I have always been very curious about people's sexual fantasies and decided to try and interest my lovely wife of 12 years to participate in my exploration of the sexual universe. My life as a college professor who teaches physics keeps me involved in everything except anything to do with sex. My wife Emily is a therapist 35 years old and built like a brick -----house. Our two kids were just getting into the stage where they know more than us about nearly everything. Our sex life had diminished in recent months and I was getting concerned. I researched how to make connections and get conversations started with people outside of marriage and found it not an easy or confidential area to get into. To make the leap there had to be some risks.
I took the biggest risk when I started talking to my wife Emily about just visiting a swingers club. Being the therapist that she is analyzed my interest and said why, was she not good enough for me anymore. After making me feel like a sex fiend she refused to participate in any further discussion.
I ran across an ad where a small group was trying to start a couples club and asked my wife to join me in going to their first meeting. It was held at a clubhouse at an apartment complex. It was plainly stated that there would be no sex at this meeting just making new friends. She said you are not going to let this go are you, she than agreed with a lot of conditions.
We arrived and found a most disappointing gathering there. Mostly young men hoping to find someone who wanted to jump their bones. They kept hitting on my wife and another wife of the only other couple there in our age group that showed any interesting possibilities. After buying few drinks my wife said "I told you so" and wanted to go home. We left but as we were walking outside the interesting couple stopped us and asked to talk to us. After we introduced each other we agreed the gathering was a complete bust but did agree to go somewhere with them to have a drink before going home. Their names were Ray and Kathy and lived in our same city.
We stopped at a nearby lounge and ordered drinks and got to know each other. Ray was a handsome car dealer 40 years old and his wife was a 30 year old bond trader. They had two kids and had been married 8 years. As it turned out things were reversed in their case, Kathy was the aggressive one in seeking outside sexual participation as she had been a virgin when meeting Ray and he had a very promiscuous life style before marriage. Outside interest aside my wife and Kathy seemed to bond that evening. We exchanged phone numbers and called it a night.
Interestingly it was Kathy who convinced my wife Emily to explore some possibilities. Emily came to me and said she was willing to have some sensual discussions with Ray and Kathy and see where that goes.