The basis of this story is this quote:
"Alongside reduced intimacy and a loss of a sexual connection (the menopause) can lead to a change in the way a relationship is viewed. A decreased libido is often caused by menopause. This can result in resentment and sexual frustrations that may result in an affair".
THE STORY STARTS
My name is George Smythe. I am 38 and my wife, Helen, is 42. We have been married for a decade. But lately things have changed.
Helen isn't as responsive as she used to be. My wife suspects that she might be in the peri-menopause stage. This is a transition phase before menopause. The menopause is the dreaded "change of life" for women. In this stage a woman's ovaries produce less estrogen and progesterone, and her supply of mature eggs diminishes.
Helen suspects that she is peri-menopausal because she has fewer periods. aka the monthly curse. The change of life is a natural part of ageing for women. It that marks the end of their reproductive years. Menopause is when a woman's menstrual periods stop permanently. The post-menopausal woman can no longer become pregnant.
I always thought that women had their menopause in their mid fifties. But Helen told me that it can happen to women even before they are 45. My wife suspects that she might have completed hers aged only 43.
Helen sometimes had hot flashes, her upper body felt warm and she looked like she was blushing. She has a glow (in man-speak she is sweaty). Strangely after feeling hot Helen felt cold.
Helen recognised that she was moody (and my goodness, so do I), She has to take pain killing gel for her joint and muscle discomfort. She was easily distracted.
On the sex side, Helen had a reduced sex drive. She had vaginal dryness and sex was sometimes painful for her. Helen gained weight but luckily (unlike some) hadn't suffered hair loss or thinning of her hair.
THE SHOCK
I tried to give Helen anything she wanted. I thought we had a good and solid marriage. She looks much younger than her 42 years.
One evening Helen said "We need to talk."
I walked over to her. I leaned forward for a kiss. She turned her head. I smelt alcohol on her breath. She had needed Dutch courage
Helen told me "I have been unfaithful. I have been seeing someone for the last month. It is now over and done with. I don't want you to find out from anyone else. I still love you. I don't want our marriage to end. I will always love you."
A tear ran down her cheek.
I asked her "How can you truly love me yet fuck another man?"
She told me "It was an adventure. But it is now over. I want us to remain together. You are a good husband, both in and out of bed. I like your penis."
My penis is exceptionally large.
She told me "Paul's prick isn't half your size."
I asked "Who is Paul?"
She answered "Dr Paul Rodgers."
Dr Rodgers MD is both of our doctor. I was shocked and saddened by the revelation of my wife's affair, but it was made worse that she had been fucked by my own GP.
The younger-than-me Dr Rodgers had been Helen's bull. My own doctor had made me a cuck.
Helen said "It would be madness for you to give up sex, a nice home, a very nice car, and our twice yearly holidays."
It didn't really matter that my prick is huge and my wife's bull is only averagely endowed.
My doctor had been fucking my wife for the last month. I feared Paul had given my wife the best fucking of her life.
I asked "What was he like in bed?'
She told me "Sex with Paul wasn't any better than having sex with you. It was just different."
I wasn't happy with the answer. But at least Dr Rodgers hadn't given my wife the best fuck of her life. I had hoped that my wife would prefer my larger cock and that I was a better lover.
I asked "How was he different?"
My wife told me "Paul takes much longer at foreplay. I don't just mean kissing and touching each other. Having a meal with the prospect of illicit sex was so erotic. Sometimes we didn't have sex and that made it so much better when we did."
I wanted revenge on Dr Paul Rodgers MD. Metaphorically I wanted my wife's bull to be gelded.
My wife said "Paul liked seeing me wearing my sexy black party dress."
I know why my doctor would like seeing my wife in that dress. It shows over half of her breasts.
My wife paused and said "I left my dress at his house. He would wait in the lounge and I would change into it in his bedroom. I wore a bra, no panties and my party shoes. I felt so sexy, knowing 2 men wanted me."