(Author's note: partially based off an episode of House Hunters International in which the person looking for an apartment and her realtor were just a little too friendly. Hope you enjoy!)
[Mary 6:08 pm]: Sam!! Guess what?
[Sam 6:10 pm]: What?!
[Mary 6:15 pm]: So, you know how my boss had talked about a position in Berlin opening up soon?
[Sam 6:18 pm]: Yeah...what about it?
[Mary 6:20 pm]: They offered it to me today! I'm moving to Berlin in June!
[Sam 6:22 pm]: AHHHHH!!!! That's amazing!!!! Together again at last!!
[Mary 6:25 pm]: YAS!! You can even help me find a place to live.
[Sam 6:30 pm]: On. It.
When my college advisor had first mentioned a study abroad program in Germany to me, I wasn't so sure about it. I had never been out of the States before and, in fact, the three hours between my parents house and my dorm was the furthest I had ever lived away from my family. So, to spend an entire 10 months away on an entirely different continent was a little overwhelming. Add to it that I had only taken two beginning courses in German and had done it mostly on a whim to complete the language requirement and I was almost ready to decline immediately. Instead, I said, "I'll think about it."
That night, I went home and thought about it. Yes, it was big and scary, but it was also a great opportunity for me. Plus, hadn't I left my small hometown because I wanted to explore and push my limits. What better way to do that than to go live in a different country? The next day, I emailed my advisor, telling her that, despite my fears, I would apply for the program. To this day, I'm thankful I did because, without it, I wouldn't have met Sam.
Sam was another exchange student from the states and we were paired as roommates with three other girls in exchange student housing. While all five grew close over those 10 months, the connection between Sam and I grew much closer. Sam and I did practically everything together. We took the same classes, studied together, went to the same parties, and were travel buddies on weekends. When everyone else left for Christmas break, we spent time decorating the apartment and watching all the cheesy Christmas movies we could. We became inseparable friends. By the time we had to return to our separate colleges in different states, Sam had become my best friend who I could confide in no matter what. There were even a few times I could feel the tension between us, a spark that said that there could be something more there. It made sense. Sam was my type with her blonde curly hair and beautiful blue eyes. I could tell that she was into me too. Still, we never acted on it, remaining nothing more than just really good friends. It made sense at the time. We were only living in the same city for ten months. Afterwards, we'd be going back to our respective colleges across the country from each other.
Over the years, we made sure to keep in touch. We chatted almost constantly through either email, text, or online messaging. We visited each other a few times during college and when we got our first jobs and real money. But when she moved to Berlin to work at a real estate agency that focused on ex-patriates, the occasional trips stopped. Neither of us could afford the cross-Atlantic flights. It was also around that time that our careers took off and sucked away our free time, leaving us less time to chat. We still kept in touch and found little bits of time here and there on FaceTime, but it wasn't at the same intensity or frequency as before. I had come to really miss Sam.
So, when she was there to greet me at the airport a few weeks after I first messaged her my news, my heart almost exploded from the sheer joy of seeing her in person again. We took the next few days to sightsee and allow me to get settled and used to the time difference. We hit all the famous tourist spots as well as some of Sam's favorite less well-known places. Soon, we fell back into our old routines and began acting as if no time had passed between us. My heart began to fill with the warmth I had felt all those years ago having Sam as my roommate.
After a few days of sightseeing, the apartment hunting began. Sam had pulled a list of apartments available in the areas I wanted to live in that matched both my wishlist of amenities and budget. Each day, we'd visit anywhere between two and four, taking breaks for coffee or snacks in between to discuss the pros and cons of each. At first, I had been optimistic that I'd find something fairly easy since my budget was fairly high and my list of requirements wasn't that long. But with each day passing without finding anything suitable, my hope for a quick find began to diminish. If Sam hadn't been by my side, I don't know how I could have made it through it all.
On the sixth day of apartment hunting, I met Sam at a cafe early for some coffee before starting. I had woken up optimistic, as if today was going to bring something amazing despite the utter lack of success so far.
"Hey! You ready?" Sam said as she pulled me in for a hug. Today, she was wearing a white sweater, a pleated gold skirt reaching the top of her brown ankle boots.