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Our Hotwife Conversation

Our Hotwife Conversation

by money_for_nothin24
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Our Hotwife Conversation

- You want to see me to do what?

Jamie and I have been married for over 25 years. Our sex life has been great with us making the time to spontaneously play with each other two or three times a week. Everything is on the table as to what we will do, and the things we do not really care for neither of us like. We are active together outside the bedroom too, and neither of us could imagine sharing the rest of our life with anyone else. Overall, our relationship and communication are excellent, and I still love her like the day we met.

So, you can imagine the feelings I was having when I realized a while back that over the prior ten years or so, I had been getting more and more turned on by the idea of seeing my beautiful wife have blowout enjoyable sex with another man, or better with several other men at once where she is the center of their attention and desire.

I thought to myself, "

There must be something wrong with me! Where is this thought coming from? Am I psychologically sick and not realizing it?

"

But every time I thought about Jamie having sex with multiple other men, I would get

really

hard. Not just average "

take-or-leave-it"

hard, but the "

I have got to get off NOW

" kind of rock hard!

The thought of Jamie getting completely immersed and losing all control of her senses in a beyond-words sexually pleasurable experience with other men was driving me insane. Yet twenty years earlier, I

never

would have had such a thought. I would have been disgusted with it. Furthermore, it is just not her. Or is it?

I knew I could not ever tell Jamie about these thoughts. She would think I fell off my rocker! The years of silent agony though were really draining. I wanted to tell her so many times, but what would she think? It is not something that would ever happen, so why bring it up? She would sometimes see me in thought and ask, "

What are you thinking?

" I would answer, "

Oh, nothing."

As we age, and relationships and trust grow, we tend to be more open with things that are on our mind. Then it happened. A window of opportunity opened!

We were watching a movie one evening in bed and a scene happened to be of male strippers dancing on stage for a hot excited and clearly desirous young woman sitting in a chair being entertained by these perfectly tanned and muscular gyrating studs. The other women in the audience were screaming out of control with excitement!

I looked over at Jamie and saw her eyes widen as she wet her lips with her tongue while watching the show. She even smiled a bit herself. Then she saw me looking at her and said to me, "

I'll bet you are wishing that was you sitting in the chair with a bunch of naked women dancing for you shoving their tits in your face.

"

I replied, "

If that were to happen, I certainly would not be disappointed. But that was not at all what I was wishing or thinking.

" I then stopped and thought to myself, "

Should I tell her what I was really thinking?

" Ten years had gone by. What is there to lose?

I continued, "

What I was really thinking is that it would be such a turn on if I were watching you in that chair, and they did not stop with just a tease. Where you were touching them, and they were able to strip you and you were able to passionately kiss them."

Jamie then said, "

Yeah, right

." I did not say anything. She then looked over at me noticing the silence, and asked, "

You're serious aren't you?

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"

I said, "

I am. At least right now I am. It is a huge turn on to see you get revved up sexually like that regardless of what or who does it.

"

Jamie did not really react. I could imagine her having an entire range of reactions, but she really did not have one, instead mostly absorbing what I said, or still wondering if I was serious.

I continued, "

Actually, I have wanted to tell you for a long time about this fantasy I have been having, and you can imagine it is a pretty challenging thing for a guy to tell his wife. But I have had a fantasy of watching you having really pleasurable sex with like five good-looking and respectful guys at once. With me even taking part. I know it sounds weird or strange, but the thought is a huge turn on. I looked it up recently, and it is a fairly common fantasy, and I never knew that until more recently.

"

I then thought to myself, "

Well, it is out there now. Whatever happens, happens. Cannot take the words back at this point.

"

Jamie then said to me, "

Well, that will have to remain your fantasy. I really do not have any desire to have sex with anyone else but you. I love you and you alone, and I really do not have time for anyone else.

"

Then moments later she asked, "

What would cause you to have a thought like that? Are you watching porn sites with that theme or something?

