I've been married for a long time now and into my fifty's I have a beautiful and loving wife who is my champion in more than a way, we have had ups and downs and rough patches I cannot deny, but if I look back all in all she has been and is, a wonderful person. We have always been very open in our thoughts and needs, but at the same time respectful and only pushing limits to the edge or just past it, when we knew we could.
Some time ago one of the down turns we started having in addition to our age and life matters was the loss of sexual contact and when my wife finally got fed up she gave it a twist and changed our lives. I'll tell you after these changes. There was no way back... never again. My wife had told me some of her sexual activities when we became a couple. And somehow we never got into it because maybe it just was not there or we did not have the need for it, whatever. Anyway things sometimes come upon us when they are ripe and this is the story about that moment and how it started.
My wife woke up one morning somewhat disturbed to say the least, it was Saturday and she got out of bed and asked me to join her for breakfast, which I did.
Once the coffee cups were served she looked at me for a while and was about to open her mouth and held back, her face looked as if she was here and now, but also abstracted in a thought or somewhere else. I just waited not knowing what to expect.
"Rob, we are having problems with our sexual life and mine in particular." Andrea started and when I opened my mouth, she cut me off before I could say a word.
"Let me finish what I have to say, before you decide if you want to carry on with me."
"What?" I said, to myself. Now becoming fully awake.
"You now I love you, but our sex life has vanished for whatever reason and I'm not blaming you, it's the both of us. Now I want to recover it with you, but if you do not follow suit I'm getting it somewhere else."
"What?" I said.
She put a finger on my lips, with the obvious meaning.
"Somehow the loss of sexual appetite we have had, has triggered my need to dominate again and it burns inside me and will not back off. You know my former life before knowing you, well I need it back and I truly want it with you. I know this is a shock to you here and now, but it's the only way to go, I'm not turning back, will you commit to me in this new way of life?"
"Speaking of coming up front. This did not just jump at you yesterday, did it?"
"No it didn't , but the moment to tell you yes. I do know you have an interest for it, your computer search has showed it to me, since we do not hide things from each other, I felt ok going through it and mentioning this also. The main difference now would be that from an online third party as you have been you will be the one feeling it on your own body and mind. Don't you find that inviting?"
"Well it's sex with more kink and domination, which will spice up our life, so yes I'm in for it."
"Dear it is much more than that, if you agree, then you become mine in body and mind, for the rest of our sexual life, my needs fulfilled firstly, of course I will take care of yours also. Then as time goes by we will see if it extends to other parts of our relationship."
"So do I have choices in how we have sex?"
"I'll take care of you, but no, you no longer decide, you can request and suggest, but it will be up to me if I do allow it."
"You know I love you, so we could give it a try."
"Yes I know you love me, I count on that also, and that will make it much easier for us. You will very soon understand the difference when I said you are mine and that I own your body and mind."
"So everything changes?"
"Yes it does love, you no longer decide anything in our sex life, I make the calls, if you do not obey there are consequences. From now on between us you are my slave and I'm your Mistress. There will be kinks you will like more than others, and some not at all. As we go along, we might drop some kinks and acquire others"
"Ok love, so if that seems fixed, now what?" I said, knowing that I love her and open for the ride.
"When we are in a D/s mode you have no other choice to call me Mistress and I will point out when we go into it and when we are out of it. When I call you slave or some other name which I may come up with you will know your place and when called Rob we go back to normal."
She looked at me and said, "Do you understand, slave?"
"Yes Mistress." I said and it sounded strange to my ears.
"Now get on your knees."
I did as told and looked at her, she had just got her panty down and came before me.