To really understand the secrets, you've got to understand the background, so bear with me as I recount the family history before I get to the family secrets.
Dad passed away years ago, killed while working on a construction job. He was literally hit by a ton of bricks that were dropped by a drunken crane operator. Mom got all of the Worker's Compensation benefits payout plus made a lucrative settlement in a lawsuit against the developer, general contractor, crane operator, and others.
Mom was living alone in the old house, a place that had been in my mother's family for three generations. Great-Grandma Doris bought the house with her own money, a fairly unusual thing for a woman in the early 1900's; but she was a physician/surgeon, a VERY unusual thing in the early 1900's and had made a lot of money on her own. She married later in life, had only one child, Grandma Dorothy, and divorced her husband not long after Dorothy was born. Owing to some shrewd business arrangements and some sharp lawyering, Doris came out of her divorce not owing her ex-husband very much at all. Doris made a lot of money and invested it wisely. The "Great Depression" of the 1930's left her unscathed. Doris and Dorothy were secure and, in fact, downright well-off.
Great-Grandma Doris died while World War II was still underway. By that time Dorothy was married, had given birth to my mother, and was living comfortably in the family home. One of Great-grandma Doris' coups was constructing a pre-nuptual agreement and trust for her daughter that insulated her fortune from being raided by Dorothy's husband should a divorce occur. This was long before such an agreement was commonly known, let alone fashionable. Grandma Dorothy's marriage was rumored in the family to be "rocky" but a divorce never occurred. Dorothy never worked; her husband was an industrial manager who made very good money on his own. Though my mother grew up in an environment of an "armed truce" between her mother and father, she was well cared for and, in fact, had more privileges than most kids of her era. Grandma Dorothy did not live to a ripe old age, though she did outlive her husband. I never knew Grandpa Frank and have only vague memories of Grandma Dorothy.
My mother married young, had me, and she continued to live in the family home. She had the same type of pre-marital agreement and trust made for her that Great-Grandma and Grandma had for themselves. Mother was secure notwithstanding my Dad's occupation and earnings. I moved out of the house when I went off to college and now have a place of my own with my family. By the way, Mom put together a trust for me just like the one her mother put together for my Mom. That makes me financially comfortable irrespective of the fact that I make a lot of money in my accounting practice.
But let's get to the point!
We did Mom's 70th last year. When I say "we", I mean my wife, three kids, and me. Mom told me that since was "getting on in years" she wanted to make sure things were regular with respect to her estate and possessions. She wanted me to promise that I would keep the house in the family-I said yes-and that our family heirlooms and keepsakes were all preserved-I said yes to that, too-and that all of the family "papers" culled over and either preserved or destroyed as I felt necessary-I said yes to that, as well. In specific, she said that there was an old trunk that belonged to my Grandfather in the attic. It was locked and had a sign on it that said, "TO BE OPENED ONLY AFTER MY DEATH". Mom said that she never had the desire or the nerve to get into that trunk but that I might be far enough removed to deal with whatever was in it without upsetting the family "applecart". I could make the decision as to what, if anything, I thought she might need to know or what papers in the trunk might be important to keep.
Well, Mom passed away a month ago. It was up to me to take care of her estate, including going through those items in my Grandfather's truck that she so dreaded seeing.
I popped the lock on the trunk-there was no key to be found. There were a few items in there: a bundle of diplomas, a marriage certificate, Grandpa Frank's birth certificate, his Army Discharge certificate, and a few World War II photographs. Also there, and of more importance, I found a large "pocket" file along with several large photo envelopes and a number of reels of 16mm film. I began with the large file.
The first document in an envelope from the Lawfirm of _______ & _______ addressed to Grandpa Frank at his business address and was marked "PERSONAL AND CONFIDENTIAL". In it was a letter dated November 16, 1946. It stated in part:
I have reviewed the material which you and your investigative firm provided me, the copies the pre-marriage agreement which you signed when you married Dorothy ___, the trust fund documents created by Dorothy _____'s mother, (the latter two of which have been appropriately signed, notarized, and recorded), and your personal sworn affidavit as to your perceptions and beliefs.
As we discussed over the telephone, I do believe that you may well have sufficient grounds to go ahead with divorce proceedings but I did not find anything in the material provided that will obviate, nullify, or compromise any of the provisions of the pre-marriage agreement or the conditions of the irrevocable trust. Were you to pursue a divorce, I believe the outcome which might prove to be emotionally satisfying-but perhaps only marginally-would result in undoubtedly sensational publicity which would be more than unpalatable. The divorce itself would only net you a nominal financial award which, considering the costs, would be far from rewarding and, frankly, a course which I as a responsible counselor would recommend against.
It is my understanding, from our conversation, that you essentially agree with my opinion and choose, at this time, not to take any further steps along the lines of legal action. I am, therefore, returning to you all of the material that you sent me, including investigative reports, films and photographs. I suggest you keep them some place safe so that, should circumstances or the state of the law change, you might have them available to use to pursue a later action.
To say the least, this intrigued me. I fished out a package of documents from the "pocket" file and dug into the contents. The next item was a lengthy report from the ________ Investigation Agency dated September 18, 1946. Here are some excerpts:
Pursuant to your request, this agency undertook a confidential background and activity check on one Mrs. Dorothy _____ , your current wife. In the course of this assignment, we accomplished a number of interviews, discreetly done-most under pretext-actual surveillance, and took a number of still photographs along with several reels of 16mm film. We also, with your authorization, obtained copies of bank records and traced-again discreetly-funds paid out by Mrs._____ during recent years.