Violet and Xander slowly walked down the stairs together at their mother's, Ursula, calling. There in the hall was a man standing with a suitcase who they both detested.
"Violet, Xander, welcome David," she said excitedly. "As I told you he'll be part of our family now."
"Mom," Violet replied with disdain, "you haven't even finished divorcing Dad yet!"
"Well, I thankfully soon will be," her mother answered firmly unhappy that her children weren't sharing her excitement.
"Don't you think it is a little classless?" Violet continued refusing to let up.
"Violet!" Ursula snapped at her daughter angrily.
"Is that his car," Xander said looking through the still-open front door at the less-than-spectacular but now familiar car sitting on the driveway. "I thought you said that this guy was successful. Dad has bought himself a Mercedes SUV, top of the range. It's pretty cool."
"Good see you kids again," David said somewhat awkwardly after, Xander's less than kind comparison to his father. "Yeah, I'm looking to trade up too. Got a promotion coming up so we'll all be rolling in it soon."
Neither Violet nor Xander looked impressed. A tense air of silence hung in the air.
"Welcome, David to our home!" Ursula hissed at her children, seething at her children's rudeness.
"Yeah, whatever," Violet said unkindly as both children walked back upstairs.
"They just need a little adjusting," Ursula soothed a distraught-looking David as her children returned to their rooms. "I'll talk to them. They'll come around."
Violet, 16, and Xander, 12, were told of their parents' separation six months before when they were told of her mother's infidelity. This was after two years of watching their parents arguing, their mother's coldness towards their father, Gary, her berating of him and her regular weekends and holidays away with her girlfriends, family, trips to see family and any other excuses to be away overnight. It got to the point that not even they believed her mother. It broke their heart to see their father lose his self-respect desperately trying to save their marriage. Their parents tried marriage counselling but David was never far from out of the picture. When their mother was away, they could hear their father sobbing at night.
After two years, Gary finally snapped. He found evidence of her affair before filing for divorce and named David in it. Both parents sat down with their children to explain why they were separating. Xander cried and Violet stared at her mother with ill-concealed hostility. Ursula refused to look at either of her children in the eye as she sat uneasily in front of them, anger not far from the surface. She tried to hold their father equally responsible but it cut no ice because it was only believable to her. All she could offer was that she fell in love with someone else.
What followed was a tortuous three months while Gary looked for a place to stay. It was almost a relief when he moved out. Not that it made living at home any more pleasant. Both Violet and Xander held so much anger towards their mother who was too infatuated with David to notice.
Once the divorce proceedings began after Gary had moved out, it became bitter as no love was love lost between Gary and Ursula. Gary sued for full custody of his children and the house. Ursula fought back and demanded alimony on top of the child support, the house for which Gary was to pay the mortgage and only supervised visitations of Violet and Xander.
It took six months for the divorce to complete. What the unimpressed judge ruled was unsatisfactory to everyone. Gary still had to pay his half the mortgage until, if ever, Ursula married again as well as child support. Custody was complicated by the difference in the children's ages. Violet was deemed old enough to choose which parent to live with, but Xander wasn't. It was decided that Xander would stay in the family home with Ursula during the week and spend weekends with his father. Violet reluctantly decided to do the same for the sake of her brother. She cried into her father's arms when she told him. Gary equally tearfully told his daughter how proud of her he was of what she was doing for her brother.
Their parents' divorce made Violet and Xander closer especially as Violet was forced to babysit her brother while her mother continued her affair with David.
A month after their parents' separation, Ursula took Violet and Xander out for dinner to meet David for the first time. It didn't take the children long to work out who David was.
"Violet, Xander, this is David, the man I have been dating," Ursula told her children proudly, squeezing David's hand.
"You mean he's the guy you cheated on Dad with," Violet sneered. Xander slouched in his chair with his arms crossed and looked away sulkily.
"Violet!" Ursula snapped, looking around to see if any of the other diners heard her daughter.
"It's okay, Ursula," David smiled uneasily but not happy at Violet's disdainful bluntness. "I wish your mother and I could have met under different circumstances but when you're older you'll realize that love doesn't always work how you want."
"Yeah, Dad learnt that the hard way," Violet replied.
Anger flashed across David's face and Ursula was trying hard to hold in her fury.
"Xander, I hear you're quite the baseball player," David said brightly to Xander, trying to change the subject.
"Yeah, I'm good," Xander replied surly not bothering to look at David in the eye.
"Maybe you and me could catch a game?" David offered smiling.
"That would be wonderful, wouldn't it Xander?" Ursula agreed happily. "Thank you, David."
"Nah," was all Xander said. The David and Ursula's smiles dropped. The atmosphere at the table became tense with Violet's hostility, Xander's sulking, David's frustration and Ursula's concealed anger. The meal was eaten in silence and dessert was declined by both children who were eager to leave.
"That was extremely rude of both of you!" Ursula told her children angrily as she drove them all home. "David was trying very hard to get to know you and you publicly disrespected him!"
"I don't like him," Xander spoke from the back seat.
"I can't believe you left Dad for him," Violet added. "Dad is so much better than he is."
Ursula wiped away a tear and began to look visibly upset, "If you just give him a chance, you'll grow to love him like I do. He is such an amazing man." Neither Violet nor Xander gave a reply and indignantly looked out of the car window. When they got home Violet and Xander went straight to their rooms leaving their mother to tearfully apologize to David on the phone for their behavior.
"Dad, you can't be happy about it!" Violet screamed at her dad in frustration when she told him about meeting David. "Can't you tell Mom we don't want to know him!"
"No, I am not happy about it," Gary replied sounding exasperated before taking on a more soothing tone to calm his daughter down, "but this day was always going to come. There isn't anything I can do about it unless he harms you. If I know your mother, you'll be seeing a lot more of him too. Look, I'm not going to punish you for your behavior around him, that is up to your mother."
Gary's intuition was right, Ursula convinced herself that the more Violet and Xander saw of David they would grow to love him. There was no way that they wouldn't. David was too wonderful of a man for that not to happen.
David began to come for dinner and stay overnight. The bare minimum of conversation was returned despite his best efforts. He bought presents which would be carelessly discarded and disappear after David had left. Ursula would later find them in the trash, still in their boxes, unopened.
Ursula even invited David and his parents over, calling them Violet's and Xander's step-grandparents. To her intense frustration and David's parents' confusion, Violet and Xander still refused to engage.
"Violet, Xander, I need to talk to you," Ursula told her children firmly. Inside she was fuming. Their behavior wasn't normal. She was trying so hard to bring David into her children's lives but her children consistently refused. She was convinced Gary was encouraging them to behave this way. "I need to understand why you are behaving the way towards David. He has been nothing but kind to you but neither of you is giving him a chance. Why is that? Is your father telling you to do it?"
"Dad told us it is your problem, not his. He doesn't want to know," Violet retorted. "Anyway, we don't like David because of what he did to Dad. I can't believe you are forcing him on us."