Ever have an event happen only once in your life that you think about fondly for years -- maybe decades even? I had it happen to me once; and only once. However, the endorphins that flood my brain every time that I think about it allow me to revisit it regularly, each time almost half as good as the real thing. It also changed my attitude about life and what I wanted out of it. I changed from discontent to passionate.
I was basically a normal guy, living a normal life in a normal part of the country (a suburb of a big city), with a normal lackluster job and with a normal libido. My wife of six years, Cindy was also basically normal, although most people would probably think that she is better looking than I am. She had a job that she liked much more than I liked mine, and about the same normal libido as me. Cindy travelled a little bit in her job but I didn't really travel for work. When we went on vacation it was normally to someplace warm in the wintertime.
My two sisters and I had been brought up with a "give-back-to-the-community" credo, deeply instilled in us by our parents, who both volunteered regularly for good causes. I did some once-in-a-while volunteer work for environmental groups and women's shelters, and once a year went door-to-door in our neighborhood to raise money for The March of Dimes. However, my regular volunteer work was most Saturdays at the local food bank, stocking shelves, helping clients get their groceries to their cars or the bus, receiving and sorting donations, and anything else necessary to help. My co-workers at the food bank are all truly nice and charitable people, mostly women but a few other guys.
The marriage of Blake (me) and Cindy was so-so; we didn't fight much although if I had a stronger personality we probably would have when Cindy complained that I wasn't ambitious enough, and pooh-poohed my volunteer work. I tried to get her to help in some of my charitable endeavors with little success. The sex was acceptable in frequency and intensity -- not earth-shattering, but not bad. However, whenever I allowed myself to think about it except for my volunteer work my life had no substance to it, and I was discontent.
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A woman by the name of Jean is co-chair of the food bank. She is one of the most pleasant people that I have ever met in my life, and I can't help but feel good when I'm around her. I speculated that she is about ten years older than my twenty eight (at the critical point of my story). She has a beautiful face that doesn't need makeup to look great, and in fact I have never seen her with makeup on at the food bank. Form the first day I met her I thought that her body looked very nice, even if marginally heavy, although not completely discernable in the unflattering work clothes that she normally wears.
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When I was canvassing for the March of Dimes one warm pre-spring day, I finished the area that I had been assigned about an hour early, ending up across the street from the nicest neighborhood in our suburb. I made a call to the local headquarters and found out that that neighborhood had no volunteer working it, so I decided to spend my "free" hour drumming up donations there.
I was politely received at the first four houses, although only two gave me donations, and at a level that was way below what the value of the houses would indicate. The fifth house, more magnificent than the first four (a mansion even), was different.
The door was answered by a woman who looked to be in her sixties and who introduced herself as Mabel Braxton in response to my greeting "Hi; I'm Blake Bentsen, a neighbor who's a volunteer for The March of Dimes." She invited me in.
Once we were seated in her ornate yet very tasteful living room Mabel offered me a cup of tea, which a maid shortly delivered. She asked about the mission of The March of Dimes. I told her "We have two main focuses. The first is a comprehensive initiative to preclude preventable preterm birth, with a focus on reducing elective deliveries before 39 weeks gestation. The second is funding lifesaving research and lobbying for legislation that improves care for moms and babies." She started gently crying.
I offered her my handkerchief and sat next to her. "What's wrong, Mabel?"
"Last year I lost a premature granddaughter. I still grieve about that. I've had a hard time not blaming myself for not pushing my daughter to get better pre-natal care," she replied between whimpers.
I offered a sympathetic ear to Mabel, and held her hand, for the next hour. By the time that I was getting ready to leave her mood had improved significantly. With a big smile she gave me a check for $5,000 made out to the March of Dimes, and then hit me with "Blake, I think that volunteers like you really make a difference and don't get enough recognition. I'm on the Board of Trustees of the Metropolitan Museum, and we're having our fifty year gala celebration about three and a half weeks from today. The event is going to be a blast, and the tickets are $1000 per couple, but I'm like to comp you and your wife." With that she reached into a desk drawer and pulled out two free passes to the event. "Please come -- that would make me happy."
