The first time I suspected my wife of being unfaithful was after my son Matt's 13th birthday. I picked up the pictures from the drug store on my way home from work. Julie wasn't home yet so I sat and looked through the pictures.
What a great day that had been. Matt had been so surprised when we got home and found a surprise party with all of his friends waiting for him.
As I looked through the pictures I found a very good one of Matt and my friend Steve. It was a close-up of both of their faces.
Steve has been my best friend all my life, my kids call him Uncle Steve, his kids call me Uncle John, we're that close.
As I looked at the picture of their two faces side by side I noticed things that I hadn't before.
They had the same color hair, black. They had the same eye color green; they had the same narrow nose. They had similar skin tone and facial features.
If I didn't know better I'd have sworn they were father and son.
A few pictures later was a picture of the kids at the party, but something in the background caught my eye.
In the back of the picture were Julie and Steve, they were in what I would consider a very intimate position, in fact it looked as if they were just about to kiss or had just kissed.
I carefully examined the other pictures for anything else that might show the two of them together, but couldn't find anything. I pulled those two pictures from the packet and put them in a desk drawer in my home office.
The fact that my son looked like Steve and that I had a picture of Steve and Julie in an intimate looking pose didn't prove anything, but I immediately began to think back to see if I could think of any other evidence that Julie might be cheating on me.
I didn't have much time to think though as a few minutes later Julie came through the front door, gave me a kiss, and headed upstairs to change.
That's what she did every day when she got home from work, and I'd never had any reason to be suspicious of it before then. With suspicion running through my head I headed up stairs to see if I could catch her at anything.
When I walked into the bedroom Julie was surprised to see me, but she didn't act like my presence was unwelcome.
"Hey sweetie, how was your day?" Julie asked as she changed out of her work clothes.
"Not too bad, I stopped and picked up the pictures from Matt's party, they turned out great. We sure took a lot of them though, five rolls for a birthday party?" I asked.
"After all the trouble we went through to make him think he wasn't getting a party only to throw him a surprise party like that I'm damn sure gonna make sure he has plenty of pictures to remember it by." Julie said.
"It was great to have all of his friends, family, and even Steve, Mary, and the kids over for the party." I said.
Was that a flinch when I mentioned Steve's name? It was a movement of some kind, but was it natural or was it a reaction to the name?
"Yeah, it was a great party." Julie said.
Other than the possible flinch I couldn't get anything out of her yet. I decided I'd keep an eye on her and Steve as much as possible to see if they were up to anything. I didn't go all hi-tech with tracking devices, recording devices, video cameras, and phone taps, at least not right away, I merely started keeping track of where Julie said she was going to be and then finding reasons to call to see if she was there or not.
A few weeks later the body of a missing little girl was found in a lake and by sheer luck her family had done DNA profiles on her so that if something happened she could be identified.
Julie gave me a perfect opportunity to find out what I was wondering.
"John, I think we should have those DNA profiles done on the kids, if something ever happened and a body or part of a body was found I'd want to know if it was our child or not wouldn't you?" Julie asked.
"You're absolutely right, that girl's teeth were missing and the body was pretty decayed so normal methods wouldn't work, I think having the kids' DNA on file would be a wise thing to do." I said.
I said that I would take our four kids Matt, Ashley, Hannah, and Sara in to have the tests done to put them on file with the county.
When I was alone in the office with the family doctor I made a request.
"So John, what's up?" Dr. Smith asked.
"I'd like copies of the tests. It's not that I don't trust the county to have the information if something should happen and it is needed, I'd just feel better if I have copies of them at home in my safe too." I said.
"Sure John, no problem, lots of parents have made the same request." Dr. Smith said.
Two weeks later I was out of town for a week on business. With the DNA tests in hand I went to a doctor's office to have myself tested.
"Dr., a woman that I was living with for 8 years claims that I am the father of her 4 children; now she's coming after me for child support. I have reason to believe I might not be the father of one or more of them. I got her to give me DNA profiles of the kids; I want you to tell me how many of them I'll be financially responsible for." I said.
"Of course, it's an unfortunate situation when someone tells you that a child is yours when it isn't. I've seen several marriages destroyed by this. You say that you aren't married to this woman?" The doctor asks.
"No ma'am, we broke up 3 years ago, I'm married to another woman and this whole child support thing is really pissing me off." I said.
Before I returned home I had an envelope in hand with the results in it. I hadn't read them yet, the closer I got to knowing, the more I wasn't sure that I wanted to know.
When I got home Friday night there was a note from Julie on the table that said she and the kids had gone to her mother's for the weekend.
With the whole weekend to figure out what to do if things were as bad as I feared I decided to open the envelope, but only after I'd calmed my nerves with a tall Scotch.
I immediately poured another one and drank it quickly when I saw the results.
None of my four children were actually mine, but it was quite clear that they had the same father.
After getting good and drunk I passed out. At about 4:00 in the morning I woke up and started thinking about what I was going to do.
I suspected that Steve was the man that had fathered my children, but I had to be sure. It was at that point that I decided to go hi-tech. There's a shop specializing in surveillance equipment not far from the house so Saturday morning I went over there and bought the whole package.
I put tiny motion activated cameras covering every room in the house, sound activated recording devices, I got tracking devices to put on Julie's car and Steve's truck so I'd know where they both were at all times. I set it all up to dump the information to a computer in the basement that I could access with my laptop from anywhere.
I got the tracking device onto Steve's truck Saturday afternoon when he dropped by and took me out to eat since I'd called and told him that Julie was out of town for the weekend. At least I could be sure that he wasn't with her during the weekend.
I spent most of the morning Sunday looking through Julie's stuff for anything that would give it away. To my knowledge she didn't keep a journal or diary, and her computer came up as clean. There was some sexy lingerie that I hadn't seen before in the back of her closet, which was just another piece of potential evidence.
When Julie and the kids got home Sunday night I welcomed them all home with big hugs. That night in bed Julie knocked me for a loop.
"John, don't get too excited yet, but I think I'm pregnant." Julie said.
"Pregnant?" I asked.
"I think so. I think I'm going to go to the doctor tomorrow to see what he says, but I've got that feeling." Julie said.
It was at that moment that I decided I'd be going to a doctor too, for a fertility test.