Chastity saved our love life
I always know when it's going to be a special day. My wife rolls over and wakes me up with kisses to my neck. I roll back to her and she reaches out for my hand. She passed me the metal O ring and I know I'm going to be locked up for the day. I get up, have a shower and return with the chastity O ring firmly behind my cock and balls.
It wasn't always like this. In our early 50s with children gone, we were finding sex hard to initiate. We had both become a little bored of each other and in response I had turned to watching porn. One film I watched had a woman fastening her partner into a cock cage. I became surprisingly excited by this and wanted to know more. I found a video of a woman talking through why she puts her husband in chastity and how good the sex is when he is released.
I wondered what it must be like to wear a chastity device? Why did these men allow their partners to lock them up? They were passing total control of their sex life to their partner. The device stopped them masturbating, they could only have sex when their partner decided and could only be released when their partner agreed. The more I thought about it, the more excited I became. Giving that control to my wife felt exciting, exciting in a way that challenged the boring sameness we were experiencing in our sex life.
I got so excited about wondering what it would feel like to be locked in chastity that I decided to buy a device and try to fit it to myself. I ordered one quietly and had it delivered to a local post office. I have a stash of my private things and after unwrapping, I stored it in my stash. In quiet moments I started to try it on, usually behind a locked door in the bathroom. I found it more difficult to get on than expected. The video showed the women putting the ring on the cock first and then easing the balls through the ring. I just couldn't do that. My balls wouldn't go into that space. I started to look at other examples. In my frustration I got careless and failed to store the device properly.
One morning I was summoned up to our bedroom to be accosted by my wife holding the device. She had been cleaning the bathroom and had found it. She demanded to know what it was. I told her it was a chastity device, a cock cage and tried to explain what it was for. I could see she was not listening, not comprehending. I think the thought that any man would submit to having his cock locked up, never mind actually trying to do it himself, was incomprehensible. I calmed her down and persuaded her to watch the video of the wife explaining why she locks her husband up and why he loves it. My wife remained silent as the video ran.
Her immediate response was to check that I really did want this. I said I did and what is more I fantasized about being locked up by her. I pointed out how good the sex can be on relief and I wanted to experience that. Clearly she was amazed and agreed to think about it.
Later that night when we were in bed together she talked the whole conversation through with me. She had clearly been influenced by the wife's video. She checked I was happy to go ahead which I confirmed. As I drifted off to sleep, I was hopeful she was prepared to fulfil my fantasy.
We agreed to give it a go the following Saturday. I showed her the video on how a cock cage could be fitted and shared with her how I was struggling to fit it in the way it was shown. We started putting my cock through the ring first but we couldn't squeeze either ball through the remaining space. Together we tried again but we couldn't get my balls through the ring and the O ring behind my ball sack. The efforts always ended in pain for me with my balls being squeezed so much that I had to stop until they had recovered.