My original "Three" followed-on from the wonderful
"Outsourcing" by Paco Fear
, from more than ten years ago. Sadly, I have never been able to get in touch with him to seek his input, so please treat this as a further respectful but unofficial homage. The following will not make a great deal of sense unless you have read both those stories first. As before, some minor liberties have been taken with dates and ages.
Mark and I married when we were both 33. We planned and conceived Dylan after about a year or so. Mark's job, although very well paid, required a lot of travel both fairly locally and to bigger discussions and deals a few states away. When Dylan had just turned four we had to move a long way eastwards for his work after he was promoted; the same amount of travel, but an even better income and -- as it turned out -- a much bigger house thanks to the price imbalance between the old and new areas. It sort of worked well for Dylan, as she had not yet started full-time school and could now do so along with all her peer group. Since my early 20's I had made a good living as a non-fiction magazine journalist, which could be done from home, and as I was in much demand I could do as much or as little as I pleased to fit in with the daily duties.
The Marsh family -- just the three of them -- were wonderful neighbours. Although son Tom was about ten years older than Dylan, Una was only about two years older than me. Unlike the two of us, she and Nick had both lost their parents not long after they married, and so they were thrown together more than other families. They had made that work very well; not only were they really close and loving as a couple, and Tom a wonderful young man, but they did much good work at and for national and local charities, soup kitchens, and so on. Around town as soon as I introduced myself as the new resident at the old Turner house, the person I was talking to would almost always say something to the effect of "you have the best neighbours ever".
Dylan (then 4, remember) was quite fearless and talked to anyone; on our first full day there she found her way through the hedge between the houses without me being aware -- cue a rapidly-building major maternal panic; the only good (good?) thing was that as we were at the far end of a cul-de-sac there were no cars whizzing by. However, Una soon called across that Dylan was safe, and about ten minutes later brought her back in her arms with two cookies. Her eyes were damp "What a lovely girl she is. She is welcome to come over any time -- with your permission, of course". I learned later that Una had had problems when Tom was born and could not have any more children. Nick was equally kind to Dylan; Tom was very quiet and studious -- although clearly very fond of his parents - but he and Dylan quickly became best buddies
Every mother worries about the babysitter the first few times. I asked Una's advice about the most reliable local teenagers, and she just shot me down. "I will be really happy to look after her any time, at your place or ours. I will also vouch for Tom as a good boy; please feel free to assess him for yourself, of course, but if we are not about he is reliable and completely honest". She was right, of course; with her permission we always paid Tom for his time when he helped us out, but we could hardly pay his parents. I soon began to feel that we were taking advantage of them, seeing how often they kept an eye on Dylan, and so every few weeks we arranged to take them out for a nice meal; we sort of dressed it up a bit by telling them that it was on expenses for Mark's work, researching the best new places to take his clients. That way we hid who was actually paying -- they were so kind that I'm sure they would have refused if they had known it really was us footing the bill. They were excellent company, and had a stack of other interests beyond the charitable ones. It was nothing like adequate repayment, but we let them know we would be happy to keep an eye on Tom if they were away -- he was of an age to stay in their house on his own, but he always knew he could come over for a meal or some help with his homework. As you would expect, he was a model guest but also -- like his parents -- good company and easy to talk to.
Forward about four years, to a few weeks before Tom's 19
th
. His parents had gone on a 10 day motoring vacation to a National Park a couple of states over as a slightly late joint 40
th
birthday present. Tom was by now fully self-sufficient and well-organised; having just finished school he was about to start work for a landscaper before starting at the local two-year college while he decided what he really wanted to do next. The very least I could do for his parents, in return for the hours they had spent with Dylan, was to be, as ever, a fall-back for him and maybe this time feed him a few fancy meals. I got a list of his favourite dishes from his mother just before they left.
One evening, perhaps forty minutes after we had eaten and Tom had gone back to his home, he reappeared looking white as a sheet. Weirdly, my first thought was that I had somehow given him food poisoning, but he took a deep breath and just said "My parents are dead". There had been a phone message waiting, asking him to call the local police; an officer visited immediately to pass on the news from the far-away State police. His parents' car had been hit broadside by a large luxury coach that ran a red light at speed. I think poor Tom's only comfort was that it was very unlikely his parents even knew what hit them.
Although at that time things between us were rather tense (more on that later), I only have admiration for Mark at this point. We took a joint decision to step up for Tom 100%, so whilst I attended to the domestic arrangements, he sorted out the police reports, notifications to employers and social groups, inquest and funeral details, and later all the probate paperwork. He, like me, was amazed (even after four years of knowing them) at the number of people who were trying to get in touch with Tom to offer condolences, and we tried our hardest to shield the poor boy whilst living with our own grief. Tom coped with the funeral about OK, even though Mark had had to change the venue from the church so that all who wanted to could attend. It ended up at the High School assembly hall, which had about three times the capacity of any of the churches, and still there were over fifty who had to stand at the back. I guess the whole town pretty well shut down for it.