My wife and I have been married for 41 years and have now began collecting social security. We both had careers in education and were extremely carful in our social life. Unfortunately, there is too much of a risk to get caught doing something that wouldn't fall into the "role model" category.
We have also been retired for eight years now and have enjoyed traveling around the Caribbean, Hawaii, etc. We've taken six cruises, mostly to the Caribbean. Since our retirement we've had some discussions, all from me, about swinging and couple's play.
I'm ready as my attitude has changed to a "I don't care about the perception" position. When the conversation comes up my wife just rolls her eyes and says we are too old.
We both don't have our youthful bodies but have kept ourselves in decent shape. She is 5'6" and weighs around 150 pounds. Her 36C's have changed to 38D's thanks to three kids. She is still sexy, although she would admit being 15-20 pounds more than she would like. I'm 6'2 and 215 pounds. My youthful weight was around 195-200 pounds, so I'm carrying extra as well. I can still wear 36" pants, so my middle has changed from 34."
Our sex life is still very active. In fact, her stamina is still great and my perception is she still has something left in the tank when I'm done. She'll never admit it though. She is a master at oral sex and still is fantastic in bed.
One night I brought up couple's play again. The good news is she doesn't get angry about it but still gives the company line "we're to old for such nonsense!"
She also says, "Who would be interested in a 62-year-old woman?"
That was an opening I couldn't resist. I said, "Plenty of guys would be interested!" "I bet if we went to a bar, and you sat by yourself at the bar or a booth, you would be picked up!"
She rolled her eyes and said, "You are full of it!"
The conversation continued and I challenged her to prove her statement. "Let's go to a hotel bar that has hors d'oeuvres and happy hour and see what happens.
To my surprise she agreed and said, "You'll be eating crow!" "Plus we haven't been out on the town for awhile and it might be nice to get away."
We made reservations for the Embassy Suites in the city. I was a little nervous as our date was set for a Wednesday night. I figured it wouldn't be busy but we had other activities planned in the city.
The day arrived and I was excited that we were even going through with it. We arrived early, did some shopping, and then checked in. After a shower we were ready to sample the happy hour. She had dressed in a sun dress that was kind of low cut and revealing (for us anyway). Her breasts are still pretty damn nice and anything low cut is going to show cleavage.
I told her we couldn't come in together or that would be a give-a-way. I also said that if she gets hustled, she needs to play along and try flirting. If something happens, and you want to go farther, go for it. That concept includes going up to a room. She smiled and rolled her eyes!
I went in first and sat at the end of the bar. About 10 minutes later she arrived and sat at the other end of the bar. There was a trio that was setting up and the band soon began playing. We both had drinks and waited. 15 minutes turned into 30 minutes and nothing happened. The crowd grew and was quite busy as a nearby convention just ended. People were coming in for the drinks and food.