This is the weirdest sexual experience that I ever had.
This happened about 6 years ago and is written as I remember it happening. It was the first time I first used Viagra. It wasn't really Viagra but a fairly potent generic drug that did the same thing.
I haven't used it much, once or twice a year or is more than enough. As men get older the ability to maintain a good hard erection gets more difficult sometimes resulting in a fairly soft erection sometimes barely suitable for intercourse and sometimes not at all, for a large number of the population anyway. Sometimes it is just more of a psychological thing.
I had this problem about 6 years ago and went to my Dr to talk about it. She's the sort of person who just tells it like it is, no holds barred. That's why I have kept her as my Dr for the last 15 years. I was a little embarrassed at first speaking to her I put that aside and spoke in a matter of fact way, trying not smile or laugh about it and I think she did too. After I explained she said she needed to do a few physical checks.
She took my blood pressure and checked my eyes and asked about headaches and how often I get them, how often do I have trouble maintaining or getting erections etc. That was as physical as the exam got, I was a little disappointed but she said that give her all the information she needed.
So she went on to explain the mechanics of the penis, the vagina, how intercourse for some woman being self-lubricating after menopause changes with age and how the penis changes with age as well. The arteries harden up and cholesterol in the penis's arteries are just like the heart arteries apparently. I felt like I was her student who was there for an adult biological sexual education class. She recommended a blue boat shaped pill, this is what she said "Ok well will try you on this one, its not the real viagra but a lot cheaper, my husband takes it every now and again and it's really good." giving me almost a funny type smile as she said it.
She continued on with a big smile "He's tried several different types and this one definitely works the best for us." The one she recommended to take (there are a few different types) were based on her own experiences it turned out.
Then she went on "Now you only need half a table about ½ an hour before sex, they only work when you get aroused and if you are as horny as my husband you shouldn't need another one for at least few months afterwards." No crap! That's what she said. She's pretty straight up.
Some Dr's give away way too much information, anyway, she obviously thought highly of this brand from direct experience by the sound of it. Picturing someone her age having sex isn't really what I wanted to do but it did make me snigger a little.
A few months earlier I had discovered a few months earlier that my wife was having an affair with a guy she worked with but who I never met, but I never let on to her that I knew about it. It can be hard to get aroused for sex with a woman who you know is going behind your back with another guy, so this may have had something to do with my lower than normal libido. Possibly ammunition for a later date should I ever need it but for the sake of our two kids I decided just to bury my head in the sand, let it go for now and ride it out. It was hard to do but in the long run I'm glad that I took this approach.
Anyway three months after that I found myself in a similar situation but was a lot more carful than my wife was about letting anything slip. I was in an extra marital relationship with a younger woman who was a solo mother and I would go round and see her sometimes while her daughter was at school it was the best time for us to have some alone time. Usually I would tie this in with a work trip since I did a lot of field work.
We had never had sex or seen each other naked before but we had kissed and cuddled and felt each other up a few times letting our hands explore each others body's and bits on over and under clothing several occasions. One time she was showing me a 2 inch scar she had that went from her the bottom of her belly button straight down and stopped about 1 inch above her clit. They had to remove one of her kidneys from suspected cancer and this is how they did it. So she pulled her knickers right back so I could see all of her pubic hair and mound as well. A few days later when we were feeling each other up I decided to test the water a bit more and put my fingers all the way down to her vagina to find she was much wetter than I anticipated down there.
She put her hands down my trousers in return and I had wasn't able to get an erection which I was a bit embarrassed about. She commented on it but I just downplayed it. It didn't seem too take much for her to get wet and in the mood.
She suggested we take things a bit further so we made it a date for a week later. I didn't want to do it then as I was worried I may not be able to perform. That's when I made an appointment to see my Dr so I could get something else sorted out first.
A few days after the Dr's visit I had the day off work, arrived at her house and I took half a tablet about 10.30am with a glass of water. A good test run I thought. I never mentioned it to her. After I got there she wanted to have a bath so we had one together. This was the first time we got to see each other naked.
We stripped off in front of each other, I hopped in first so I could get a nice view of her pussy as she opened and lifted her legs over the bath side. She had quite a nice body, larger c -- cup type breasts (my wife's are b cup), trimmed pussy with large protruding inner lips but bigger tummy with more stretch marks than my wife had. Her clit was less than half the average size and well hidden. My wife's body was nicer than hers all around, but my wife watches her diet a lot more than this lady did.