"

At this point, I am thrilled that I am not feeling judged by Jamie where I have to go back into emotional hiding. It is such a relief and quite intimate to be this open with her about my deepest and most taboo thoughts, thoughts certain segments in our society would find off limits or beyond acceptable. To be able to get this off my chest after all these years without judgement caused me to feel closer to her than I ever had. I felt like a weight was removed from me.

I answered her, "

No I am not watching porn sites. Not that I have not, but that did not cause this. It is a thought that started over ten years ago when we were out one day, and I noticed you looked particularly sexy. Other men were looking at you, desiring you. They talked with you and of course being a man, I knew what they were thinking. Then I noticed your demeaner. While you would never act on it, the look in your eyes showed you really liked their attention. You were turned on. Then I noticed I was both bothered and excited by you in that situation. It was like I was driving a sports car that every other man wanted. It made me want to show you off even more. I was bothered because you looked attracted to them, and I did not ever want to lose you. Today of course, we are in a much better place with our relationship being much stronger, and it just makes me want to see you that much more turned on with me being less bothered by it."

Jamie reassured me, "

Women do not look at guys the way guys look at women. When I look at a muscular or toned guy for instance, I do not immediately think of jumping in bed with him. I do admire men who put in the effort to take care of themselves physically with exercise and toning, but there has to be more than that for me. There has to be 'chemistry,' a sort of connection. It does not have to be much. But when a guy looks at a woman, he typically sees only her body and goes from there. When this happens to me, I feel like an object, and I do not like it. So, the idea of jumping into bed with another guy, or multiple other guys, really has no appeal to me. Besides, I do not know when we would even have time for that!

"

I then said to Jamie, "

Thank you for the reassurance and for not judging me for my thoughts. It takes guts and trust for me as a husband to communicate that with you, and I hope you realize that. Without our relationship being as close as it is, I doubt I could have ever shared that fantasy with you. It would be as if you were to come to me and tell me you have the hots for our neighbor where you are around that person all the time. It is a hornet's nest of emotion you might not want to stir up if you thought I might dislike it, so we tend to say nothing. I hear you when you tell me it is a fantasy you do not want to explore, and that it is mine and not yours. That does not change my fantasy. But I understand your feelings too and I would never request or require you to do something with which you are not completely comfortable. Besides, it is a fantasy that only works for me if it is something 'you' want."

Ten years earlier, Jamie and I ventured briefly into the swinger lifestyle. The idea of either of us having sex with someone else was not foreign to us. We stopped swinging for personal reasons, and I think in hindsight it was the right decision. Today, we are both in a different place, and I would not be against it if the right people appeared in our lives.

Over the following weeks and months, I did not really say anything to Jamie about this desire other than to joke about it from time to time, especially since I felt more comfortable talking about it. This time also coincided with us both working more on our fitness and dressing sexier and looking better.

But looking better was getting more enticing to me as I noticed men again looking at Jamie with increasing desire as she dressed sexier, fitting into revealing tight clothes she had not worn in years. I was even more turned on knowing that Jamie liked the attention and even teased me a bit with it. Today, I am not the least bit bothered by her feeling good like this, but rather totally turned on by it! I find myself wanting more!

At the same time, I did not want her feeling "pushed" into something she was not wanting to explore or embrace. I only wanted her to feel confident and good about herself, and comfortable enjoying all the sexual attention and pleasure she wanted. I told her often how sexy and good looking she was to me, and I meant every word of it. I wanted for us to engage in naughty play without her feeling like there are rules to the "right" way. Instead, we would play and explore whatever we wanted without guilt or shame.

Our sex life improved tremendously, both in frequency and quality. Jamie realized that she had pulled back over time quite a bit, but I also realized I was withholding how I really felt about her. With our improved communication and better image of ourselves, we chose to improve this area of our lives.

Weeks after I told Jamie about my fantasy, she asked me, "

Are you wanting to see me be with other men because you really want to have sex with other women? Cause if that is the case, there is absolutely nothing stopping you, and you will end our relationship if that is the case. I do not want to feel like I am second place.

