Those who have been reading my stories, know that my name is Suman and that I am happily married to Raman. We are an Indian couple in our 40's. As you might have already read, we have had a few experiences with swapping and with exploring our erotic natures, normally while on holiday so family and friends do not suspect. This story is about the first Tantra massage I had. For those who have never tried it, Tantra is a wonderful experience for both men and women. The Tantra practitioners engage in what they call either lingam or yoni massage. A session will do wonders, especially for women who rarely orgasm and men who experience premature ejaculation. It has been four years since I had this session. I credit it as the beginning of what is, for me, now, a very fulfilling sexual life, full of highly erotic and memorable experiences.
I was attending yoga classes and, after some time, became friendly with the yoga teacher, Rashmi. She was an Indian woman in her 40's with the body of a much younger woman. To me, she was beautiful as well as built for sex. We soon became close enough to share details of our lives, as girlfriends are wont to do.
Raman and I went for a short holiday so I missed a few yoga classes. When I got back to the classes, Rashmi inquired about our trip. She teased me by suggesting that I might have had a lot of sex with Raman. As we discussed my trip, the talk became intimate and we shared details of our sex lives. Rashmi said that she almost always had an orgasm and most times had multiple orgasms. I was almost speechless at that revelation. She said that it was due to a Tantra massage and session she had. I had never heard of such, so Rashmi gave a few details and urged me to have a similar session. I was stunned that she was suggesting that I have an intimate massage with someone who was not my husband.
During the next week, we talked more about her massage experience and she provided more details of what happened to and for her. She went on to say that her husband had also had a Tantra massage. She said it had opened them both up sexually to the point that now their sex life was dramatically different and more exciting than she could have imagined. Of course, I spoke with Raman about our conversation and he was curious to know more. So, we did some research. What we found were testimonials about what a tremendous impact it had made on couples. Still, I was hesitant, but Raman was keen on the idea and wanted to know more.
We invited Rashmi to our place for an in-depth discussion. She informed us that that her yoga guru, Shivanand, and his assistant, Meena, had been the ones to give her and her husband their first Tantra massage when Rashmi and her husband visited them at their ashram in the hills of the Himalayas. I said that it was not likely we would go there, and she said not to worry too much about that since Shivanand and Meena were scheduled to come to town in the near future. She said she would contact them and ask if they would be willing to work with Raman and me.
Later in the week, Rashmi called and informed us that Shivanand and Meena were, indeed, coming for a few days and had agreed to meet with us to discuss the possibility of a Tantra massage. For the next couple of weeks, I alternated between excitement and hesitancy about what would be a more intimate experience that I was used to having. The day finally came. Raman and I went to meet Shivanand and Meena. We were surprised to see such a handsome couple in their 30' s. After some small talk about families and our lives, we got to the main topic of discussion. They began asking us probing questions about our sex lives. I have never before been asked such detailed questions or had to provide such detailed answers on such a personal subject. They urged us to be open and frank about things we liked and things we did not.
Shivanand explained that the Tantra massage and session would be either one or two days depending on our preferences and willingness. He cautioned that it would be very intimate and would involve tantric breathing, full body massage, lingam and yoni massage and would be performed by opposite sex, him with me and Meena with Raman. He also said that, if we wanted, they would teach maithuna, tantric sex. I told them that I had never been naked in anyone but Raman's presence. And, I had never even seen a naked male, other than Raman, let alone had sex with anyone.
They apologized for being so blunt but asked whether I would be able to engage in the session. They explained that, in their experience, very few Indian women would agree because it meant having to set aside all inhibitions. They also expressed concern about whether Raman would agree with me being touched by, aroused by and, possibly, even having sexual intercourse with Shivanand. Also, they wondered how I would feel about Raman doing the same things with Meena.
They then gave a thorough overview of the actual activities of the session and urged us to think it over carefully, since it would impact our relationship, either improving it, or, if either of us felt bad later, potentially causing problems. They said that we should look at them as a teachers and not to view the session as having some sexual fun with other people. They indicated that everything would be done only with our consent and nothing would be forced on us. Besides, they said that they were charging a hefty fee so that we should think twice before accepting.
That night, Raman and I had one of our most intense discussions. I said that I was reluctant to have the session since I had never been with another man and had to be naked and do things. I asked Raman how my doing that would make him feel. He said he also would be having a session with another female and would be doing the same things. Raman said he was willing and hoped I would agree to give it a try and do whatever I felt was ok and nothing more. He suggested that I have the massage, but to hold off deciding on the maithuna until afterward and see how I felt about it then. I called Rashmi, who, of course, was urging me to just let myself go and do it. She said that Shivanand was very good and would never force me to do anything I did not like. I told Raman about my conversation with Rashmi and said that if he really wanted to do this that I would try. The next morning, Raman called Shivanand and Meena and informed them of our decision.
Shivanand congratulated us on our decision, gave us the scheduled date and said that in the time between now and that day we were to meet that he wanted us do a series of breathing exercises which he explained to us. As the day approached, I became more and more nervous and almost decided to cancel more than once. But, before I could do that, we got a call from Shivanand and Meena who said they had booked rooms in a local resort and asked us to meet them one day earlier than scheduled. They expressed their joy that I had made such a bold decision and said I would never regret doing so. As we talked, my fears seem to melt away. They ended the call telling us to come the next day fresh and happy with no preconceived notions and to leave our inhibitions at the door.