My wife Ro and I (Pierre) have started exploring more of our sexual fantasies lately. It all started when we jointed a Swingers network. Chatting with other couples who are in the Lifestyle has become quite the turn on, and leads to some fantastic sex. We have met up with a few couples at strip joints. Ro usually wears something very sexy and makes sure her blouse is unbuttoned enough to show off her nice cleavage. I am unsure if it is the strippers that get Ro so turned on or the fact that we may be swapping partners for sex at some point during the night. I have learned that Ro is a generous tipper towards the dancers and often is rewarded with a hug or kiss on the cheek.
For me it is the whole sexual ambiance. Everybody has sex on their mind; you have the strippers and you have my wife getting me aroused with her flirtatiousness, or as I said earlier the prospect of have sex with someone other than my wife.
Ro is a very beautiful lady. At age 53 she still turns heads and when we go to swinger events she also causes heads to rise. She has short dusty blonde hair, gorgeous legs and a very healthy chest. Not many people know this but Ro got her nipples pierced about 3 years ago and that is what seems to have started her sexual liberation. Our sex life for the most part has been great, but with the thought of these new adventures sex has been better than great.
With this new sexual freedom we have become more open with our sexual fantasies. Make that I have opened up more about my sexual fantasies, but Ro enjoys listening to them. They usually end with both of us having a great orgasm. We have talked of going to Vegas and have Ro wear one of her newly purchased sexy mini dresses to a casino bar and see how many men show interest. One of the dresses has a sheer front and can be quite revealing with the right lighting and angle. This is the dress I would encourage her to wear. I would be on the other side of the bar so I can watch all the action. As far as where could this lead to we will have to wait and see. I can honestly say I have watched Ro making out with a couple of guys through ours swinging connections and it gives me a rock solid hard on. In our fantasy if she found someone she was interest in having sex with I would let her lead the gentleman back to the room and meet up with shortly after. My fantasy is to see them making out when I get there. Then when Ro gave me the ok I would join in and we could have a hot threesome.
The fantasy we have been discussing lately is having Ro go out on a date with a gentleman from the swinger sights. One night after we had a few drinks we talked about this fantasy a little further, and I knew Ro was interested when she said, "Are you sure you would feel ok with me going out on a date with another guy?" I said, " Ro you know I love you and you mean the world to me. What we have is the most wonderful marriage anyone could dream about. You know I get turned on watching you make out with another man. I am not jealous because I know at the end of the day we will be together. If it is something we both will enjoy lets go for it."
We really do have a wonderful marriage. It is not often you find someone who you can laugh with and cry with. We love each other's company and truly miss each other when we are apart for an extended period of time. We mean the world to each other.
I told Ro if she was not interested that is fine after all it is a fantasy and it can be played over in my mind as many times as I like.
Instead Ro said, "I am getting quite turned on thinking about it and if you want to pursue this I am more than willing to go out on a date if we can find the right guy."
We started looking on line in the swinger sites as with most of the swinger sites there are more single males than there are couples. We searched in a 100 mile radius from our town. We were looking for a professional gentleman who would have the same interests as us. We soon found out this was not going to be easy. We soon narrowed it down to seven guys. We sent out emails to see if they were interested.
We waited a couple of days then we both jumped on the computer to see if we received any responses. Six guys expressed interest noting how beautiful Ro looked in our profile pictures. Guy #7 also expressed interest in my wife's looks, but said he was not interested in meeting up with a couple. Ro is not the shy one when it comes to online chatting and told the 6 guys who expressed interest that they need to send pictures showing their face and any other pictures they want to send. Then brief descriptions of things they like to do. We would then narrow our choices down to three after we reviewed all the responses.
The next night we opened our email and four of the guys responded to our email.
Ro immediately turned two down because she was not impressed with their appearance. One of the guys Ro rejected missed the point of things you like to do. His response was "I like sex and I like to eat pussy"
Now guys I know we all like sex and most of us like eating pussy, but if you are trying to get a girl to go out on a date with you I don't think that is the first thing you should tell her when she asked what kind of things do you like to do.
Ro informed the other two guys that she will get back to them later in the week. She also sent them a facial picture of herself, so they know we are not just playing games.
The next night the two other gentlemen responded to the email. Both looked clean cut, but one was only 5' 5". Ro was not interested in looking down at her date, so he did not make the cut.
Now that we have narrowed it down to three guys, Rob, Jay and Jeff. Ro decided we would play Wife Dating Game. She sent out an email to the three guys and explained the rules to them. The rules are as follows:
On Thursday night Ro will set up a chat room and ask each of the guys three questions. The guy that answers the question the best gets 1 point. After the 1st two questions one guy will be eliminated. Then she will ask the two finalists 1 more question. Whoever answers the questions the best gets to be my wife's date for the evening?
I can't believe how turned on I have been since we started playing out this fantasy. Our sex has been mind blowing. It is quite obvious Ro is turned on as much as I am. It is now Tuesday night I told Ro, "Thursday when you are chatting with the guys I want you wearing something real sexy. I want to see how hard you can get them and I want to be able to feel how wet they will make you."
Ro said "I have been wet for the last week, but also feel a bit nervous. I am sure a couple glasses of wine will cure the nerves issue. As far as the wetness goes that may not end until the date is over."
When Ro got home from work on Thursday night we had a light meal then had a Martini on the patio to help easy Ro's nerves. We finalized the questions we would ask the guys. We discussed it earlier and decided most of the questions would center on the date itself. We had been chatting with the guys the last couple nights to help us get to know them better. The guys were informed that they would have to travel to a restaurant out of town for obvious reasons. We told the guys to be in the chat room at 9 o'clock.
Ro asked, "Why again do you want me wear my sheer teddy?"
I told her, "1st for my benefit. You know it turns me on when you wear it. 2nd the person you pick to take you on a date Saturday night will get a glimpse of his prize on the web cam. We will not turn the cam on until the others have left the chat room or we have kicked them out. You can then do a little modeling for him and get him excited for Saturday's date." Ro didn't have a comment for this, but at 8:45 she disappeared into the bedroom and reappeared 10 minutes later looking absolutely stunning. It's show time.
All the guys were ready to play here is how the chat went:
Ro: Hello everyone here is your 1st question.
Ro: When you pick me up for our date Saturday explain how the initial greeting will go.
Jay: I will bring a bottle of my home made wine. We could all have a glass before we head out on the date.
Jeff: I will want Pierre to answer the door so I can introduce myself to him first. Then with a rose in hand I will walk over to you and present you with rose and give you a nice peck on the cheek.
Rob: When I see you Saturday night Ro I will walk up to you and give you a gentle hug. Then give you a big kiss on the lips.
Ro: Wow all good answers, but the winner of question 1 is Jeff.
Ro: Jay you didn't show any affection towards me during the greeting.
Ro: Rob you came across a little aggressive for the initial meeting. We can heat things up later.
Ro: Jeff excellent answer. And after the peck on the cheek we might turn that into a lip locking kiss before we head out as I know my husband would love to see that.
Ro: Jeff you win the first point.
Ro: question number 2
Ro: What kind of restaurant would we go out to eat at, and what would be my appropriate attire?
Rob: I would take you to an upscale restaurant because that is what a beautiful women like you deserves. I would like you to wear a dress that can be very sexy.
Jay: I was planning on bring over some prime rib that we could grill up. That way you will not need to get all dressed up.
Jeff: I was looking at casual dining. You can wear comfortable clothes, besides it is what's inside the clothes that will be getting my attention.