My life feels so good now because the difficult part is over. After more than a year, my wife absolutely has embraced this lifestyle. It was rough at first when I mentioned it.
"You want to do what?" is how her first reaction to my request went down.
I told her all the stuff I read on the internet to tell her and it clearly didn't work but the seed was planted
A month later, she surprised me and came home early. She was feeling frisky but my penis wasn't cooperating. You see, I had just blasted my cum to some porn
She knew immediately and we had a big argument. She felt that me masturbating was cheating because I wasn't thinking of her when I did it.
I asked her how could I repair the damage done and let her trust me again not to masturbate? I told her I would never do it again.
"I don't believe you can stop on your own. Do you still have that cage you showed me?"
I told her, "Yes, my love."
"Good, go put it on and bring me BOTH keys."
I went and got it and put it on in front of her. I pulled one ball through the shiny metal ring and then the other one. The penis was a little hard but finally slid through
"Bring me the other part and some lotion," she told me.
I watched as she put some lotion in her hand and then enclosed her little hand around my cock. She began stroking it and I began to harden.
"Remember how good that feels," she said and stopped and slid the cylinder over the head of my penis. She pushed it together with the ring and put the lock through the hole
I heard a rather unceremoniously click as the lock securely locked. Then she massaged my aching balls for a moment
"Now pull up your pants because you're done till I say so."
"But when will you let me out?" I asked.
"When I can trust you again. I think maybe we should start you out easy. You can be unlocked at night and when I'm home but if you make me worry, it's never coming off!"
She was still mad at me, I could see.
After a few days, things settled down and we got back to normal. She kept up with the locking/ unlocking part but did little else to make this enjoyable and we both began to tire of it.
I was always asking for the key to unlock when she got home and to shower. I also noticed that sex became more infrequent and more closely matched her libido and not mine.
I wrote her a letter asking for things in my fantasy. I wanted her to tease me and deny me an orgasm. I wanted to please her with my hands and tongue.
She obliged for a month, maybe two but she still wasn't interested in this fantasy until she took it off and told me to leave it off.
As much as I resented the rejection, it wasn't her fantasy. Besides, I could go back to masturbating again!
For the next month, she complained how I never massaged her anymore and things got stale again in the bedroom. We both felt it and I knew that there was two directions we could go.
So while she was gone tending to her mother for two weeks, I purchased a longer cage. It was roomy and comfortable compared to the other one. It was very open to the air and light weight. I liked the way that I could still get an erection in it. I slept with it and my night time woody didn't wake me cause my cock was allowed to grow.
It was very frustrating to get hard but not cum and I actually preferred this because the denial part is the fun part for me anyhow. It felt safer for long term because I could grow and wash with it on. So when she came back, I asked her again to try with me.
The answer was an overwhelming, "yes!"
She looked me in the eye and laid out the rules.
"I can't believe this but I missed this. It provided a spark and made me feel safe and sexy."
I listened intently as my cock began to throb. I hadn't masturbated all week in preparation and I was loving her new found love and participation in my fantasy.
"First, the cage goes on and stays on 24/7. No more key fatigue for me that way; okay?"
Yes my love.
"Then, your orgasms will be far less than you're accustomed too and even when I let you out to stroke you, you can't cum until I say."
Yes my love.
"There will be no discussion about this unless I bring it up. If you try, there will be consequences."
Yes my love.
"You will massage my back, feet or whatever and whenever I ask; do you understand?"
Mmm huh.
