Happy New Year and welcome back LW sports fans!
Let's have some fun!
Our story continues, and the timing is perfect as this next installment starts around New Year's 2 years ago.
My theory below on many, not all, who leave negative personal attacks, and not just on this site, but across the Internet as a whole.
I did not write this.
It is an excerpt and paraphrased from a mental health partner of the Cleveland Clinic.
BTW, I get a huge laugh from many of the comments.
Some are hilarious.
The important thing to remember is that it's sound practice to always take advice and comments from complete strangers on the Internet to heart.
As always, GFY.
"When we are dealing with a narcissist, whether covert or overt, their manipulative behavior can feel very personal. The lack of regard, sense of entitlement, patterns of manipulation, and deceptive behaviors of a narcissist can feel very personal when we are on the receiving end of their ways.
The narcissist wants you to take it personally because that is how they maintain leverage. Remember, a narcissist feels small, so they have to make themselves "big" somehow."
Part. 4
Christmas 2018
Although we had hit our first bump in the road as a hotwife couple, it was a small one and we managed it. We are both to this very day, and always have been, sensitive to each other's feelings. We would never do anything to purposely hurt one another, and if we do, we talk it out and correct the problem. Never go to bed mad or upset. What a crazy 3 months though, at least to me anyway. Once I started to get past the jealousy of Byron and Amy, I was amazed. My wife had now been fucking another guy for 3 months. Never in a million years I would have thought.
After our talk, and with my encouragement, a few nights later Amy messaged Keith and they continued to message throughout the upcoming weeks. We have always had good, honest, and open communication. It was now the week before Christmas and we were so jammed up with plans and preparations that we could not even think about a possible meeting with Keith until after the Holidays and New Year's, so it would not be for at least a month. This was a great time to take a break from Byron as it refocused Amy back on me and our family. Amy did start looking at the pics and profiles of a few guys I had flagged for her.
She started the conversation with a few guys and traded messages over the coming weeks. To keep it fresh and fun this was only something we did once or twice per week, and there was just not much time for it. It seemed now that the hotwife seal had been broken, she was gaining more comfort with exploring other suitors. It's a slow process though as she is extremely picky, and was guilt ridden at this time. New Year's came and passed, as we went away skiing as a family. An opportunity to meet Keith finally arose when we made plans to meet with a bunch of friends for dinner in the city a few weeks after New Year's. It was a Saturday night and we got a hotel room in the city so we would not have to drive back, but also so we could play if she wanted to. Amy reached out to Keith with my encouragement.
Saturday night we went to a great dinner with 4 other couples. At first, Amy did not seem that interested in meeting Keith later, and was very non-committal, but as the night progressed, Amy was now texting with Keith and would show me, adding excitement to the night as our vanilla friends had no idea what we were up to. After dinner we all went to a bar for drinks. As Amy got tipsy and continued her texting flirtations with Keith, the plan morphed from meeting up for drinks to Keith coming straight to our room. Amy didn't come out and say it, but I knew her well enough by her level of excitement and her inviting him straight to our room that she had likely made up her mind to fuck him. Hey friends, we are texting with a 28-year-old guy who is going to come fuck my wife later. Can you imagine that conversation? Ha!
About 11:00 we said we were tired and going back to the hotel, and Amy texted Keith to meet us. I waited for Keith down in the lobby while Amy went up to the room. We did not want to chance running into one other couple that was staying at the hotel, and me being there alone would give us a better shot at a plausible explanation. Sure enough, Keith walked in the lobby shortly after. I shook his hand and we exchanged greetings. We rode the elevator and walked to the room exchanging small talk. When I opened the door, Amy was dressed in a very sexy nighty and looked sexy as hell. "I was wondering where you two were. I was getting lonely."
"I can help you with that. How have you been? It's been way too long. Why did we wait this long?" He asked as he hugged her.
The hug turned into a kiss. "Damn girl, you look even better than before. Are we gonna finish what we started last time?"
"I don't know. I'm a good girl you know." Amy said teasingly.
"Yeah, a good girl dressed like that with two men in her room?" I asked her.
She just shot me a look and didn't say a word. Keith was now grabbing her ample ass. "So, the last time we met you were still dipping your toes in the hotwife waters, did you finally take the plunge?"