My Audiologist Needed Some OJT
This started out as an older man's sexual fantasy and only fantasy, but slowly evolved into a real life experience that I'm sure many other men in my position would only dream about.
Shana is a 34 year old audiologists who recently fitted me with hearing aids. She is married to her college sweetheart, a geologist for a major oil company. Shana is tall, willowy, and in my opinion very feminine, but not especially beautiful, well built or overly sexy. She is from a very conservative background. Her father is a Baptist minister- enough said.
I learned all these things during weekly appointments with her to adjust my aids she recently sold me. We talked about movies and good restaurants in addition to our family lives. My wife and I have been married many years. I did not address the fact that she has put on weight and does not feel attractive or sexy- sooo our sex lives have all but disappeared. I still love her dearly but I do get really horny and don't want to go the call girl route.
With Shana, I feel some really strong chemistry. Maybe its because of her youth, outgoing positive personality and apparent interest in me. I do know the only way to find her true feelings is to definitely take it very slow. After all, she is my audiologist and if I read her wrong and offend her I am in big trouble. Initially, we were strictly professional. She seems to enjoy our weekly appointments or "dates" as she described them. Shana is also evidently a very touchy, feely person. On my first examination she placed her hand on my thigh. Just an innocent move- I couldn't know for sure. Since then she often greets me with a hand squeeze and lately has led me in to examination room by the hand. I pretend to give these actions little thought but inside it's a different story.
Finally I decided to go for it.
"Shana, you have helped me so much and I've taken so much of your time, I'd like to return the favor. How about meeting for lunch as a token of my appreciation?"
At first she just looked at me then said "Why Denis, that would be so sweet of you. You have become one of my favorite patients. I also consider you a friend and would love doing lunch with you." Her response made my loins tingle but knew I must remain cool. Our relationship will continue to be a work in progress.
Our initial out of the office date was at a nearby Mexican restaurant. Shana had a 1½ hour lunch break so we had time to relax a little. Since she had appointments that afternoon she refrained from margaritas but I did manage a couple.
"Tell me more about yourself, Shana. You seem to really enjoy your profession. You also appear to have a pretty busy life without much time to 'stop and smell the roses.' Do you and your husband save time for yourselves?"
"Well I do really enjoy my work especially since Brad, my husband, is also very busy and I don't like being home alone all that much. I do wish we could spend more time together."
Now the margaritas were beginning to work. "Please don't take this wrong, Shana, I'm not trying to get too personal but do you and Brad really have a good active personal life if you get what I mean? I found that most important in your thirties. Even at our age, Janis and I seem to really come together after some pleasurable intimacy. Without it I tend to be up tight and frankly not that happy."
I could tell my bluntness may have gone to far. Shana avoided eye contact and seemed very uncomfortable. It seems I had blown it!
But then, "Denis, I really don't know why I am willing to discuss my personal life with you. Maybe its because we have become friends and I have always wanted someone outside the family to talk openly to. I love Brad dearly. He has so many good qualities including adoring me and always catering to my needs- except one. His, you know, 'personal interest' in me seems nil. We 'get together' maybe once every week or two and its very routine."
"Okay, what do you do? How do you let each other know when its time? How do you prepare? What do you physically do and what about afterwards?"
"Denis this does not seem right discussing these particulars. I really am not comfortable the way this conversation is headed."
Silence, then I apologized. "I understand Shana, At my age it's hard to not to get right to the point. Politically correct I'm not. Sorry.- What good movies have you seen lately?"
A little more silence then she started in. "We just go to bed, one thing leads to another, he gets on top and in a few minutes its over. We then kiss, say how much we love each other, and that's pretty much it."
She seemed at first totally embarrassed by this confession but then somewhat relieved.
"Shana may I help?"
She nodded tentatively in approval but obviously very skeptical.
"Since your both so busy you must create the right conditions. This is what I want you to do. When he's busy at home or watching TV you should get his attention by dressing provocatively, caress his head or arm, and rub the back of his neck. Suggest a little wine and some soft music when you return. That should get his motor running. Then leave and take a relaxing bubble bath. From what you said about Brad, he would not go for the real sexy lingerie, garter belts or spiked shoes. I am the same way so what I would suggest would be some good perfume, a sexy silky, thigh length wrap around robe with some really sexy transparent panties barely covered by the wrap. The key here is to tease him. Men love it and it really increases their libido big time."
"You should be a tease but also take the lead. This will be new for him too. Wine, music, teasing, touching, and foreplay will do wonders."
"Ready for more?"
"Denis, I can't believe your telling me this but continue. Why stop now?"
"Your missionary love making position is fine but variety is the key. Try you on top or doggie style or on your sides or how about oral or anal?"
Shana hesitated then responded " I am intrigued by different positions but have never though much of oral or anal and would be afraid to try. One or both of us might be totally turned off or embarrassed."
"Shana, Janis and I do it all except the anal. and wow!. The only way to know is to try."
"You've given me so much to think about. Bottom line is I'd like to experiment but I should be comfortable with any new technique before springing on Brad."
"Hum, are you saying you want a little OJT?"
"Well I guess I am. I know I'm not a real beauty so if your not turned on or have 2nd thoughts being married..."
