After getting a lot of encouragement from many others, I have decided to write about another time I "ventured out". This was someone I met and got involved with several years ago. I was a little reluctant at first but got to enjoy his company and giving him pleasure. I have since learned to receive my own pleasure and satisfaction when I give and please others. Your comments would be appreciated.
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My husband and I had gone to a party given by some friends. While we were there we ran into a couple that we had met before. She is sort of a prude and not someone I would spend a lot of time with. He on the other hand was very outgoing and friendly, especially to me. His name was Roger and although he engaged my hubby in conversation, he kept looking at me and giving me compliments. It was all flattering and I did flirt back with him. On two occasions, during the party, we had a chance to talk alone, besides giving me some very welcome compliments on my looks, he also hinted some overt propositions. I guess because I had flirted with him and didn't show disapproval in his attention, he became rather frank. He commented me on my dress and my cleavage, leaving no doubt as to what he was thinking. He said that he liked me and would like to get together sometime, maybe for coffee or a drink. I graciously accepted one of his business cards and said that maybe I would. When we parted, I felt his hand brush against my ass. Near the end of the party we had another moment alone, this time in addition to reminding me to give him a call, he pulled me close and whispered that he thought I was a very sexy and appealing lady. This time, his hand rested on my ass and I felt very titillated.
Even though I was intrigued by him I really had no intention to call as I thought he was truly a womanizer. After a week or so, he was pretty much out of my mind when he called. Fortunately my hubby wasn't home. On the phone he was more than charming, pouring out wonderful compliments until I finally agreed to meet him for coffee. We met at a small restaurant in the next town. Wanting to be fairly conservative I simply wore slacks and a smart blouse. Conversation was nice, we talked about family and other mundane things. Much of the time his hand was caressing my leg and it made me feel a bit uncomfortable hoping no one I knew would see us. Because of the way he looked at me and his way of talking, he also made me feel anxious, maybe even excited, remembering his previous charismatic innuendos.