"WOW," I exclaimed, truly bowled over. I had recently read an article in the Metro section of the newspaper about what a blow-out event it would be. Upon looking at the tickets more carefully I gulped and replied "I would love to go, Mabel, but it's black tie and I don't have a tuxedo, and don't expect to have need for one in the future."
"I've got that handled too," she laughed as she pulled out a free tuxedo rental chit from another part of her drawer. "I'm sorry that I don't have a gown rental coupon for your wife, but I'm sure she can find something suitable to wear. The dress for women is a lot more forgiving than for men."
"Thank you soooo much, Mabel," I gushed as I gave her a big hug.
She chuckled "Don't crush me in expressing your gratitude -- and it's the least I can do to reward you for your charitable work and for cheering me up."
Because of the time that I spent with Mabel I got home a significantly later than I had planned. We were supposed to meet some of Cindy's friends for dinner, and she was not in a good mood. I quickly showered and changed, and we left in time to be only ten minutes late. I tried to cheer Cindy up by telling her about the large donation that I got from Mabel -- which Cindy made it clear she didn't give a shit about -- and the Gala tickets -- which she had only mild interest in.
The evening did not go as badly as I had feared, although I was nonplussed by one of her male co-workers, Tad, being a little too flirty with Cindy even though his wife and I were right there. Once we got home it actually went well; we made love that night. Actually, we were both aggressive enough -- especially Cindy -- that I guess that it wasn't really making love, but it was two of the best fucks I had had in some time, and if Cindy's reactions were real, for her too.
I'm glad that we had that night, because from then until the Gala the sex was infrequent and uninspiring.
The next ten days I did my best to try and get Cindy to commit to going to the Metropolitan Museum's 50th Anniversary Gala. I had zero success. I couldn't believe that she wasn't interested in it, although she did feign some curiosity. The 11th day of my attempt to get a commitment she hit me with "Blake -- the event is on Wednesday the 17th, right?"
"Yes -- starting about 6:30 p. m.," I replied.
"I'm sorry, but I have to go out of town the morning of the 17th until the night of Friday the 19th. You can go yourself or find someone else to go with you, can't you?" Cindy said/asked.
I was very disappointed, but for sure I was going to go. "I'm really sorry, Cindy, but I'll see if my Mom, one of my sisters, or Bernadette can go with me," I replied. Bernadette is a widow who is a friend of Cindy's and very pleasant, even if not very attractive.
"I'm sure that you'll have a wonderful time, Blake," she fake gushed.
That was the last that we talked about the Gala.
Finding someone to go with me wasn't as easy as I thought that it would be. When my Mom, both my sisters, and Bernadette all had previous engagements, no interest, or the inability to get away, I started thinking of other options. A light bulb came on in my head -- Jean.
The next Saturday at the food bank, I made sure to stay late to help Jean close the place up. As we were about to leave I said "Say, Jean -- there's something I want to talk to you about."
"Shoot, Blake," she smiled.
"I have two free tickets to the Metropolitan Museum's 50th Anniversary Gala on Wednesday the 17th. It's a black tie event that's supposed to be a blowout," I said, making only fleeting eye contact because I was a little nervous.
"I've heard about it -- I hear that it's going to be a great event," she chortled.
That steeled my resolve.
"Well my wife is out of town and my sisters and Mom can't make it, and I don't want to go without female companionship. Is it possible that your husband would relinquish you for that night and allow you to accompany me?"
"My husband isn't the jealous type, although I'm sure he that he'd raise an eyebrow or two if I told him that a handsome young man had asked me out," she chuckled.
"Does she really think that I'm handsome?" flashed through my brain, giving me an inward smile.