"

I replied, "

Not at all! Not that I would say 'no' to such a situation if you were okay with it. But that is not what the desire is. The fantasy is about you being completely open, comfortable, and immersed in a sexually pleasurable experience without guilt, shame, or any inhibition whatsoever, where it is something you would explore and even crave. There is a word for it, and that word is 'compersion.' In fact, I heard that word used the other day in a movie we were both watching. Not sure if you noticed it. It is a huge turn on to me when you are being turned on!

"

I continued, "

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As I said previously, years ago I never would have imagined I would think this way or desire to see you in such a situation. But we only live once, and I think it would be something really fun and super sexy to try out.

"

Jamie then said to me, "

One thing I do not want is to feel pressured into doing something with which I am not comfortable. When you talk about it, I feel pressured.

"

I then said to Jamie, "

I do not want you in any way to feel pressured. I am only sharing a fantasy of mine. If it is something that happens, great. If it never happens, then so be it. Do I want it to happen, and would it be really hot for me? Of course it would! But ONLY if it was something you were into and wanted for yourself. Therefore, I cannot 'pressure' you into doing this and having it become a fulfilling fantasy for me. There is no thrill for me unless this is completely voluntary with full desire and curiosity from both of us, especially you. There is no thrill in this if you feel compelled to comply with something I desire in this area. It has to originate with your desire, which I know in the past you have had because you told me. Is it there today and repressed? Maybe. Maybe not. Only you can answer that question and I have to take your word for it. If it is something that never happens, oh well. You might not believe me but that is the truth. I have nothing to hide at this point. All I can say is that if someday you came to me and told me you really had a huge desire to have a particular sexual experience with other men, I would not likely say no so long as I could be there with you to see you really get into it.

"

Jamie took in what I said, and then told me, "

That almost sounds wrong. Are you sure you are not wanting to sleep with someone else or cheating on me?

"

I replied, "

That is not it at all. Instead, it is like you and I going to an amusement park. Sometimes we ride the rides together and we have a wonderful time when it is over laughing and excited at the thrills we just experienced. We hold hands and then go enjoy the next ride or get back in line for another turn on the same one. Sometimes I do not want to go on a ride, but I am okay if you go on it by yourself and I watch the looks on your face from the ground. I love watching you experience those thrills! And then I love it even more when you get off the ride and tell me how great it was, while we hold hands and go on to our next experience together."

I continued, "

The only difference is that instead of a roller coaster, the thrill ride is a sexual playground of hot men. I can think of nobody I would rather see experience that thrill than you, my wife, the woman I love the most in this world.

"

I then added, "

And think about it. There is no conceivable way I can give you these thrills by myself. There is no way by myself I can give you the experience of being seduced by five gorgeous men at once, all desiring you and wanting to please you sexually and putting you at the center of attention. There is no way I can give you the experience of an unusually thicker or larger cock than what I have to offer. Sometimes connections with other men are different than that with me. You might find a feature of other men more thrilling than one you find in me, and you want to explore it. I fully understand that you married me for the entire package of who I am. But I am not so arrogant to believe that I have 100% of everything that you could ever want in a man, physically or emotionally, yet I love you so much that I want you to have everything, even if it cannot come from me. Does that make sense?

"

Jamie then asked me, "

What would you do if I found someone I liked even better than you, and entertained thoughts that I might want to be with them more? What if they were overall better looking, they made more money, had nicer things, bought me nicer stuff, were even nicer in the way they treated me, and performed better in bed? What if I fell in love with them?

"

I replied to Jamie, "

I suppose that is a risk. But I have one thing they do not. I have a 25-year history with you, and our relationship is nothing short of excellent. If our relationship were in peril, I would not even suggest this. I would not feel safe. The one thing I absolutely have to feel in this type of thing is that our relationship is completely safe, that at the end of the ride you always come back and hold my hand and we are completely open and trusting with each other, reaffirming our commitment to each other. If I cannot feel that way, that our relationship with each other is #1 and safe, then this cannot happen. If you have doubts about that then we should talk about those. I do recognize that women are not like men, in that there does have to be some kind of connection for you to enjoy being with them sexually. But I really do not see it being the same as a 25-year history that you can just throw away cause someone new and flashy comes along, especially if that someone has a personal issue you might not know about.

