I met Judy online - on AOL - back when I had an AOL account. AOL's probably the best place for actually meeting people who are into the same things as you are in "real time" because of their many chat rooms created by members who are explicit about what they're looking for. Actually, I didn't meet her "in" a chat room - I was "lurking" and looking from the outside, just seeing who was in the room and then, if they seemed like a likely person to Instant Message, I'd IM them.
I was, frankly, not looking for a woman. I was looking for a guy to have quick, easy, no-strings-attached sex. Preferably a married bi-sexual man. You wouldn't believe just how many there are who admit to such "curiosity" and how many others, if asked in the safe and relatively anonymous environment of the internet will confess to wanting to try sucking a cock. I mean, I believe it's a huge percentage of men who look at internet porn, see big juicy cocks, and wonder: "hmmmm... I wonder what THAT would be like." It's my experience that even those guys online who purport to be straight will admit, given the right lead in questions and such - a majority of them - will say something like, "sure, if a woman is there too, I might try that." For some reason, a woman's presence makes what otherwise might be interpreted as a "gay" event not "gay" at all, but merely a hot sexual encounter where anything goes. It's also been my experience over a number of years of chatting with such men that eventually even those who would "only" do it with another woman, would, if they thought no one would find out, if the guy was "anonymous" to them, just go for a m/m sexual experience or adventure if they thought it would be only that. In fact, statistics indicate that most men, when they were boys, experimented with other boys in some manner or another. I forget the percentage but I think it's about 90%. But ask a man about HIS personal experiences and about 99% will tell you that THEY never did any such thing. Unless, of course, you ask them in the anonymity of the internet chat room environment.
Sooooo... anyway. I was looking into this "bi mm" (bisexual married men) room and there was this screen name that seemed definitely feminine to me. I IMed her and asked her straight out: "Hi. Do you like bi men?"
She answered "What?"
I said, "You're in the bisexual married men room, I thought you were interested in bi men. Sorry."
She claimed (and always continued to claim) that she didn't know she was in the bi room and that she was just looking around on AOL - she'd only just got a computer and didn't really know what she was doing. Well, we started to chat, and of course, since the ice was broken on the subject, I explained about the bi room, the married men who frequent them (like me) and we talked on and on.
We chatted that night, and many more. Honest talk. Often of a sexual nature. She was divorced but living with this guy. It was all very "complicated," but we sort of hit it off. Liked her and she liked me. We chatted many times.
So we wound up meeting about a month later - for coffee. Then more chat. Another meeting. A kiss. Then more chat. Another meeting. Wound up having sex in the car like a couple of teenagers. Got a motel room one day and had great sex - great sex talk - including discussions of bi-sexual activity. She confessed to being intrigued by the prospect of having two cocks to play with (as I believe most women would if given the right opportunity) and I said, (probably said this much earlier actually) that wouldn't it be nicer if the men attached to those two cocks weren't afraid of touching the other guy's cock. (Well, wouldn't most women?)
I mean, how much better if you could share a cock together? There's so many more "combinations" possible when the two guys are not afraid of a lil 'ole cock, right?
And I freely admitted to her that I love the taste, the feel, the smells of not only sex with a woman but also sex with another cock (notice it's not the man that I'm interested in, but only the sex part - that "other" cock that has my interest). I love it for some of the same reasons that women do: it's just plain HOT. I admitted that to her and finally we agreed to set it up because she also found the idea very exciting.
By this time we were together and she felt more confident that another guy wouldn't manage to come between us emotionally. She also felt better that we established some guidelines for meeting another man. I'll skip most of them. But she didn't want to kiss him. She and I would "make love" and he'd only get to "have sex" with us.
I located someone online. Now, his name was Ken, and Ken had sent me a couple of photos of him - none of his face. He was standing before a mirror and had a camera blocking his face and had taken a picture of his body. He had a nice, long cock. Judy said "OMG" when I showed her. I took that as a "yes" despite her worries that he might be "too big" for her... (right).
I arranged to meet him in a "drive up" situation where either of us could easily back out. While Judy didn't want to be there - she was going to leave before he got there and I was to screen him, he showed up early (he was anxious I guess) and she was still there in my car. So there we were, we talked about this and that, and finally, since we all knew what the meeting was really about, Judy and I exchanged somewhat of an OK signal and we agreed to meet again somewhere more private.
We rented a motel room early in the day. I'd arranged a day off - an "in-service" as they're called - and that's where I was "supposed" to be. So I had a whole day off - playing hookie (hookey?) and took Judy to breakfast. Then we went to the room, got ready, lit some candles, put on some sexy saxophone music, and slipped into the bed. Judy and I had hit it off right from the start. We were so good together is pretty "scary." I mean, she and I had - still have - a communication like I've never experienced before.
So we got the room and, had a couple of drinks, and since this was in my "dope smokin' period", I also had a few hits of pot. I am the bad boy, ain't I? But, there ya go, the whole and honest truth of the matter.