I shared my frustration with Kara. "I just can't find the right stuff to use. Porn is so unreal and all the other publications are so dry that they would put him to sleep."
I had been trying to find some printed material to use when I got together with Jeff to explain sex to him. Jeff lived a few doors away with his over protective mother. Jeff's dad passed away when he was eight and his mother really smothered him after that. I kind of adopted him as he was growing up. We had gone to ball games, attended some school functions with him and he did some yard work for us.
Jeff will be starting college this fall. I was a little shocked when he asked me if I would answer a few questions he had about women and sex. I figured an eighteen year old would already know this stuff. Jeff revealed that when he asked his mom things, she seemed embarrassed and always changed the subject.
Kara asked, "What are you trying to find?"
I replied, "I am just looking for some things that will help get the message across. Jeff told me he has never even seen a woman naked before, except in Playboy. His mom has been so protective of him since Jerry passed. But I think she has gone too far. Jeff told me he wants to be ready for when he meets someone in college. So, I wanted to find some information for him that was not so boring and clinical."
Kara said, "So what you need is a visual aid."
"Exactly."
"What about me?"
I looked her in the eyes. "What do you mean?"
Kara sighed. "Well, you need a visual aid to explain what you are telling him. I could serve as your visual aid."
"Are you telling me that you would be willing to be naked while I pointed out the parts of your body and explained all about sex?"
Kara said, "You are the one that said you wanted him to be ready. What better way than for him to have already seen the sexual parts of a woman's body?"
I didn't say a thing as I pondered what she had said. It did make sense but than again, did I want my wife naked in front of Jeff as I explained sex to him?
I finally replied, "That would solve my problem. Are you sure about this?"
Kara said, "Sure, why not."
I called Jeff and told him to come over Saturday afternoon. After a late lunch, we moved into the living room. I sat in the recliner and both Kara and Jeff sat on the couch. He seemed a little confused as to why Kara had joined us.
I began. "Jeff, there is a lot for you to take in today. I don't want you to be shy or embarrassed about what we talk about. If you have any questions along the way, feel free to ask them. Agreed?"
Jeff nodded.
I continued. "Now, I am sure that you are aware of how your body reacts when you become sexually excited. That may happen here today so don't worry about it. A question for you, have you ever masturbated? Do you know what happens when you orgasm?"
Jeff blushed as he looked towards Kara. She smiled and said, "Don't be embarrassed, most everyone does."