I don't like cumming before the woman comes. And I don't like cumming after the woman cums. I prefer we cum together, full noise, and staring into each other's eyes. So why don't I like cumming after she has orgasmed?. Because I know that after the orgasm, sexually we are turned off, and she will be impatient for me to stop. At least with the guy, after he has shot his load, within minutes his cock will go soft, and she knows. But the woman can pretend her enjoyment of having my cock still inside her cunt with ooooos and aaaaaahs and o my god... pump me harder. Is she still interested, echoes inside my head?. Women are such great pretenders.
After, and before sex, I usually like to walk around the apartment with a semi. My penis hangs down not soft, nor is it hard. It looks bigger, and more sexy. It curves in an interested way, ready in a moments notice for some full-pelvic cunt-fucking. When out of sight of the woman who is in my bed, I will touch it to keep it semi-excited. I check it out in the bathroom mirror, a little more rubbing is required.