shrunk a little with age."
She grinned and kissed me quickly.
"From what I can feel, you're ready now and you haven't had any Viagra. Darn you Pete Ross. I had my whole life in order and you had to show up again. I was done with all this and now you've opened it all up again. So you're not getting away this time. Now, when should we get together next?"