I am a 45 year old man with a regular 9-5 job and have been married to my wife Pat for15 years. Our sex life has dwindled in the past few years, and now we only have sex once or twice a month. She is a healthy 43 year old woman, but she has no sex drive. I have discussed this issue with Pat several times, and we have tried everything from doctors to herbal remedies with no success. The times that we do have sex, it is wonderful and satisfying for both of us.
It had been about three weeks since we had last had sex and I was feeling horny. Pat was finishing up the dinner dishes and I walked up behind her and kissed her neck as my hands cupped her firm ass. As I nuzzled into her neck, pat pulled away and just said "Not tonight". That was it. Nothing more was said as I slowly walked back into the living room.
I had been watching the evening news when Pat walked in a few minutes later. She didn't sit next to me on the couch, but instead she sat in the oversized chair a few feet away, opened her I-Pad and started playing her online games. Pat didn't even notice me getting up and leaving the living room when the news was over. I went upstairs to our bedroom and after I laid down on the soft bed, I closed my eyes and started to fantasize. I took off my pants and started to stroke my aching cock. I needed release. Just as I started to explode, pat walked into the room and caught me in mid ejaculation. Warm creamy cum splashed onto my stomach and ran down the shaft of my softening cock. "I'm sorry Joe, I didn't mean to interrupt you. I was just wondering where you went".
I was a little embarrassed getting caught jerking off, even at my age, and by my wife. "It's ok". I replied, and I got up to go into the master bathroom to clean up.
"That sure was a big load you let out". Pat said. When I walked back into the bedroom Pat continued, "I'm sorry that I'm such a cold fish. I hope you know that I really do love you and that it bothers me that I don't take care of your needs. I wish I felt the urge more often, but I don't".
" I understand that you're not doing it on purpose Babe. I love you very much too".
Pat replied, "We will figure something out. I will make it up to you somehow". She gave me a loving kiss and changed into her sleepwear and went back downstairs to play on her I-Pad.
Another week went by and still no sex. I was just finishing up making dinner, since Pat had to stay late at work. She is an office manager in a busy cardiologists office. She walked in the door in a pretty good mood. I stared at her 38C's jiggling under her white blouse and bra, as she walked up to me and kissed me hello. Damn she was a beautiful woman. She kept herself in great shape with her daily runs through the park and with yoga. At 5'7" with jet black hair and olive skin from her Italian decent, I fell in love with her the day we had met in that coffee shop 17 years ago.
"Thank you for making such a nice dinner. I don't deserve you." Pat stated. She took a sip from her glass of wine." I want to talk to you after dinner."
"About what?" I asked.
"After dinner Honey." Between bites of her rigatoni Bolognese, she said, "I want to think about how I am going to say this, and I am also hungry." I got a little worried about what she had just said, but I didn't argue and slowly ate my dinner.
After dinner, I cleaned up and Pat disappeared. When I walked into the living room, She was already in her pajama pants and tank top sitting in the chair playing her online games. I put a cup of coffee on the table next to her and sat down on the couch with my own cup. I figured she wasn't going to talk, so I started watching the Yankee game on tv. Without looking up from her I-Pad, and her voice crackling a little, she finally spoke. "You remember Tina from my office, right, Joe?" I nodded in reply. Tina was Greek, about 35 years old and had a beautiful smile. She is the receptionist in my wife's office. Pat and Tina go out together quite often and the three of us have gone to dinner and had drinks on many occasions. "Well, she is gong back to school to get her RN license. "Patty continued. Her voice still unsteady and not looking up from her tablet. "Tina was telling me that she is going to be studying and going to class a lot and won't have time for a boyfriend." I remembered that Pat had told me that Tina broke up with her boyfriend Mark a couple of months ago after she found out he cheated on her with his coworker.
I sat there, still a bit uneasy and the Pat put down her tablet and took a sip of her coffee. As she placed he cup back on the table she said, "Please don't be mad, but I confided in her and told her about or issues with sex."
"Why would you do that? I replied. "Now every time I see her, I'm gonna think she is secretly laughing at me...the guy who doesn't get laid."