I think a lot of married couples do this; during foreplay we sometimes talk about sexy scenarios to make us more excited.
One of our more frequent topics is my husband mentioning someone we know, like Rick, and will whisper how sexy it would be for me to get nude for him as my husband watches.
Being an exhibitionist it's always a turn on for me. Sometimes while having sex I'll call out the persons name saying "Oh fuck me hard Rick." It just adds a little spice to our love making, it's not something we always do, but it can be fun.
Rick and his wife Kathy are friends of ours and Rick has come up in our love play on a number of occasions. I find him to be sexy and sweet, but it's my husband that suggests him when we play.
Rick, Kathy my husband Jim and I spent a leisurely summer day on our boat. We freshened up at the marina and then took the boat to a dock and dine restaurant.
We had a wonderful dinner with plenty of drinks. We all get a long well so there was good conversation and plenty of laughs. We stayed in the restaurant longer then we expected and had more to drink then planned also, at least my husband did. He wasn't drunk, but he was a stickler for driving sober ether in a car or boat.
We pulled away from the docks and dropped anchor just around the neighboring cove. The plan was to make some coffee and give my husband an extra hour or so to burn off some alcohol.
Kathy and I went in the galley and made some coffee; well actually I made the coffee. Kathy, a light weight in the drinking department, laid down on a bunk and fell asleep.
I gave Jim the coffee and Rick and I had a beer, we weren't driving so why not.
We had some music playing and the guys were talking about something I wasn't very interested in. It was a hot night and even on the water there was little or no breeze.
"I'm really warm, are you guys?" I asked.
Rick said" it is hot, but coming from the air-conditioning in the restaurants makes it seem hotter."
My husband said with a grin "Gloria, take off your top if it'll make you more comfortable, Rick won't mind. Will you Rick?"
"Won't bother me, please do," Rick said with the same grin my husband had.
I looked at my husband, not sure if he was for real or not. He smiled and gave me a little shrug of the shoulder which I took as, why not. Why not is right, this was just like our pillow talk and I would love to have Rick look at me.