AT THE BEGINNING:
My wife recently completed training a sex surrogate. She works three nights each month and one Saturday each month. She alternates between two sex therapists' offices.
Because I enjoy her dating other guys, I'm persistently hearing the stories from her sessions.
She became interested in that profession upon spotting a small ad in a local freebie newspaper she picked up at a nearby supermarket.
The posting had been placed by two separate counseling offices specializing in erectile dysfunction and other sexual problems. Each office's mental health counselors share her contractual services.
As she often does, she had been reading out-of-the-ordinary advertisements while sitting across from me at our breakfast table. She glanced up and asked whether I might have a problem with her taking a part-time job. At that moment, I don't think she was seriously considering it.
I have encouraged her to quit her regular job for two years because we don't need the money. She resists because she enjoys her secretarial position at a large insurance branch office.
She also enjoys the after-hours "deep input" from the company's district manager who visits that office every couple of months, but she denies that has anything to do with it. That 38-year old administrator boasts a seven and half inch dick; he and my wife have been fucking for almost a year now.
I said, "Why would you want to take on a part-time job in addition to your regular work?"
But when she clarified the nature of the ad, I thought it was a great idea. With my encouragement, my wife has dated other guys for just a bit over three years. Seemed like a terrific idea for her to get fucked by other men and be legally paid of it.
She responded to the inquiry and, as the ad requested, included a full-body photo and face portrait along with her resume. A copy of the photo is posted at our EP profile under "pictures." She assumed their request was for her completely nude pic but later was told that wasn't essential.
Although the two doctors manage separate practices, they were together for the interview in one of their offices. Upon the call-back interview, they informed her that she first would need to receive a certification for competency through an approved school.
They had by then conferred on the issue and went on, "If you're willing to sign a contract that you'll work with us a minimum of six months, we'll pay the school's fee."
She accepted. The younger of the two psychologists told my wife later they hadn't before offered to pay for training other applicants. He added, "We believe you could be an asset to our offices." They also paid for the initial medical examination, an admittance requirement by the school to ensure that each student is disease-free.
Neither of us then understood the full requirements and memorization. Each topic fills a textbook: ethics, methodology in determining and responding to personality types, standard reactions to common questions, conversational patterns in intimate situations, and -- of course -- sexual control and response.
An extensive psychological profile is developed by those in this certification program. Almost every facet of her personal history and sexual experience seemed fair game for the questioners.
The instructors are comprised of one man and one woman. Each was not only certified as sex surrogates but also licensed as masseur and masseuse; the man also holds a barbers license but rarely practiced that profession.
The class met at their studio, a storefront locale with tinted windows and drapes shutting off the view from the strip mall's sidewalk. Just off the lobby is a juice bar but it's rarely used. Down the hallway, six separate massage room are set on each side.
A copy of her sexual history folder was mailed to each of her potential employers for their personnel records.
Her extramarital dating hasn't been mentioned again to her by either counselor, so we had assumed that wasn't a problem. In an update-review with the instructors, each concluded that her dating other guys with her husband's approval should be a plus for most practitioners.
We learned that these classes are typically small. Only three women and one man were in her group.
Just one other woman intended to practice as a surrogate; the other two entered the course for interest and personal development. All three women, including my wife, have had bi-sexual experiences.
The young guy had not except for an encounter when he was younger. He told the class in group session that a neighboring friend once performed oral sex on him.
The others figured that didn't count, so my wife said, "If my only intercourse had been at 14, would that count?" The others said, "No." The youngest student said, "I'd consider you a virgin."
"Great!" my wife said, "Then I was a virgin for two more weeks!" The group burst into laughter.
I didn't understand the reasoning behind his experience "not counting," but that's what they said.
The male instructor is about 5'6", three inches shorter than my wife, with the strong arms one would expect of a masseur. I met him only once when my wife's car was in the shop and I drove her to class. He's 50, with thinning blond hair. His athletic appearance belies his age by some ten years.
My wife felt he was hitting on her at one point early in lessons. She stuck around after class and asked for a conference in his office. She told him she'd be glad to fuck him after she had completed all classes, as long as he didn't think it was for the grades.
He grinned in response and apologized for whatever misperception she may have had; he went on to say he hadn't intended anything he said to be interpreted that way. But before she left his office, he said, "On the other hand, that sounds like a great idea."
She said that convinced her that whatever he had previously said had been misinterpreted. She apologized for her jumping to the wrong conclusion.
Yet, that private interaction set off a chain reaction of sexual excitement in my wife's mind and, as she would later learn, also in his.