Reluctant Agreement

I've hesitated telling this story because, on one hand it's a sad chapter in my life. and on the other it personifies how devoted my husband is to me and our marriage.

My husband (John) and I have been married for 42 years and have enjoyed an active sex life for most of that time. We both have taken care of our bodies and are in decent shape for 63 years young. John is 6'2" and 210 lbs. He is slightly gray and looks much younger. I'm 5'6" and 155 lbs. John tells me I'm still hot and love my 36 C's and naturally trimmed bush.

Recently John has suffered the onset of ED and it's progressed faster than either of us would like to admit. This is really depressing for him as he is horny 24/7 and now feels he can't perform for me. Also, he has been after me for the past 13 years since we've become "empty-nesters" to consider swinging. I've resisted because I maintained it wouldn't be good for our marriage. He often says, "Wouldn't you like to try out another guy and see what it is like?"

I just roll my eyes and change the subject or reply, "No!"

John has been a great lover over the years. He's the type of guy that cares for my pleasure first. He loves to play with those 36's and actually loves oral sex. He jokes that he is fine with his face buried between my legs. For quite awhile now his stamina has amounted to one time and, when he cums, he becomes soft quickly. To compensate, he tries to bring me near orgasm before we fuck. That way at least we both enjoy the night.

Especially this past year he has had trouble getting and keeping an erection. Even the blue pill is less than effective. About 4-5 months ago we were having a fun romp and I was getting there. He rolled on top and I tried to guide his shaft inside me and noticed he was fairly soft. I was ready and he was not. He rolled off, covered up, and turned on his side away from me.

I tried to comfort him and said it was OK but he answered, "No it's not!" "It's obvious that you have more in the tank."

The next thing he said resonated with me for days. He said, "I'm fine if we find someone that can satisfy you." "You have more left in the tank and it's not fair you're not getting satisfied."

I was just stunned and didn't know what to say and, of course, began to cry. He said, "I'm serious!" "We can still do all the oral and foreplay stuff and I'm ok if we can find someone to have sex with you." "I've thought about it for awhile now."

A few days passed and another sexual romp opportunity came up with the same result. This time he was actually as down as I've ever seen him.

We spend 2 1/2 months in South Padre every winter and have met many nice couples. We hang out a lot with one couple from our home state of Iowa. We met them in 2016 and have been friends since. We both live on lakes and have spent time at each other's home. The couple's names are Bill and Emily. Emily and I have become great friends. Even though we live about 140 miles apart we text and talk a couple of times a week.

We got to Padre on January 3rd this year and our friends arrived on New Years Day. We stay in the same condo complex so we are together all the time. We go out to eat, hit the beach, use the hot tub, and sun by the pool. One day Emily and I were together at the pool having margaritas and the guys were out walking on the beach. The conversation progressed to our sex lives and I shared our troubles and what John had told me about finding someone to complete the job.

She said, "OMG, did he really say that? We talked for some time and she asked how I felt about that.

I said, "As far as I know it's only been us for 42 years." "He's talked about swinging for sometime and I've always said no." "I couldn't go out and do this and most certainly not by myself." "What would John be doing?"

We went out Louie's Backyard later that week, which is a fun place and usually has a band and entertainment. About an hour into cocktails and while the guys went to get another round, Emily mentioned that Bill and her talked about our situation. They both agreed they would like to help out.

She said, "When we get back to our condo why not come up to our place and see what happens?"

I was flabbergasted. Bill admitted he's been attracted to you and I've always thought John was hot. When you mentioned that John has talked about swinging it hit home because we've had those conversations as well.

I sat there stunned. "Really, you'd be willing to swap for a night?" "I'm not sure I could do that."

Emily said, We're not going to take no for an answer." "Besides, it will give us a chance to dip our toes in the couples play water."

We stayed for another hour or two and headed back to the condo. Bill and Emily invited us up to their place and I said, "Sure, why not!"

John looked kind of surprised but said, "Sounds good!"

The guys drank a couple of beers out on the deck listening to the waves crash onto the beach. Emily and I were inside chatting and had a glass of wine. Bill came in to go to the restroom and Emily winked and went out to the deck where John was. She explained to John that they wanted to help us and sat next to John and put her hand on his leg.

She said, "You up for some fun?"

Meantime, Bill came back into the living room and sat beside me on the coach. He put his hand on my leg and squeezed and said, "Are you up for this?"

I said, "Does John know about this?

He answered, "He does now!"

We kissed for a minute or two and he grabbed my hand and led me to the bedroom. We stood and kissed passionately for a few minutes and then he sat down on the bed.

"You still ok with this, he asked." I just shook my head yes.

I moved over near him and he reached and untied my sun dress. When he let the straps loose my dress fell to the floor. I had a sexy see through bra and panties on. He smiled and stood to kiss me again. He reached behind and undid my bra and then sat back on the bed. He gently cusped my boobs and played with my nipples which were already perky. He sucked and gently nibbled on them. I could feel I was getting wet.

I looked down and saw obvious changes in his shorts. He took his shirt off and I reached down and unzipped his pants. He shorts slid off quickly as did his underwear. For the first time in four decades a different man was naked in front of me. Bill's cock was beautiful, a little bigger and thicker than John's. I knelt in front of the bed and began to stroke his cock and then took him in my mouth.

We changed positions and he removed my panties and had me sit on the bed. He guided me on my back and put my legs over his shoulders. He found me soaking wet and expertly used his fingers to massage my clit and then his tongue. I had my first orgasm in minutes.

We both stood and kissed and then John pulled the covers back. I position myself on my back and Bill started again between my legs and worked his way to my boobs and then a passionate kiss. I hooked my ankles about his hips ass he slid his cock in. We fucked for quite awhile and in various positions. I thoroughly enjoyed the night and also cried a few days later.

Emily said that she and John had fun. They stayed on the deck and played out there. She said John was very skilled in foreplay and orally and she had a couple of orgasms. She was able to make sure John had one too. "He enjoyed the BJ I gave him and seemed happy!"

When we got home John asked how the night went and he seemed pleased it took place. It's hard to tell him that I hadn't been fucked like that for over a year and maybe two. I hesitated to tell this story because it's so hard. We dated for three years so we've been soul mates for 45 years. I'm not sure where all of this goes from here but for one night!