After years of marriage, we still have trouble talking frankly about sex and our individual desires. She can do without sex quite easily, and for pretty long periods of time. I, on the other hand, get accused of being weird and overly horny. All that aside, Barb made an effort to be more receptive after I finally told her how much I missed sex and how dissatisfied I was with our minimal love life.
She is sleeping nude with me now, and she enjoys cuddling up skin to skin in the early morning hours. I encourage her to fondle my cock and balls, and she enjoys feeling my morning hard on. Last summer, she occasionally left her one-piece suit in the drawer and skinny dipped with me in our pool. It was fun to watch her in the clear water and play around while holding onto her float. She even became comfortable enough to water her plants around our deck wearing nothing but a pair of flip flops.
Recently, I took another step. I bought my wife a DVD. The title was something like "Sex after 50 for women." The point of the numerous explicit scenes and the therapist's comments was that sex could be even better for a married lady, if she would rid herself of the many myths that inhibit so many mature women.
I had been slowly encouraging Barb to loosen up and enjoy our empty nest more. She responded, so leaving the DVD in her chair as I left for the day was just another step in my plan. I was not sure if she would watch it or not, but I was hoping her curiosity would get the better of her.
The first thing I noticed when I returned was that the DVD was no longer in the chair. Did she become angry and throw my gift in the trash? Did she watch it and then toss it? Did she watch and try some of the suggestions, like masturbating with one of our sex toys?
I checked the DVD player and found the disc was there, so I knew that Barb had watched some or all of it. I was surprised to find that she was not at home. Her car was in the garage, so I figured that she was next door chatting with our neighbor, Sandra. The pool looked inviting, so I decided to slip out of my clothes and take a quick dip.
The cool water felt good as I sank down to my chin and jammed the end of a float under me. Later, I dried off quickly and went inside to pour a glass of wine. I was sitting nude on my towel in a deck chair, sipping wine, when Barb opened the back door and joined me. The glass in her hand told me that she and Sandra had been into the wine next door. Barb smiled down at me and poured herself another glass.
"You look comfortable," she teased.
"I am comfortable," I replied as I waited for her reaction to my gift DVD.
"Well, I found your latest purchase this morning," she began. "Why do you think I need more sex instruction?"
I thought for a minute. My answer could turn her off or cause a scene if I said the wrong thing. "I just thought it might answer some issues for you. I want you to have all the pleasures life can provide and I want you to know that I am always here to help."
"You already do plenty," she scoffed. "like sitting out here stark naked on our deck."
"You are welcome to join me," I challenged. "It feels so nice, you know."
"I think I will," she shot back, and began to unbutton her blouse. A few moments later, she draped a spare towel over the other chair and plopped down across from me. She sat naked, sipping her wine and looking at me. "How's this?"
"Perfect," I told her as I drank in the beauty of her slender form and small pink nipples.
We sat quietly for a few minutes, each in our own thoughts. I waited for her to continue the conversation. "I told Sandra that you had bought me a porno DVD," Barb finally stated flatly.
"It is more of an instructional video, honey. There's nothing lewd or pornographic about it. Sure, there are naked couples demonstrating various positions and such, but there's nothing that married adults cannot accept. At least I don't think so."
"That's pretty much what Sandra said," Barb admitted. "In fact, she told me that she and Dan like to watch porno movies sometime. She said the movies arouse both of them and no harm done."
"I like her attitude," I quickly agreed. "I'm just a little surprised to hear that they ever watch pornography. Dan seems like such a straight arrow."
Barb chuckled. "From what Sandra told me, I'd say that they are both pretty adventurous in bed. Dan has a sexy side too, unless Sandra was just blowing smoke."
"So, what did you think about the DVD?" I finally asked. "Did you get anything out of it?"
Barb laughed out loud. "I got a wet pussy out of it, for one thing. It was pretty wild seeing people our age and older getting it on. Regular porno movies feature young models and stud muffins, so what you bought was entirely different."
"I was hoping that you would enjoy hearing about other mature couples and seeing what they enjoy. Maybe we can try some of that stuff. Maybe tonight," I replied hopefully.
"Oh? Like what?"
"Well, I'd like to watch you masturbate with one of our toys. You always make me hold the vibrator and do it for you. I'd like to see you do it all by yourself."
Barb tilted her head to one side. "Do you jack off, Ken? I mean other than when you stroke your cock when you get ready to put it in?"