"

Jamie threw in another concerning objection, "

Aren't you worried about diseases? Do you not care about me enough if I contracted something with no cure and pass it on to you?

"

I replied,

"Again, a valid concern and risk. But I am not talking about having a fling with every high-risk individual out there. I am talking about a select responsible few, and who knows for how long. Could be just one time and we are over it. If I know you well enough, you will have to feel attracted and comfortable with someone to genuinely enjoy them this way, and it would be someone you and I like being around. Not a one-time thing. Also, they would have to know they would never have a permanent relationship with you to replace us. They are the third wheel, and we are all in it for the thrill ride doing our best to make the experience better and more pleasurable for all. That is not a committed relationship like we have with each other. And just like when we were single and dating, there are ways to protect ourselves from the risks. It does not mean we avoid the risks. Instead, we manage them, just like we did when we were dating. And if disease were as rampant as the worriers would have you believe, every swinger on this planet would already be dead or shriveled looking like a person with leprosy. That is not the case. I am suggesting that if this is something we pursue, that we be cautious and prudent about who we get involved with and stay with the same persons while continuing the use of protection."

Jamie then said to me,

"Well do not get your hopes up and do not pressure me. I just do not see it ever happening."

Since those talks, our sex life was incredible. I had not brought any of this up with Jamie, but I believed that old fantasies in her head had been revived a bit, even though she denied it. When we had sex, she had been horny and super wet, like something in her was awakened! Was her denial of desire "society" talking, with her telling me what she was "supposed" to be telling me about good wives not doing this sort of thing and not entertaining those thoughts? Her body was speaking louder than her words, and that was super exciting making me rock hard whenever I was around her. The desire her body revealed was the biggest turn on!

But the part of Jamie I wanted to come out the most was this hidden slut within. I wanted her to strip away the faΓ§ade of properness and reveal that carnal part of her that our society tells her she should never reveal. I had enough of her being lady-like, especially with me, her husband. I wanted to see the desirous carnal slutty whore in her, with her knowing full well I wanted it and she fully accepting of that part of herself.

Even today, there are times I do not want the lady. I want the carnal woman who could let go of all the rules while hungering for male attention and a ravishing and desirable sexually erotic experience, like those women watching the male revue. I want her to say what is on her mind assertively and wantonly, so she can fully have what she deserves in fulfilling her insatiable sexual appetite. I want her to scream in ecstasy and unbearable pleasure. And I want her to crave it repeatedly.

I did not care how she got it, but I wanted her to have it all. This was the woman I love most in this world, and I wanted her to have the best of everything, including the best orgasms that blew her mind, rolled her eyes, and curled her toes. And mostly, I wanted her to share all of this with me, letting me know and reassuring me that I was her one soul mate. It was her thrill ride, and I want to see her enjoy the thrills to the fullest.

Months had passed and we were on a vacation at a tropical resort. Jamie wanted to take her bikini top off in the public adults-only pool while hugging me, fully revealing her beautiful tits for all to see. I immediately got hard under my swim trunks imagining her exposed like this and loving the pool-side male attention she would have garnered! If this had been a clothing-optional resort, I would have welcomed the gesture without hesitation. Unfortunately, this was against the resort rules. But I was genuinely excited to see her want to throw away society's rules and do something out of the ordinary, to feel comfortable in her own skin flirting not only with me, but with all the other young men around the pool. Our next vacation is set to involve a clothing-optional section where Jamie can strip naked absorbing the desirous attention of all the men around her. Having all that attention can be a real confidence booster, and will no doubt excite me in ways she cannot imagine!

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