After 20 plus years of marriage, you know your spouse - the great, the good, the odd and everything in between. There's not much that can surprise you to the point of shock because you are actually one psyche in 2 bodies. That is why the story that follows blew me away because I never knew or sensed this was going on inside her fantasies.
As your marriage climbs in years, your body also ages as well. Sometimes the changes are expected or even good, but sometimes the changes can be life changing in the negative sense. After menopause, Emma had changes that were not so good. As with many women, intercourse became painful. After several doctor visits, it was determined that some medication and daily stretching with a vaginal dilator would alleviate the discomfort. Emma needed to bring some measurements to get the right sized dilator. She brought some string to bed so she could mark my penis for girth and length. This was great fun since she had to first make me hard, and then handle my cock to get the measurements. I am always up for my wife to be touching my cock!
At the time, we did not know anything about penis size stats, but when Emma gave the strings with the measurements, the doctor selected the dilators. Handing the dilators over, the doctor remarked that size does matter and mine was on the bigger end of the size charts. She said the dilator sizes chosen were large and extra-large to get to the right stretch. However, Emma would need to work up through a couple of smaller sizes in order to make penetration pleasurable again. The doctor also prescribed some medications to help with allowing penetration to be more pleasurable.
After months of doing stretches with intent and determination, Emma had finally reached the large size. It was not 100% comfortable, but at least it was bearable. We were ready to try intercourse.
So, the night finally arrived and we were both excited. We spent time getting each other aroused and ready for penetration. After some gentle teasing and rubbing of my cock on Emma's cunt lips, we started a slow insertion. After a couple of inches were in, we stopped to allow for the vaginal muscles to relax. After a few more minutes, we reached full penetration. A couple of thrusts were enough though. The pain was still present. This was not good! It had been over 3 years since we had a full-on fuck session. We both were crushed and severely disappointed.
So, what do you do?? As a couple, we made vows to love and honor, so you figure out alternatives to penis in vagina sex. After this failed attempt, we tried multiple things to keep our sex lives active. Some of these were more daring than other things we had tried before. But you can only do so much in the areas of mutual masturbation, oral sex (including face sitting) and prostate stimulation using an Eros. For my conservative wife, the desire for satisfying sex started to override fears that previously drove her to the traditional and unadventurous positions more as time went on.
As it became a bit more difficult to find things that were fun and exciting even with this expanded list, I decided we should try something that would hopefully stimulate Emma's sexual imagination. I gave Emma instructions to write out fantasies that excited her. This would be a challenge since being very sexual (i.e. does not think of sex very often). She was given time alone one afternoon to relax; meditate or whatever to write out some fantasies. Most importantly, she knew there would be no judgement on her fantasy; she should just write whatever would make her excited. If she needed resources to jump start ideas, I encouraged to do so - whatever sources she felt would help.
We never got to hear her fantasy as she was not ready to share just yet, but she certainly was voracious in her sexual appetite. Emma grabbed me and stripped me fast so she could get to my cock. However, her goal was my butt. She had our sex toys already pulled out. Aggressively (and uncharacteristically), she rolled me over and lifted me up so I was on hands and knees. She then lubed up the Eros and inserted it. During this, she was furiously rubbing her clit. She then got behind me, grabbed my hips and pretended to fuck me in the ass with the Eros inside me. Doing this she had another small orgasm, Clearly she was enjoying the Eros on me more than usual. She came hard and several more times. It was the hottest sex in years!
Fast forward to a day out at the beach and dinner with friends, Dana and Mark. After being at the beach, we were sitting around enjoying cocktails and conversations before diner. We talked about all sorts of things from sports to travel to work. Then Dana asked a conversation stopping question - "Oh, I never asked you, how was your afternoon fantasy tryst?" Not sure what she was talking about, I looked puzzled. Emma just looked down and little uncomfortable. Then she quietly blurted out "Fine." But Dana pushed a bit more, "Oh...so are we not taking about this?" Still not knowing exactly what was happening, I sat silent. Emma continued though. "No, we need to talk about something else."
Ok - so WTF?? Dana then explained how Emma called to pick her brain on a good fantasy. Before getting to that point Emma divulged her issues with getting fucked by me. Subsequently, Dana and Emma came up with a good fantasy for Emma to use in her fantasy log.
However, more than just the fantasy to use for a story was discussed. This was apparent when Dana opened up a bit more to lay out what was planned and agreed to by her and Emma. Dana then shocked me with what she said next. "Well, Emma and I agreed that you should not suffer anymore. After almost 4 years without a good fuck, you need to fuck someone - me."
Wow!! I froze with a look of a deer in headlights. I had no idea what to say to that. I NEVER considered or dreamed of something like this. What do you say to something that flies in the face of being faithful to your spouse??
In addition, I was really bewildered. How can a sexually conservative wife agree to something like this?? I had difficulty getting her to allow the Eros, so where did this come from. Now with the fucking of our friend being offered, could I even take it to the next level?
In the silence, Dana broke the quiet stillness. "This is something that the three of us talked about before offering it to you and we all agreed that it would be fun, different, and exciting while also enriching our friendship."
After thinking about this for while I asked Emma, "So, you talked about this already and you are ok if I do this?"
Emma answered curtly: "Yes." But she was looking down at the floor when she said this.
"So, was this your idea?"
